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... Send Benny 1494 a private message | | | Benny 1494's profile:Hey, i'm benny, wel thats not my real name but my friends call me that even though i'm a girl....It's a LONG story lol PM me if you're that desparate to find out.
I live it the south of England and go to a amazing school with the best mates, and I'm currently single.
I love music reading n talking to people,
my friends call teh 'woman who knows to much' as i know everything as everyone trusts me and come's to me for advice ! :) |
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I love her, but we're friends, I don't want to ruin what we have.
Q. I'm in love with this girl at school, but i don't know how to tell her. We're good friends but i don't want to ruin it. What should i do?...
A. 27 October 2008: If i were you i'd just go for it.
If you're friends it shouldn't ruin anything. just tell how how you feel.
if she dost feel teh same way tell her that you don' wnat your friendship ruined by this.
i was in a very similar situation to you a few... (read in full...)
It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!
Q. I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what ...
A. 15 October 2008: I've got a friend who was in the exact same situation she's got this boyfriend who is her whole world, at first it was great she was happy and bubbly but its been 3 months now and we never see her any more, she chose her boyfrien over her friends ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with her but I'm too shy to tell her! Help!
Q. Ok guys for over 2 years I have know this girl (she is in my school class) we were friends for ages and used to walk home together and all and I started to really like her and have recently felt so much for her I think I might have fallen in love ...
A. 12 October 2008: If i were you i'd try and build up the friendship again, talk to her more and try a bit of harmless flirting, if she responds to you and flirts back, i'd tell her how you feel, she sounds like a good enough friend that she'd be great about it. ... (read in full...)
How can I discard the lingering feelings I have for her so I can be her friend?
Q. I've had feelings for my best friend for quite sometime now..I know it won't work between us yet I can't get rid of these feelings I have for her...it makes it a little awkward for me when I am hanging out with her, I want to be able to discard my ...
A. 7 July 2008: I know exaclty how you feel I'm going through the exct same thing with my best guy mate. Who also went through the same thing with another girl a while ago, i havent managed to get rid of the feelings but my mate managed to however it ruined teh ... (read in full...)
I get very emotional reading questions and answers here. I feel I'll never be in love.
Q. hey i am a 14 year old girl. i ahve noticed that lately i have been really emotional, like jsut a sec ago i was reading a question that ssays "what is love?" and i was reading the answers and i felt like "ill never be in love! ill never find a guy ...
A. 6 July 2008: I know exactly how you feel. I was never the sort of person to fall in love but when i did it took me about 3 years to realise. I've never had a boy friend [sad i know] and i can completly understand what you mean when yuo say you want to be loved. ... (read in full...)
Recently my mate's been flirting with me, how do I find out if he really loves me?
Q. i've known this guy for three years and we're really good mates,and i'm in love with him, lately he's been flirting with me or so my friends say, but i don't know, and i really want him to see me in that way. How do i find out if he does love me? ...
A. 26 June 2008: Thanks for the advice,
Today at school we had a day off lessons and we're doing workshops. Any way.. I was in a different to this guy [lets call him blaine] any way i was waiting out side my clss and blaine comes up to me and starts talking ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how I can get him to notice me and chat me up?
Q. Hi im 18 years old and i havent got a boyfriend...most of my friends have. ive never had a propper realtionship and really want one. i really fancy a guy who work in the pub in my town, he is really good looking...any ideas on how i can get him to ...
A. 26 June 2008: A trick i learnt from one of my friends that always works is to make eye contact with him for a couple of seconds but not too long, then look away and leave, then he'll follow you with his eyes as you walk away from him!.. small talk is a good idea ... (read in full...)
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