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Would experimenting make me gay?

Q.   I am a guy who has been completely straight all my life, but I have always had a fascination with well endowed men in porn. I have thought about trying out a "big" guy (just oral probably) to satisfy my curiosity. Would this make me gay, or is it ...

A.   24 August 2010: I definitely feel there is more stigma and taboo attached to male-male sex than female-female sex. There's also a lot of emphasis put on cock size in pornography, with actors with bigger cocks getting more roles than actors who might have better ... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   23 August 2010: Thanks, RCN and Miamine. Good to hear friendly words from you guys. Life is progressing well. I have made some significant breakthroughs in therapy, and saw a urologist this evening. I have a tight foreskin and scar tissue on my frenulum (banjo s... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   9 August 2010: Just another update. I'm feeling a lot more functional and have been investing in myself and my non-romantic lifestyle. That includes therapy, sport and socialising without intention. I've been dancing and am now dealing with day to day things quite ... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   8 July 2010: Hi again, Long time, but I thought I'd give an update. Things got worse after I last wrote and I tried to commit suicide, and spent 3 weeks in a mental hospital. Since then I have been on anti-depressants, done a lot of reading of self-help books ... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   8 July 2010: Hi again, Long time, but I thought I'd give an update. Things got worse after I last wrote and I tried to commit suicide, and spent 3 weeks in a mental hospital. Since then I have been on anti-depressants, done a lot of reading of self-help books ... (read in full...)

I feel depressed all the time! HELP!

Q.   hey,i dont know whats wrong with me! i feel depressed all the time and dont want to go out anywere. i just feel alone and that theres no one i can turn to, i have tried talking to my friend and all she does is say "its just a rough patch you'll get ...

A.   6 May 2010: See your doctor, let them know how you feel and they may be able to help, with counselling or anti-depressants, or both. Depression is suffered by lots of people (myself included) so you're not alone. Remember not to be too hard on yourself: ... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   6 May 2010: Hi again Just registered with a new doctor's surgery and come up with some new interesting angles. I had a thorough conversation with a junior doctor and then a doctor. The short story being I've exhibited signs of bipolar disorder over the year... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   5 May 2010: Sorry, rcn, I forgot to tell you how I felt when she told me it was too little, too late: I felt relieved, and then like absolute sh*t. When I met her, I didn't know her past, and she was very sweet, and sensitive, spontaneous and kind. As we were ... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis?

Q.   I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...

A.   5 May 2010: Thanks, guys. Here are my answers, briefly to RCN's questions: 1. I didn't so much break it off as let it wither, said we were taking a break and, eventually see said she'd met someone else, which is what I thought I wanted to happen. I iniated ... (read in full...)

What have I done to be totally ostracised and ignored so blatantly?

Q.   Decision Junction - with zero signposts. Dear Cupid, I very rarely ask for help which I suppose is a terrible weakness really, but here I am, willing to share my problem with some genuine and caring people because, frankly, I'm totally baf...

A.   5 May 2010: He probably feels he is being true to his fiancée by not being sociable with you.He's dumped you as a friend because you two were more than just friends. He's not going to do it explicitly because he wants you there "just in case" things go wrong. ... (read in full...)

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