I'm not strong enough to deal with this world on my own? Who do I turn to?
Q. I'm all alone, I have no one to talk to, I feel really anxious and panicky. I'm by myself and I feel so scared. I can't survive in this world on my own, I can't cope. I don't know what to do or who to turn to. I'm scared to even go to the ...
A. 16 April 2013: You can talk to me, you're never alone, there are good people out there who you can help as well as they help you. Life is wonderful, even the slightest thing. No matter how low you feel try to remember something that made you laugh whether it be ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does
Q. I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it ...
A. 16 April 2013: It's a tough one brother. But it's not your place to judge. The fact that it bothers you shows you love her so concentrate on loving her. She hasn't changed from the person you fell in love with because you know this... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my husbands older cousin.
Q. I've been with my husband for 5 years, married for 1. Even before we got married I was having doubts. I still love him and would never want to hurt him, but I don't love him the way I used to. But now we are staying with his cousin. His cousin i...
A. 16 April 2013: Don't do it you'll end up hurting people and potentially divide a family. Don't be selfish... (read in full...)
Boyfriend absolutely cannot keep erection during sex!
Q. Okay, me and my boyfriend are having a big problem. Things have started to heat up in the relationship and we've begun trying to have sex. Being the responsible girl-scout I can prepared with some Durex. I am a virgin and just really didn't want to ...
A. 16 April 2013: Both of you get STI checked together as equals, you go on pill and then look forward to having great sex.... (read in full...)
Who do I chose? My g/f or my best female friend?
Q. Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months. and she gave me promise ring but I havent seen her for almost 3 weeks cause her car broke down and then got sick from her a bff female and the kids. But I have a bff female that we have bee...
A. 16 April 2013: The girl with no baggage, simple... (read in full...)
Inviting him over - would it send the wrong message?
Q. I have been working 2 years now in my current workplace. Ever since, I have liked very much an older male colleague. Despite other men that have passed through my life, he was constantly on my mind. We don't work together every day but there were ...
A. 16 April 2013: You shouldn't invite him over. He's married with children. Don't hurt anyone. ... (read in full...)
Girls: Do you say no sex to your boyfriend often?
Q. Hi Just like to know if this is normal behaviour for men or in relationships. Last night in bed with my boyfriend I wasn't feeling too well (have a bad headcold) and told him I didn't want to have sex with him, to just cuddle and sleep. He kep...
A. 15 April 2013: Being rejected by a partner whether male or female can be hard and frustrating to accept. He shouldn't be forcing your legs open like the way you describe. He should exercise restraint and control. As soon as your better initiate sex when he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Should I ask the guy for a second date or assume he's not interested?
Q. Hi I had a date with a guy on Friday night. It went well, we had a good talk, laugh etc and have things in common. I find him attractive, but don't know if he feels the same way. I don't know if the chemistry was there. After a few drinks in a ...
A. 15 April 2013: Hi, nobody likes rejection that's why we stop ourselves from asking people out, he may be suffering from the very same thing who knows! Send him a message saying 'hi, i really enjoyed the other night, fancy going out again? It's ok if not, just ... (read in full...)
Valid reasons to leave your partner after less than 2 years marriage.
Q. Some of you may remember my posts in the past. Well the good news is that we have been getting along well and building our future together. Bit there are two big pressures that I face on a continual basis. The first is the fact that I am expect...
A. 15 April 2013: You need to get into the real world, stepping up and being a husband? My opinion of marriage is that it's a unity of love and you both support each other to make a better life for the both of you as one. Talk to your wife, it sounds like you have no ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable that my GF is going to see her ex abroad. Can I trust her?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months. She asked me the other day about my ex's and I told her what she's asked and was honest. So I asked her about hers. She told me that she still talks to one of her ex's. No problem there, so do I. She t...
A. 15 April 2013: Hi, it's very difficult to broach the subject now your girlfriend is away and you can only communicate via emails until she gets back. In all honestly a loving girlfriend wouldn't put you in this position and you are quite right to feel uneasy. I ... (read in full...)
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