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Our one-year anniversary is coming up, but we seem to have lost the spark...

Q.   My boyfriend and will be dating for a year on the 21.08.05. but the thing is that we have lost the spark we had in the beginning of our relationship. Any ideas on how to bring that spark back?...

A.   10 August 2005: don't look at the past. you must look to the future and find a deeper more meanful spark, you've got alot on people that are just dating you've been together a year thats great don't forget what you've been through talk and remember the good times ... (read in full...)

Any attempt at sex makes me squirm with discomfort. What's wrong with me?

Q.   Hey I've been having this problem for quite some time now. I know that I don't fancy girls, I fancy boys, but despite that I don't get 'turned on' when heavy petting with a guy. I have tried to have sex on several occasions with my ex who was also...

A.   10 August 2005: i was very similar to you not even a tampon was going anywhere near me my legs would completly tighten up and nothing would prize them apart, my mum would say you never gonna have sex if you can only open your legs that wide! its a matter of ... (read in full...)

He's not as affectionate as he once was. Should I cheat to make him more interested in me?

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't call me or visit as much as he used to. He tells me he loves me but these days his actions makes me doubt him. He also doesn't kiss me that much anymore as well. I'm beginning to think that there might be someone else but he's...

A.   10 August 2005: no thats silly, as a women sex is so much more to us as its someone inside us that is precious you will feel silly after. you are better off hiring a dective if you think your mans cheating. if you want to be with someone that gives you more of ... (read in full...)

Should I date a good friend?

Q.   Is it a good idea to get into a relationship with a friend who you have known for a few years but have always liked more since you met them?...

A.   10 August 2005: the anwser is YES YES YES, the foundation for a good realationship is friendship. also if you don't get together with your friend of the opposite sex your future partner probadly won't like you hanging out with them all the time especially if you ... (read in full...)

I get mixed signals from my best friend's sister, but I'm interested...

Q.   I like a girl who is 5 years my senior. She gives me mixed signals. She is also my best friend's sister. Should I tell her? ...

A.   10 August 2005: women do like playing with mens minds more so if they sure you like them. you have to ask her one day if she would like to go on a date. the worst that can happen is she will say no and you just say cool no harm trying. if your friend is a true ... (read in full...)

Should I get in contact with the guy I knew 2 years ago, who I can't stop thinking of?

Q.   I have a major problem...well, maybe it's not as major as other people's but there's a guy that's constantly on my mind and I want to talk to him but he lives 4 and 1/2 hours away and I haven't talked to him in almost 2 years. I can't stop thinking ...

A.   10 August 2005: you have to think long and hard how you gradually lost contact that should give you an anwser! for example if you think back and you were calling him and he was nice enough to you but never called YOU to chat or see how you were. if he did call you, ... (read in full...)

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