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Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: LazyGuy, You are right. I am not sure what love is. He is my first boyfriend, so I have no past experience of how the relationship side of things work. At first it was great, even the sex was wonderful. He was a loving and attentative lover wh... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: A few weeks ago my husband drank way too much, and for the first time in ages he stayed hard for hours. Seems to happen when he drinks. But this time was different. He tied me up, which I dont mind and we have done it before, but this time, on... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: The time issue of 5mins is partly because once he enters me, he barely lasts a minute and the longer he works on me, the less time he lasts once inside me. He blames it on me as a few years ago after I had children I was experiencing intense ... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: I have tried countless times to show my hubby what I like. And yes, he was able to give me great orgasms, its not only having a new people to have sex with me. These days he is just so rough. He hurts me, not intentionally he says, but from tou... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: Maybe I shouldnt say that he wont let me have friends. I asked him how I am supposed to meet "nice" people and he told me to go out to the park and meet them. For me, I am extremely shy in real life and this makes it difficult for me. Onlin... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: Yes there are lots of things in the relationship side of things that I dont like. But I am not perfect either. I am always depressed these days. I do very little but play with my kids and go on the internet. I rarely leave the house. My husb... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: I think the monogamy has only been as issue when my husband became more and more controlling of me and not allowing me to have friends even on a social platonic scale.... (read in full...)

Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??

Q.   Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...

A.   26 June 2008: I think the problem is that I think that my husband will never make me orgasm again or try and make me feel sexually alive. Yes I would love to see other people, but it is not all sexual. My husband is dominant. I am not allowed out to socialis... (read in full...)

After 17 years, he says he doesn't feel the same. This breaks my heart, what can I do?

Q.   I need help with a relationship that has lasted 17 yrs. A couple of weeks ago he said to me that I love you to death, but I don't feel the same anymore. I have no reason to believe he is cheating, there is no signs at all. He won't commit, he has s...

A.   26 June 2008: I think I know what your husband means. I love my hubby to death, but there is no way I would leave him. Having said that, I dont feel the same about him anymore. We did trial an open marriage but he stopped it, just as I was begining to ... (read in full...)

Am I destined to a life of sexual frustration?

Q.   hi all i am 34 years old and i am so sexually frustrated alot as to be honest, my husband does not satisfy me sexually (we rarely have sex) but i cant help but think, is this the way i am going to feel for the rest of my life, being sexual fru...

A.   26 June 2008: All I can say is that I feel your pain!!! But, for me, its not that my husband doesnt want sex, its that I dont enjoy the sex he does give me. We had an open marriage for a short time and my husband decided against it as he didnt want to sh... (read in full...)

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