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I need help talking to this guy that I really like!! Help please!!!

Q.   Ok i need help talkin to this lad i like. I am pretty quiet in general anf really like him, the thing is he can talk to anyone else great in th group but not me! Its just me! The people who know i like him have just said just say random stuff to him ...

A.   17 June 2008: if he's doing that it means he knows that you like him and he is trying to tell you without saying that he doesn't like you... (read in full...)

Did we go all the way?!? I'm not sure even thought it really hurt...

Q.   I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend the weekend just gone. It really hurt but i dont no if we went all the way because paople say after sex it hurts for a couple of days and you bleed. I havent had any of that so does that mean we...

A.   17 June 2008: yea u did some girls dont bleed or feel pain if the hymen is allready broken... (read in full...)

Did he just say it because he was drunk or what?!? He hasn't mentioned it since...

Q.   My bf got drunk a couple of weeks ago, and i kept joking around with him saying so you like her huh (referring to myself) and he said, nawww, im in love with her. I just started laughing and didn't say much afterwards. Anyway, long story short, he's ...

A.   17 June 2008: a drunk man never tells no tales. He was being truthful... (read in full...)

I'm 17. He's 25. People say it's "sick" or just "wrong". Is it?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy who is 8 years younger then me, (im 25 his 17) We have been going out now for just over 6 months, but during this time we have had alot of people tell us that our relationship is 'sick' or 'wrong'. Is it really that wro...

A.   15 June 2008: there is nothing wrong with that and even if there was you shouldnt let anyones opinion come between you.... (read in full...)

Advice on clamidia, please.

Q.   I split up with my partner about 6 months ago and we have started meeting up again and having sex. he found out that he had clamidia, so we both got antibiotics for it. however we had sex whilst still on the antibiotics with a condom and it split 2 ...

A.   15 June 2008: go to a doctor only htey can tell you if you need more or not.... (read in full...)

Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy

Q.   Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 ...

A.   15 June 2008: dont listen to them, everyone is beautiful in their own way, and besides their opinions should mean nothing to you. I had the same problem growing up as a kid but now all those guys who used to call me ugly are fighting to date me. There is nothing ... (read in full...)

Should I go further? I don't want to be a teenage dad!

Q.   My girlfriend have been together have been together for nearly six months now and are very happy.We have got as far as me with my top off and her with her bra undone but still have her top on. I want to go a bit further and suggest oral but...

A.   15 June 2008: tell her how your feeling and she will let you know how she feels, as for the sex part you can avoid that with birth control and condoms.... (read in full...)

Can a leopard ever change it's spots?

Q.   Dear Cupid, For the past two years i've been involved in a long distance relationship with a guy who could very well be the reason for the word 'player'. In the past I've had suspicions that he's cheated on me and a year ago he even left me f...

A.   15 June 2008: only you know the answer to that question because yes people can change but only you can know whats really going on ... (read in full...)

I'm confused and worried about my first time -- suggestions?

Q.   hey, all my frinds have tryed to explane how it feels the first time you have sex alot say it hurts but some say it doesnt feel like anything. but how do i know if it would hurt me or not? i mean im not saying im going to jump into bed with a g...

A.   15 June 2008: i just lot my virginity today and it hurt worse than anything. if you dont want it to hurt as much try masturbating or an exersice that will break the hymen.... (read in full...)

They're making fun of me - how do I deal with that?

Q.   almost every one at school makes fun of me because i'm not strong,athletic,or tall what do i do...

A.   15 June 2008: confront them one at a time tell them that you wont take them picking on you and if worse comes to worse to the office and report the people making fun of you.... (read in full...)

Does this sound too desparate?

Q.   does this note to my crush sound desparate? You see I wrote him a note saying I like him. Now I'm writing a another note asking whether he likes me back Crush, Hopefully you're not annoyed I'm writing you another note.It just seems easier to com...

A.   15 June 2008: yes it does turn it down a noch and flirt instead of writing a note. everything is better in person... (read in full...)

To shave or not to shave, that is the question...

Q.   do boys like when your vigina is shaved or hairy?? my boyfriend tells me he likes it shaved...but i domt like shaving it......

A.   15 June 2008: all the guys i have ever known like it shaved and your not alone i hate shaving as well, my tip by an aftershave and no matter hown bad you may want to dont scratch you will get razor bumps.... (read in full...)

Could I be homosexual?

Q.   I am a 15 year old guy and I am in love with my neighbor he is also a 15 year old guy. When I masturbate I think about me and him having sex he is so beautiful. I only have one problem he is straight I am also straight but latey I see guys my age so ...

A.   15 June 2008: no your bisexual which means you are attracted to both males and females. There is nothing wrong with you liking another guy, go for what you want.... (read in full...)

My wife and best friend have stabbed me in the back... Hod do you deal with something like that?

Q.   I apologize in advance for the long story. There is so much involved, I know it's not as bad as others on this site, but it feels like a tragedy to me :( We had a simple disagreement a couple of weeks ago, laughable compared to some of the othe...

A.   15 June 2008: forget her if she cheats its her problem not yours. She may soon realize what a mistake she's made but don't give in. She does not deserve 2 have a faithful love... (read in full...)

He said he's never doing it again!!

Q.   my boyfiend went down on me last night...he said i was the first girl he ever did that to...but he said he would never do it again....he said he only did it to prove to me how much he loves me....i think its just somethin wrong wit me down there and ...

A.   15 June 2008: he might not have liked the taste. Believe it or not guys hate going down on girls as much as girls hate goig down on guys and if you still feel that there may be something see a OB/GYN they can help.... (read in full...)

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