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A lot of relationship problems! Please help my hearts breaking!

Q.   The father of my 18 month old daughter left me yesterday saying he needed to get away from me to better himself yet today he says he thinks hes made a mistake and wants 3 weeks break and then to return home. Hes been unemployed for basically 3 years ...

A.   7 June 2010: I always provide for my daughter turns out her dad is leaving me and not wanting me back thanks for all the help i am so upset as im packing up his stuff all the good memories keep flooding back and i can feel my heart breaking im so miserable. How ... (read in full...)

A lot of relationship problems! Please help my hearts breaking!

Q.   The father of my 18 month old daughter left me yesterday saying he needed to get away from me to better himself yet today he says he thinks hes made a mistake and wants 3 weeks break and then to return home. Hes been unemployed for basically 3 years ...

A.   7 June 2010: UPDATE - I rang him today about signing off JSA witch is basicaly money we get to live off the goverment and i rang him at one and he had been theree first thing in the morning to let them know. I feel like he couldnt wait to get the money into his ... (read in full...)

I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!

Q.   I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...

A.   7 June 2010: If its unbearable theres always adoption. Give it a try i thought id hate my daughter because I was so young and my partner had cheated on me as i was 9 months pregnant but my daughter is my world out oof something terrible came the best thing ever. ... (read in full...)

Husband cheated and says I treat him like a convict

Q.   I am married with 2 kids aged 2 and 6. My husband frequents pubs and night clubs with his friends. I accidentally discovered that my husband paid and slept with the pub hostress after he got high and drunk. He promised not to drink again and will ...

A.   7 June 2010: Dont trust him. Anyone who can act that way despite you being married with children is scum drugs are never good. think about the effect his actions will have on your children he has basically used a prostiute you deserve better and i dont even know ... (read in full...)

I'm gutted after learning my wife has been cheating for years

Q.   just found out my wife has been cheating for years i feel everything i held to be true is false too many feelings she blames me could that be true...

A.   7 June 2010: She doesnt deserve you. you did nothing wrong x... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but he doesn't make me happy

Q.   I need some help. I love my boyfriend very much and been with him for 3 years, but he doesn't make me happy. He has an attitude on him just now where he seems to be negative with me or moaning at me all the time. I dont feel that he treats me ...

A.   14 September 2009: I have the same problem but unfortunatly things aint improving for me. I wish you better luck though. X x X... (read in full...)

Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?

Q.   The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could ...

A.   5 July 2009: She might be having problems in her family and her leaving her partner would make everything ten times worse leave her be and if its worth saving she'll get in touch x x... (read in full...)

I think my cousin remembers but is afraid to admit it!

Q.   Well... Where to start? My cousin and I had sexual encounters when we were young. We gave each other back rubs or as we called it fratching. I stole 2 pairs of her panties in high school. Then was caught with them. 3 times I felt and fingered her ...

A.   5 July 2009: Don't hit on her again or it'll end in tears even if she did really want you too what if you fell for her and she fell for you you would never be able to take it further plus what if you had kids they wouldn't be born healthy and its extra likely ... (read in full...)

5 months pregnant need to tell my parents and don't know how!

Q.   I'm so frightend, I'm 16 and I found out about 5 months ago I was pregnant. The guy who got helped in this little creation of ours blamed it all on me and moved to a different school.I wouldn't dare tell my parents, they've done so much for me and I ...

A.   5 July 2009: I'm seventeen but was 16 when I got pregnant. My family were furious and wanted me to abort but I refused hundreds of times and now I have a 7 month old baby girl who is my whole world. Tell your mum when your dads not in and if she screams at you ... (read in full...)

With a guy but still find myself looking at women!

Q.   I have been with my boyfrind for nearly 4 years now , but i am very concerned weather i am a bisexual i had a encounter with a woman a few months back and it ended badly but i still find myself looking at other women , even tho i would like to think ...

A.   5 July 2009: I'm a bit of a bi and I have a daughter and a fiancé. I look at other women to because they are beautiful. I look at them like pieces of art beautiful and breath taking but untouchable. You just need to think like that x... (read in full...)

Where would I go and what would I do if I left him?

Q.   Hi today is the 5th of july I feel very stupid and sad and angry and also really annoyed I don’t Even know how to describ how I feel! For the 4th of july me and my husband threw a b-day party for our son and then we spent all night till about 5:...

A.   5 July 2009: He sounds like he treats you terribly! Its only a matter of time until you son gets dragged in to it. He may be a brill dad forever but your son will still be getting affected he'll think that its right to treat women the way your husband is. You ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to fix my life!

Q.   i need some advice-hopefully i wont get any nasty comments but if i do so be it. i just need advice. ive recently finished with my ex-i was with him 5 years-5 years too long. in that time he has never visited my family, never called, calls once...

A.   5 July 2009: You have been completely taken advantage love. My ex beat me and cheated on me with all my friends so I know how it feels to have no self esteem. Get your hair done, go to the gym, go shopping and redecorate your home. You'll find someone who'll ... (read in full...)

Am I really starting to fall in love with my brother?

Q.   My older brother and I have been sexually active with each other for some years now. I know this started as him abusing me but I no longer see it that way and I think I might be falling in love with him. He is 4 years older then me and started uni 2 ...

A.   2 July 2009: Your brother has been abusing you babe. You should miss him but only in a way you miss your friends. You should take a few months to decide what you want from life and work to make yourself the person you want to be. Once your heads clear see how ... (read in full...)

Should I carry on? Help!

Q.   Hiya I'm 17 and I'm engaged to a 19 year old and we have been together with a year and a half with a beautiful seven month old daughter. Everything was absolutely perfect we moved in together but when I was 9 months pregnant he started going out a ...

A.   2 July 2009: He hardly goes out anymore though and when he does its with people I can trust. Do you think there's no way I could make things work because I really do love him and I don't want Cara to blame me when she's older and I know she will because I felt ... (read in full...)

Should I carry on? Help!

Q.   Hiya I'm 17 and I'm engaged to a 19 year old and we have been together with a year and a half with a beautiful seven month old daughter. Everything was absolutely perfect we moved in together but when I was 9 months pregnant he started going out a ...

A.   1 July 2009: I did not trap him! It was one drunken night and he was the one who wanted to keep the baby! I love my daughter very very much but I did want to go to university before hand. I don't feel that I should just up and leave him because he is an amazing ... (read in full...)

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