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My body aches all over the day after we have sex!

Q.   I have a really weird problem. I've been with my man for a few months now. Problem is the day after we have sex my body aches. My limbs feel bruised and my ribs are very painful. He's not rough with me and I understand that having sex means your ...

A.   16 October 2010: Its probably the position y'all in when y'all having sex. Just because it feels good while y'all doing it, da same time your body don't approve of it that's y u feel pain the next day. If trying a different position still causes pain u might wanna ... (read in full...)

Should I give him more time, or prove his impotence and get a divorce?

Q.   i am in a very big trouble. please help me. i got married 6 months back and my husband has not done sex with me. he always has lots of excuses for it like work,not in mood etc.sometimes even his member does not get erect or sometimes if it becomes ...

A.   16 October 2010: Your marriage sud be base on love and not just sex. I don't think getting a divorce just because y'all don't have sex or he's refusing you. U need to give it more time and investigate y he's doing well not doing what he's suppose to be. It can be so ... (read in full...)

I realized that he was watching porn as I was cooking his dinner. Why does he hurt me this way?

Q.   im with my bf 9 months now and when i got with him things werent so good as i just split up from an x things got really good and i changed everything for him how i dressed my friends and feel like a totally new person. he has accused me of looking ...

A.   16 October 2010: I kinda understand how u feel but at the same time I think ur blowing it out of portion. My bf always watch porn and I always use to get mad because I didn't understand y he wanted to look at other females even to watch them have sex, till dis day I ... (read in full...)

We broke up, I slept with his friend

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me,just up and left.A week later i slept with his friend.We got back together a couple days after that. I told him what happened,and he still can't forgive me and hates me everyday for it. I dont know if we are going to ...

A.   4 October 2010: I personally don't think it will work because u slept with his friend HIS FRIEND. How would you feel if he slept with your friend. If y'all really love each other over time it will get better but it will be hard. Even doe u didn't cheat on him while ... (read in full...)

Is it love or dependency for your husband?

Q.   I know dis female who husband cheats on her. his last mistress he actually fell in love wit. He actually left his wife, wanted a family and was getting a divorce to be with her. After the affair the mistress ended the relationship and he went back ...

A.   4 October 2010: They been 2gather for 17yrs filled for divorce twice but stopped both of dem. I believe it can work only if he's willing to meet her halfway but he won't even after leavin her twice and cheating on her. She is in denail cus she caught him with his ... (read in full...)

Cheating with married man, why do I feel its all my fault?

Q.   I have been in a situation where-as-though I messed with a married man. My intentions wasn't to get seriously involve but I did. I was told he was separated and lived by his self but all that was a lie. He made it so believeable because he always ...

A.   27 September 2010: At vin thanks for the advice and at da anonymous female of course u are like the typical female always pointing blame whether married or not married men and female cheats on der spouses. When I met him he lied about being married and when I found ... (read in full...)

Flirting with a co-worker who is involved

Q.   A coworker and I have been flirting for 3 months and I really like him. I'm not sure how he feels about me but he's mentioned to a few of our mutual friends that he's into me. Now here's the twist, he has a girlfriend he's been with for 2 years, he ...

A.   27 September 2010: All I can say men always uses da same excuse of why he don't wanna b with his gurl or wife. How bad it is in der relationship etc and the only reason why he didn't leave or break it off is always the same answers cause of his or her family, they got ... (read in full...)

I watch porn so I'll be ready for sex

Q.   I am a girl teen virgian and i like to watch porn so when i do have sex ill be ready is that weird and is in normal to masturbate?...

A.   27 September 2010: Lol watching porn doesn't make you ready to have sex you have to be ready on your own. Porn is for entertainment not an educational video. If you are thinking about having sex talk to your mother or doctor or go to dem free clinics because porn jus ... (read in full...)

Can a relationship with a big age difference really work or its just impossible.

Q.   I always liked older men atleast 3 to 8 yrs older than me. I never picture myself messing with someone 2x my age expecially someone around my mother age. In the beginning it didn't matter but to him it did because like he's was my first oldest man I ...

A.   27 September 2010: Thanks for the advice I to believe that love can conquer over anything... (read in full...)

My boyfriend playfully slapped me?

Q.   We have been together eight months. I am 22, and he is 21. We were at a party last night. Parties are not my thing at all, but I went so that we could spend time together, as we are both very busy with school during the week. I thought we were both ...

A.   26 September 2010: if u embrassed him in public he had no right to do it back to you. People do things they don't mean but if they do it out of anger or embrassment or because they were drinking don't excuse them. You say it was playfully and didn't hurt but it did ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   26 September 2010: Its best to tell him the truth because if he's really feeling you like your saying then it shouldn't be a problem expecially if you want to be in a relationship with him. It could go either way he could accept the fact that u were honest and ... (read in full...)

Any advice for an average ugly plain jane?

Q.   I'm not beautiful or thin, I'm just an average ugly plain jane, compares to the society. I finding it very hard to land a good guy. I really want to get married, I guess I'm pushing it, after all, I'm 33. I went out with the last guy, who lied and ...

A.   26 September 2010: That's the reason why u are still single. Men likes a strong, confindent and determined women. When u put yourself down and say things like that makes you the person you are today. What makes u think your ugly everyone is beautiful because we are ... (read in full...)

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