How can I get him to see how nasty he is when depressed?
Q. Mod note: OP'S own title: My partner gets very down and can be very nasty about simple things. I mentioned that I would like to take my son, 12, camping for a couple of nights. He started telling us off and saying how ridiculous this was and how ...
A. 30 July 2010: Our relationship has spanned 5 years and I have been through heavy times with him such as his divorce when he was suicidal. I am going to get my son helping more and I am also going to ask him to be specific about what success in this situation ... (read in full...)
Have I fallen out of love due to the stress or do I just need some time?
Q. I have been dating my b/f for 2 years. He was recently divorced when we met and I pretty much got dragged through the baggage of the aftermath. I also let him live with me, pretty much for nothing until he got on his feet so other than odd jobs ...
A. 28 July 2010: I have been throug hte same. I expect he turned on you when he was stressed and was unkind because of his own unhappiness? People are often very selfish then and seem to feed off other people's strength. It is tiring and the relationship becaomes ... (read in full...)
Is he just being nice, or is he confused?
Q. So confused! Dated this great guy for several months. Things were going great. I think he got scared b/c he told me he needed to take some time to think about the relationship (he did say he cared about me). After a few days, I get an email ...
A. 13 July 2010: Say you feel a bit bad about it but since you last saw him you have a bit busy and sorry you don’t have time to reply much. Sort of - don't take it personally and see you around. I don't think he will persue you again but at least you will have the ... (read in full...)
Fiance Web Cam (Cheating?)
Q. I am a divorced mother with two young children (2 and 7) and I have been in a two year committed relationship with a great guy. He has been single for ten years and is 41 without kids and I was only single about six months after my divorce when we ...
A. 2 July 2010: Well you have to speak to him about this. It simply isn’t on and you know it really. It could be his fatal flaw. I once dated a man and my little boy and his daughter liked each other. He was very fond of me. The only thing was he had a habit ... (read in full...)
I can't control my emotions and I'm going to lose my boyfriend because of it!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much but I can't control my emotions. One minute iam happy with him and the next I just want him to leave. He doesn't do anything the majority of the time to make me angry. He tries to make it work, I feel like iam pushing him ...
A. 1 July 2010: Something pushes the button. You need to now what it is. As him to help you work it out. It could be anything at all: Something your family caused – do they argue a lot? Criticism Telling you what to do Looking at another girl Asking for help... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem truly happy anymore
Q. I've been in a relationship for a little over 5 yrs and recently my man has been acting different, watching online porn secretively and trying to hide it and lie about it, getting attitudes out of nowhere and ignoring me for unknown reasons,seems to ...
A. 1 July 2010: There is no point in avoiding it. Some men act unkind instead of telling the truth because it is easier. 5 years is a long time at your age. I hope you don't get hurt but perhaps it is time to know what is going on in his head. If he will say. ... (read in full...)
Are warts contagious?
Q. My boyfriend recently discovered he has a wart on his thumb. Shortly after without realising he fingered me. Will i get warts in my vagina? please help!...
A. 15 June 2010: That you will have to get some lotion applied to remove them. Get your usual smear tests and have the HPV jab as well. Normal house keeping for us women. Most people get exposed to this virus at some time in life and it gets wrapped around our ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to do this while sleepwalking?
Q. Well basicly last wednesday i discoverd a sex site in my fiance's name, emial adress, pic and even his regular password(all of which i knew). obviously i confronted him, and he said he knew about the site and had been trying to get rid of it for ...
A. 15 June 2010: Well he has done it and it was not you! You must be really upset to try to convince yourself otherwise. (My man did too). He may not want to say and it doesn't make him bad. It took a lot of explanation and discussion for me to get mine to under... (read in full...)
Are warts contagious?
Q. My boyfriend recently discovered he has a wart on his thumb. Shortly after without realising he fingered me. Will i get warts in my vagina? please help!...
A. 15 June 2010: You won't see anything for a while if he has passed the virus to you. It will take a few weeks or months to come up as a ilttle rough lump or two but please don't worry. It isn't dirty or bad that this happened and it can be quickly sorted out. ... (read in full...)
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