Business disagreements vs. treating your partner well
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. We run a small business together, live together, and many of our friends and loved ones refer to us as married. We try to communicate well with each other, and we believe in complete trust, and ...
A. 24 June 2010: I think you can make it right by letting him take the computer to work on occasion. It's just a computer. Computers can breakdown for a million reasons. Your boyfriend dropping it on the way to the car is just one of them. In this circumstance this ... (read in full...)
I feel that I am not good enough, how do I stop that feeling??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five months now. We have gone through a lot that I believe most couples wouldn't have in such a time frame. I have a history of being hurt by men and I find it hard to trust although I do trust my boyf...
A. 24 June 2010: I don't think it's a matter of being good enough or not. The problem is that your insecurities are making his life worse.
Relationships stay strong and thrive when the other person is making you life better. Even if you fight or have issues w... (read in full...)
I want to have oral sex, she doesn't, what can I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. We have a very good sex life and I've always been (and still am) extremely attracted to her. The only problem is, she won't EVER let me go down on her. I have been trying since the day ...
A. 24 June 2010: A lot of women do not like receiving oral sex. Women do not have the love affair with their vaginas that men have with their penises. A lot of women see their vaginas as "gross". So no matter how much a guy likes it, she is still not going to think ... (read in full...)
My husband isn't circumcized and it really turns me off!
Q. *OP's Original Title* My husband isn't circumcized, and sometimes it turns me off. When I first met him, it wasn't really an issue, because of all the nice things that he used to do for me. But lately we have been trying to get pregnant, and Maki...
A. 24 June 2010: If it's just a hygiene thing it's easy to say can you wash up before sex. He knows that stuff gets under it. If you make it no big deal, just a preference than it isn't a big deal.
But it actually doesn't sound like the foreskin is the issue fo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated, had a child, I don't want to be a part of the child's life, am I wrong??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and last year cheated on me with another girl and got her pregnant.I decided to stay with him and told him that i understand that he has to be in the childs life, but I told him that he can count me ...
A. 24 June 2010: I know that what we should do and what we do do after someone cheats is two different things. In a perfect world we should completely forgive them and never have any hurt feelings. But in the real world, the pain is CONSTANTLY being brought up over ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit hurt that he's hooking up with others too
Q. I'm a college student, and I've been hooking up with this guy for the past few months whenever we are near each other (he goes to school across the country but lives near my school) and he's made it seem as though he likes me as more than just a ...
A. 24 June 2010: I think you need to realize that you both agreed for it to be just a hook up. Even if you wanted more, by just having sex with him, you were agreeing just for the hook up. It's kind of like signing a contract between the two of you. If you want to ... (read in full...)
He added the girl he cheated with as a friend
Q. Okay well my bf nd I have been together for 3yrs...Within one of the yrs he cheated on me with this girl from where he lives..But I cheated on him within that time too...Well he had jus added her as a friend on myspace...When I seen it I flip out..I ...
A. 24 June 2010: No that isn't unreasonable.
When there is an affair, there is a breaking of trust. The only way a relationship can survive and be healthy is building the trust back. How can you do that if either of you keeps in contact with the person you chea... (read in full...)
The first girl I've ever been jealous of...
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and we decided after a month of dating to make it exclusive. In the beginning, my boyfriend had a friend that is a girl, that lives ten hours away and she texted him on New Year's Eve with ...
A. 8 May 2010: Stop her?! She hasn't done anything! Your boyfriend is the one who is responsible to not offend you. She doesn't even know you. How is it her responsibility to stop doing things that bother you? She is just treating your boyfriend the same way he ... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 8 May 2010: He was angry? For what reason? What did your sexual past have to do with him? Anger is a completely inappropriate emotion to this issue. Sadness? Ok I can see that. Feeling insecure? I can see that too. But anger?! You didn't cheat on him. You ... (read in full...)
Could there be a deeper reasoning to all this?
Q. My boyfriend (now ex) finished with me about a month ago, telling me he needed space and wasnt ready for a serious relationship. It's not that I don't believe him, but I feel there was deeper reasoning. He has a demanding job and from what i've w...
A. 8 May 2010: I think men can sometimes lie about why they are breaking up, just like women. But it is usually done to spare someone's feelings. Like saying "I love you so much I can't be with you." Telling you that he needs space seems like a pretty honest ... (read in full...)
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