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Should I tell her about my obsessive ex?

Q.   Hi, I was dating a girl for a couple of months. I realized that we didn't share much in common for things to work out in the long term. But she seemed very into me that I found it difficult o break-up, which I finally finally did. She didn't seem ...

A.   4 June 2010: It sounds like, excuse me but this is the gist of what you wrote in my opinion, that you are still wondering about the earlier girlfriend. Anyway, to your question... Before you get too involved about yourself, ask the new one if she is willing t... (read in full...)

Husbands having the best of both worlds without nobody knowning

Q.   "OPs Own Title" okay i have this friend that i meet from college (lets call him bob). While my question is we have been friends for about 2years now, and when i meet him he was about to get married but however would still try to get with me on the ...

A.   4 June 2010:  He is just your basic sleaze cheater, liar, faker. But should you tell her about her phony husband? Well, he is not just going to sit and watch her get angry after she confronts him. He is not going to explain to his wife how terrible and... (read in full...)

Dating a narcissistic man

Q.   I've been dating a narcissistic man and have broke it off he is pursuing a women that is half his age and doesn't want a relationship with him. He still sends me e-mails like It was good to see you, you are like a bar to a recovering alcoholic. I ...

A.   3 June 2010: When he winks at you, he is hoping for approval. He doesn't need your approival, just any approval will do. The entire front or cover or skin 9of a narcissist is that of self confidence. However, in my opinion, that shows he is overcompenssatig for ... (read in full...)

How can I confront and grass on my teacher for sleeping with my friend

Q.   Help I think my friend is sleeping with a teacher, I feel responsible about doing something but I'm not sure what... I'm not just blindly accusing one of my teachers of sleeping with a pupil I really think they are because... 1)I know she has a s...

A.   3 June 2010: It is unclear about where this is hapopening. If in a college, leave it alone but do tell your friend that he has a bad reputation and he is therefore going to leave her soon for the next victim. After he does, she will gain a bad rep also. She ... (read in full...)

Too devoted???

Q.   My girlfriend says that I am "too devoted". Not exactly sure what that means. What is the best way to behave as a boyfriend?...

A.   3 June 2010: Excuse me for being a bit direct, but in my opinion, i think she is really saying something else. She is saying that she feels you are being too possesive and jealous. That in turn might reveal that she is saying that you are stifling her (too much... (read in full...)

Husband's online activity frustrates me!

Q.   My husband keep getting emails,from his past,, including pictures etc. Sometimes he hides them from me, and not even showing it to share it. I mean past ,like 25 years ago...I got really frustrated,because he delighted the email he got last time, ...

A.   3 June 2010: You are right to be concerned about this. He is also right that this is your problem. If he is still playing with people from his past, that is not so bad. BUT, if he is playing AND hiding that from you, it should concern you. By constantly ass... (read in full...)

He wants to be a swinger, I don't. Will he respect that?

Q.   My boyfriend and I live together and there is talk about marriage. He plans to propose by the end of the year. But there is one concern I have... often ... every time he drinks he brings up to me how much he would love to swing, have sex with a ...

A.   3 June 2010: You are a fellow memeber, so I will be straight with you. Unfortunately, in my opinion, he is not telling you what he would like to do after you get married; he is rather telling you what he has already done and what he will do (not what he would... (read in full...)

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