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Are there any circumstances where it's OK to hit someone?

Q.   Can anyone please tell me if there are ever circumstances where it is understandable to hit a woman? Picture a scene of a grump, overweight and lazy woman who constantly nags her husband when he comes in from work, shattered. She won't leave hi...

A.   9 June 2005: What the hell is the matter with your mouth? It doesn't sound like you love this woman it sounds like you have her for a blanket. You only want her around you when it makes you feel good. Have you ever tried listening to her and do the things that ... (read in full...)

Do I have a future with my boyfriend, even though we're not intellectually matched?

Q.   My boyfriend is not a bright person. When we watch movies for example I usually have to explain what is going on in the movie several times, even though he has been watching in silence. He says he has trouble following plots. Can someone have a ...

A.   9 June 2005: Why would you say that he is not bright? Here's an analogy; if you are good in accounts and he can sell a shirt off of his back you can have the perfect business but if you both could only sell or do accounts your business would flop. Balance. You ... (read in full...)

The dance teacher has a no-dating rule for parents, but I want to ask him out...

Q.   I am 38 years old and I have 2 children. I was widowed 5 years ago and really haven't dated. My daughter and I have been taking dance lessons for the past 2 years. I was thought the teacher was a good looking man but recently I have been attracted ...

A.   9 June 2005: Just ask him out. What can he do? Throw you and your daughter out of his class? I think you're making a mountain out of an anthill.... (read in full...)

The sex is great, but neither of us can find my girlfriend's clitoris!

Q.   HELP! I have been in a loving relationship with my girlfriend for several years. In all that time sex has been great but for one thing, my girlfriend never has an orgasm. She tells me she doesnt have a clitoris...neither of us can locate it. ...

A.   9 June 2005: Clitoral stimulation is only one way to orgasm. You need to stop looking for her clitoris and look for her G-Spot. The best orgasms are from G-Spot stimulation. If you insert your index finger into your mate's vagina and move your finger in a come ... (read in full...)

We're getting close to having sex for the first time, and I'm not confident at all!

Q.   I'm a 24 year old female and I've been with my boyfriend who's 25 for 6 weeks now. I really feel like we're at the stage where we are about to have sex for the first time. I really do want this to happen but at the same time I'm scared. I have sle...

A.   9 June 2005: You need to love yourself. So what if you have some rolls. You met him that way so he must like women with a little meat on their bones. Not every man wants a slim woman. Most men like a lil cushion for the pushin you know what I mean. Get sexy ... (read in full...)

My job was so exhausting that I pushed my g/f away. Now I just want her back!

Q.   I started going out with a girl from uni in 2004, everything was great, we were the best of friends, we went out and spent time with each other and just things a normal couple would do. Then one day, while I was at uni, I received a call from an o...

A.   9 June 2005: You never realize what you had until it's gone right? I understand that you want her back but you can't have her. She has a man now. You waited too late. Sometimes in life we do dumb things but we gatta move on.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't understand what it's like to be a poor student and in debt!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have lived pretty seperate lifestyles before we met. I come from an extremely poor family and never have had money or really lots of things besides school and work since i had to help my mom pay the bills..ect... Anyway...

A.   9 June 2005: This problem will never be resolved if you and your girlfriend don't talk about it. You don't have to get hit upside your head with a brick to know that it hurts.... (read in full...)

We broke up, but we still act like a couple. Sometimes.

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently broke up. During our relationship we experienced many problems such as jealousy, trust, and so on. We both realized that we loved each other but we needed time to grow and mature. The problem is that we still do the kinds ...

A.   9 June 2005: Do you not value yourself? Girl you just a booty call. YOu need to talk to this man and have some finalization of the relationship. Leave him alone and stay single for awhile. Love you first.... (read in full...)

I'd like his friends to be my friends, too, but will that look odd?

Q.   I want to be friends with my boyfriend's friends but I don't want to make it seem like I'm flirting with them. Everytime we're in a group, I go silent because I don't really know any of his friends. I'd like to get to know them but I only com...

A.   9 June 2005: I have bad news. It will always be like that. You will always be ______ girlfriend. Put yourself in his shoes. Do you want your man hangin out with you and your girls? Give him his down time. Put more time into building your own friendships ... (read in full...)

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