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I need space and he won't give it to me!

Q.   Ok, I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We first met each other in high school, about 11yrs ago and got reacquainted on FB a few months ago. Everything was going well in the beginning, but lately, everything he does just seem to ...

A.   7 November 2010: You already told him and he still continued. So the best thing to do is ignore him. He'll question this and say you're ignoring him until he stops what's he's doing. he'll have to understand it that way. x ... (read in full...)

Do I tell my boyfriend his friend hit on me?

Q.   My boyfriends Friend made move on me, and ididnt say nothing to him but iwanna tell my boyfriend I don't know if ishould because he gets mad quick help me!...

A.   6 November 2010: no need to get your bf involved. Handle the guy yourself but if he gets forceful and pressuring then tell your bf so he could protect you and sort him out in a man to man way. ... (read in full...)

My christain boyfriend said no sex,kissin and touching in our relationship and I don't really go down well with it.

Q.   Am 18 and my bf is 21,we met through a dating site weeks ago and fell madly inlove wt each other{though we are in a LDR}. .so we were talking yesterday and he was telling me that he is a christian and don't want us to be having sex,kissin,or even ...

A.   6 November 2010: it's either he just wants to be friends with you or he's strictly a christian. But try and go along with it, he may change his mind in time. Kissing and touching is something that one does naturally to one another and it's to express your lov... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx...

A.   6 November 2010: Question is... do you want a threesome because even though the friend would just be watching it kind of is a threesome. But I wouldn't do it if I were you because it may lead into something more and yet to come.. of something you wouldn't like. ... (read in full...)

I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him

Q.   I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay ...

A.   6 November 2010: it may be different seeing someone physically in real life compared to a photograph. Perhaps you're shocked and not used to his outlook. I think you should give it time first considering you like his personality and who he is. then you would accept ... (read in full...)

I'm pretty, why don't I have a boyfriend when ugly fat girls have one?

Q.   All of my friends continue to tell me to ask outthe guy I've liked for 6 years. They continue to say I'm pretty and the refer to me as the 'hot one.' I do believe I'm pretty, but, these over weight, ugly, and mean girls have boyfriends, yet I have n...

A.   6 November 2010: Because you need to be more confident and they may have a better personality than you do. Looks do help and can be to your advantage but if you got no personality or brains behind it then you're not going to get noticed. You would... but nothing can ... (read in full...)

Did he just want to sleep with me?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about a month and last weekend, we got together. Eveything seemed be going all fine. but since last friday I havent heard from him. I texted him and he txted me like a day later and then when I texted him back...I ...

A.   6 November 2010: Don't keep in contact and see whether or not he keeps in contact with you. If he hasn't in a whole week then you know your answer. if you guys were contacting each other often (before sex) and after sex he isn't then he did just want to sleep wi... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other ...

A.   6 November 2010: The only thing I disagree with is him being in Afghanistan and like one of the posts said, you're not in his priority. and the long distant. long distant relationships are very hard and if you love him enough to go through with it then take a ... (read in full...)

She has not contacted me in 9 days, do I move on?

Q.   i met a girl and fell for eachother straight away, she moved into my place and three months later got engaged. two days after the engagement she told me it was not working. she moved back home which is three hours away its been 9 days and still she ...

A.   6 November 2010: it's best to move on. She's engaged now. She's not thinking about you. She's more likely to be thinking of her engagement/marriage. Otherwise she would of contact you. And she said it wasn't working. But show her you care and contact her to m... (read in full...)

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