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How did any of you in a threeway relationship go about it? (We are NOT talking about threesomes here.)

Q.   We are a gay couple that are looking for a real third to join us. We are not looking for a thresome but a real relationship that will last. A threeway relationship. We can not find anything out there to help us search. Everyone just wants threeway ...

A.   4 February 2010: Thanks so much. I guess thats what I know in my heart. I would tell that to myself if I were someone else. Funny how we need someone else to say it to us. Your right. I/We need to chill. Nothing worse than getting with the wrong person. We will know ... (read in full...)

Why is everything I'm doing to make myself happier always so stupid?

Q.   What is this indicating for my future? My boyfriend of over three years and I have been discussing marriage and babies for about a year now. And every time I tell him I want to work as well to bring in a second income and have only two or three ...

A.   4 February 2010: Girl, been there done that with my partner. We got through it but it was hell. This isn't going to change. Not unless he can see it and the chance are slim to none. You won't be able to tell him either becuase "your stupid". Look he is insecure. He ... (read in full...)

Why am I so tired all the time?

Q.   So I am constantly tired and I can not figure out why. I mean I get a fairly good amount of sleep(from 10 till 6) Its like it is very hard to last through the day even when I am trying to prepare for my online test, its impossible for me to stay a...

A.   4 February 2010: Yes go to a doctor. Could be enimic or dibeties if you are drinking a lot of water. My sister had this happen in to her. Go get it checked out right away.... (read in full...)

Why do I not fancy boys my own age?

Q.   Hey Everyone (: Okay so i have a little problem. I fancy one of the teachers in my school :/ and for some reason i dont like any boys my age :/ which all my friends find weird. i was just wondering if people know why this is?!...

A.   4 February 2010: Very well put. Yes, you are in like with the idea of the what the man should be. The boys aren't cutting it. They will in time.... (read in full...)

Is it bad of me to want to do more with him?

Q.   me and my bf have been going out out for two months, but the most we have done is hug once - when he asked me out - and been to the cinema with his friends. Is it bad of me to want to do more with him? it's starting to feel as if we are more like ...

A.   4 February 2010: Really? Two months? Well, he might be gay or not like you like that or he might be the perfect guy and is protecting your relationship. Its not bad of you to want to do more with him after all you like him. But for goodness sake don't push it. ... (read in full...)

Why is he blanking me all the time?

Q.   I really like this person , im madly in love with him. We have both admitted how we both like each other but for the past couple weeks everythings been going downhill. We hardly talk to one another and when we get the chance hes always avoiding it. ...

A.   3 February 2010: Moving on or scared becuse this is something real and not an image in his mind. But the reaction should be the same. Just leave him alone. Don't be rude. Don't prove a point. Just do your stuff. He will either come back or go away. Don't push him. ... (read in full...)

How can someone get over someone?

Q.   How can someone get over someone when it hurts really bad? I'm in deep pain.. I hurt and I feel my life is on hold. I just miss him all the time and he doesn't want to even talk to me. He doesn't respond to my calls or texts.. He took advantage of ...

A.   3 February 2010: Yep the way to stop it is to stop it. Your whole body and mind will say no no no no but you have to if you want to get better. Don't feed the hurt. Cut it off and replace it with something different - not something that looks just like it. Move on ... (read in full...)

Office teasing/bullying makes me paranoid...

Q.   So I really like were I work. I'm also bisexual, but not openly so. But the work place is non-western and very homophobic. there are obviously gay guys working there but no-one mentions it or brings it up in front of them a bit like an elephant in ...

A.   3 February 2010: Well here is your problem. You are trying to be nice. And I am sure you are. But your trying to be so nice to everyone else that you are creating problems for yourself which makes you not nice on the inside which will come out on the outside. ... (read in full...)

Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???

Q.   I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...

A.   3 February 2010: It sounds like to me that you have a lot of ideals in your mind. That is a good thing. It puts you above the general rat race. However they can also stand in your way. One can become so strong in your standards that you judge your way or question ... (read in full...)

Needing to talk to others that are in a 3 way relationship!!

Q.   I have been in a gay relationship for 18 years(since the age of 16). We are very happy and committed and loyal. 3 years ago, a younger man entered our lives and turned it upside down. We both fell in love with him and fought desperately for it not ...

A.   3 February 2010: I have been looking all over to try and find people, person, anything that can talk to me about Threeway relationship. Me and my partner of 8 years would like to add a third to us. We are gay and are having a horrid time in the gay comunity finding ... (read in full...)

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