Do I believe that he has learnt his lesson? Or should I walk away?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for a year but a few days ago two girls came to me and told me they had been sleeping with him. i truely love him and i dont doubt how he feels for me but i just cant believe he has done this to me. we had been arguing ...
A. 17 November 2009: He has admitted to cheating, these aren't just rumours. He has done this many more times than just a one off. So no I don't believe he'll change and you shouldn't either.
The way he has behaved is appalling. Instead of trying to patch things u... (read in full...)
Are these the signs of obsessive behaviour?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, i love him so much, he loves me too. but over the past few months hes turned weird with me, he dont like me going out with my friends he dont admit it but i know he hates it because as soon as im out he ...
A. 17 November 2009: This is how many guys react. I wouldn't say it is obsessive behaviour but over protective behaviour.
I don't think you should be constantly treading on egg shells but try to be a bit more considerate of his feelings. Is there any need to comment ... (read in full...)
I am having a bit of trouble kissing my boyfriend...
Q. I am having a bit of trouble kissing my boyfriend...I have the liberty of teaching him to kiss because I am his first, and I don't know if I am a good enough teacher for this since I have only kissed one other guy a year ago! Well we were doing pr...
A. 17 November 2009: Neither of the things you described as "barriers" will be a problem when you French kiss. You'll see.
Every person in my experience kisses slightly different and you adapt to eachothers technique. There is no right or wrong way to do it.
J... (read in full...)
Sad I'm not his first love...
Q. Hey. :( I'm in a relationship, and in love for the first time. However, I'm jealous of my partner. Who had been in relationships, and in love before. He's my first, but I'm not his. And it just bugs me, and I feel like I'll never be as impor...
A. 17 November 2009: I can relate to how you're feeling.
My boyfriend was in a five year relationship before me. He loved her a lot and said he broke down when their relationship ended. He loves me more than anything now and says it feels completely differen... (read in full...)
Should I give my ex boyfriend another chance?
Q. Ok I am thinking of getting back with my ex. We broke up cause he went travelling round the world. I knew he had this planned when we got together and we didn't mean for things to get serious but they did. We were together about 6 months before ...
A. 16 November 2009: If everything is the same as before he left then why not give it another go? It's not like the relationship broke down because one party was cheating on the other. You both knew it would have to end. You have a chance to pick up where you left ... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?
Q. Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...
A. 16 November 2009: I'll try and answer your questions in order.
- It is normal for people to accuse their other half of infidelity. This happens more than it should. However, whether it is justified or not is most important.
-You lost your temper and shouted at y... (read in full...)
He walked out 10 weeks ago, do you think he's coming back?
Q. my boyfriend walked out on me and my son 3 month ago for what i dont know i have asked him to come back but no he had me waiting for 10 weeks for him to say it was over do you think he will ever come back a love him very much and he knows i do ...
A. 16 November 2009: What an idiot. He walked out on you and his son and didn't contact you for 10 weeks? He doesn't deserve either of you.
Right now you need to pick yourself up and concentrate on being the best mum you can be for your son. You can't afford to fall ... (read in full...)
I have become ill due to his unfounded accusations and jealousy, help me!
Q. My boyfriend looked through my phone and found a call that was a wrong number. He started to tell me that I had met with someone when he was out of town and I told him to just call the number back if he wanted. He called, threw the phone towards ...
A. 16 November 2009: I am so sorry you are being put through this horrible ordeal. I don't and I'm sure no-one who uses this site will agree with the way he is treating you. This is emotional abuse.
The stress you are putting on your body and physiological result i... (read in full...)
Because I text a girl my girlfriend broke up with me!
Q. Me and my love of my life were back together and we went to the car wash and she brought her friend she went through my phone when i wasn't looking and saw that i text another girl, she freaked out and confronted me and walked off, i dont know what ...
A. 16 November 2009: This doesn't sound like a heathly relationship. If you break up over silly things and can't work on them then you shouldn't be together.
You break up and she goes running to another guy? That should show you she doesn't love you.
Stop trying t... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom about my boyfriend, who she probably won't like?
Q. Hi im 18 and my boyfriend is 20 and I have been dating my him for a year and some months now and we are in love but i havent told my mom. The reason for that is because she is so strict with me and i kno when i tell her i wont see him that much ...
A. 16 November 2009: I was in the same situation with my boyfriend. He has a not-so-shiney past and my mum knew about a lot of it. She did not approve of me going out with him at all.
I told her he had changed completely, otherwise I would not be with him. But I wa... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex, even though he has a new girlfriend. I want him back, how do I do it?
Q. Okay, so I have a kind of bad story, but I need some advice, without bad comments please. So I have been talking to my ex whom I dated about five years ago. I am still crazy in love with him, and he told me there is no reason why he would not go out ...
A. 16 November 2009: Firstly, if he said that there was "no reason he wouldn't go out with you" (really doesn't sound very keen in my opinion) then why did he go and get another girlfriend? This on its own is ringing alarm bells for me. He sounds to me that he likes to ... (read in full...)
I want to know why he dumped me and how I can get him back!
Q. This is my dilemma. Though me and my boyfriend were dating a short time I can't quite figure out WHY he dumped me n I want to know how I can get him back. This is what happened.I live in miami dade county and he lives in broward.he use t...
A. 16 November 2009: If he has never given you any reason to think he may be cheating on you then why did you ask? You made him feel untrusted and made yourself look like a jealous girlfriend very early on in your relationship.
This guy clearly put a lot of effort i... (read in full...)
How do you tell your best friend that you like them?
Q. Hey everyone, ok so one quick question is how can you tell your bestfriend that you strongly like them? i'm in a situation where i really like my best friend but he just came out of a 1 year relationship so obviously i'm gonna give him some time. ...
A. 16 November 2009: Be there for him as his best friend while he's getting over his girlfriend first. I suggest that you don't do anything about your crush for him for a while because you don't want to end up being a rebound girlfriend and getting hurt. Because these ... (read in full...)
Young and in love with 2 boys..HELP!
Q. I am young, and not naive, so please don't baby me. But I am in a dilemma. School started just 2 months ago and I have been with my boyfriend about that long. However, my entire summer was spent single, and I really enjoyed the freedom of being able ...
A. 16 November 2009: I completely agree with the answer below. Since a new guy has turned your head already, I don't think your current boyfriend is the right guy for you. If you are worried you may cheat on your boyfriend then break it off, don't break his heart. ... (read in full...)
It's impossible falling out of love
Q. Okay i Fell in love with this guy summer of 09 when i was visiting my couzin in L.a...! he always flirted with me and told me he loved me..long story short he really liked this Girl named Miranda But he Used me and this girl named Bethany but he ...
A. 16 November 2009: Its always hard to get over someone you love but it does happen, it just takes time. I would suggest you cut yourself off from all contact with him because by texting him and telling him you miss him, you are letting him think he can treat girls ... (read in full...)
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