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Have I given him a bad impression by allowing this kiss to happen?

Q.   So last night was my first kiss with nu bf. We've been seeing for about 4 weeks and me and some friends went to his place (were 14) and I was bored so I went behind his sofa to lie down and text people. He got a blanket and put it over my head then...

A.   15 May 2016: No its not a bad impression. You are girlfriend and boyfriend, you are bound to kiss. He probably didn't even notice I it was a bad kiss. Don't worry about it at all, ots not early to kiss or anything. If he says anything about it, say you were on a ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose? My best friend or my crush?

Q.   there is a boy in my class and i really and i really like him but i know my friend does too. i know if i try telling him i love him then my friend will get mad at me and fall out with me. who do i choose my best freind or the boy i love...

A.   14 May 2016: Your best friend. If you pick the boy he or you will eventually dump you and you will have neither your best friend or crush... (read in full...)

Why can't I get over him? Why is he still in my head?

Q.   Hi guys i have this problem i went out with this guy and he cheated on me and we broke up. B ut i cant get over him i always think about him, and he's a family friend, so i see him a lot and its so awkward to be around him. I don't want it awkw...

A.   9 May 2016: Hi I'm In a similar situation. If he CHEATED on you then he doesn't deserve you. He doesn't want to be with you and cheating on you proves it. You are bound to miss him. I can't stop thinking of my ex who I dumped and this was about a month ago. Try ... (read in full...)

How can I move on? He had multiple social media accounts and took drugs and smoked!

Q.   Help me, I can't stop thinking of my ex and its making me really sad. I ended the relationship 2 weeks ago today (Sunday) because my mum wanted me to. He said he wanted to speak and then he started blanking me and I'm really confused. Today I was ...

A.   3 May 2016: Thankyou for your answers, he wasn't the right person for me. I really want to text him and ask if he lied to me about not being in a relationship for a year. Should I do this? Its really bugging me... (read in full...)

Should I stay with the boyfriend I met on facebook? He was taking drugs so I broke up with him.

Q.   I was with my boyfriend for 44 days. I started dating him over facebook. I didn't know what he looked like so we met up and kept meeting then he asked me out. I dumped him because he was taking drugs, getting garried (a pill you swallow and it m...

A.   17 April 2016: Thankyou everyone for all your help. I dumped him. I am sad but i know school is my main priority and it will effect my whole life x... (read in full...)

He has a crush on me and it's making me uncomfortable

Q.   I'm in need of help! I'm just gonna get right into this bc it's one long story. A few months back this boy in my class started to chat with me. After a few weeks we became really good friends. We started to text and FaceTime/Skype a lot. Now this...

A.   16 April 2016:  How can the opposite sex be best friends. Lads have their own friends who they play footy with they don't have "girl best friends" and girls have their own friends (females)who they shop and do girly stuff with. I don't believe that the opposite ... (read in full...)

Are they turned off by my virginity?

Q.   I loved two different guys once upon a time... The first guy was into me, we had alot in common. We went on a couple dates and we discussed sex, marriage etc. When he found out I was a virgin tho , he said he couldnt be with me anymore.. The...

A.   11 April 2016: [Mod note: this is a 14 year old poster with a question awaiting followup information. Her question states she dating a guy for 44 days, claims he’s using drugs and is being “garried,” whatever that is. Until she’s responded to the request for ... (read in full...)

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