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Hey, i'm benny, wel thats not my real name but my friends call me that even though i'm a girl....It's a LONG story lol PM me if you're that desparate to find out.

I live it the south of England and go to a amazing school with the best mates, and I'm currently single.

I love music reading n talking to people,

my friends call teh 'woman who knows to much' as i know everything as everyone trusts me and come's to me for advice ! :)

Is my friend's analysing correct?

Q.   ok well basically I heard a rumour about this guy [sean] who i've liked for ages, the rumour was about him and this other girl, so my friend text him on my phone and asked if the rumour was true and when he replied he said "NO. Definitely not true." ...

A.   30 May 2009: yeah thanks, i replied saying oh right cool :D and i didnt get a reply but then he turned up at the place where we all were andwaved at me according to my friends he watched me for the whole time he was there and we had a silent conv... (read in full...)

She has a really pretty face but she's fat!

Q.   I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best foot...

A.   13 April 2009: from what you've written you sound like an alright guy, if you really like this girl ask her out you shouldn't care what you're friends think...they might surprise you, with their reaction. and as a bigger girl, i think tht by putting her... (read in full...)

3 guys all flirting with me..don't know what to do

Q.   I have a problem. I've been in love with my best guy friend for 4 years now and lately things have got much better relationship wise between us and he's been flirting with me alot and stroking my leg in class, so i'm not sure if he likes me or no...

A.   21 March 2009: but i don't know which one to choose, my firend says that if the twin likes me then go for it as she'd be happy for me. but i like them all and i can;'t make a decision as i think i'd be happy with all of them :/... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but he smokes weed...

Q.   I am in a six moneth relationship with my boyfriend and we are very happy, loving and caring and affectionate towards each other, we get on so well and I've never been happier. the only problem is he occasionally smokes weed... its far from all the...

A.   26 January 2009: I know exactly how you feel i have a very very close friend who used to smoke weed on a daily basis, before i met him i was VERY anti drugs but then his habit started to affect him and i mentioned to him that i didnt like the fact that he smoked so ... (read in full...)

I love her, but we're friends, I don't want to ruin what we have.

Q.   I'm in love with this girl at school, but i don't know how to tell her. We're good friends but i don't want to ruin it. What should i do?...

A.   27 October 2008: If i were you i'd just go for it. If you're friends it shouldn't ruin anything. just tell how how you feel. if she dost feel teh same way tell her that you don' wnat your friendship ruined by this. i was in a very similar situation to you a few... (read in full...)

It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!

Q.   I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what ...

A.   15 October 2008: I've got a friend who was in the exact same situation she's got this boyfriend who is her whole world, at first it was great she was happy and bubbly but its been 3 months now and we never see her any more, she chose her boyfrien over her friends ... (read in full...)

How can I discard the lingering feelings I have for her so I can be her friend?

Q.   I've had feelings for my best friend for quite sometime now..I know it won't work between us yet I can't get rid of these feelings I have for her...it makes it a little awkward for me when I am hanging out with her, I want to be able to discard my ...

A.   7 July 2008: I know exaclty how you feel I'm going through the exct same thing with my best guy mate. Who also went through the same thing with another girl a while ago, i havent managed to get rid of the feelings but my mate managed to however it ruined teh ... (read in full...)

I get very emotional reading questions and answers here. I feel I'll never be in love.

Q.   hey i am a 14 year old girl. i ahve noticed that lately i have been really emotional, like jsut a sec ago i was reading a question that ssays "what is love?" and i was reading the answers and i felt like "ill never be in love! ill never find a guy ...

A.   6 July 2008: I know exactly how you feel. I was never the sort of person to fall in love but when i did it took me about 3 years to realise. I've never had a boy friend [sad i know] and i can completly understand what you mean when yuo say you want to be loved. ... (read in full...)

Recently my mate's been flirting with me, how do I find out if he really loves me?

Q.   i've known this guy for three years and we're really good mates,and i'm in love with him, lately he's been flirting with me or so my friends say, but i don't know, and i really want him to see me in that way. How do i find out if he does love me? ...

A.   26 June 2008: Thanks for the advice, Today at school we had a day off lessons and we're doing workshops. Any way.. I was in a different to this guy [lets call him blaine] any way i was waiting out side my clss and blaine comes up to me and starts talking ... (read in full...)

Any ideas on how I can get him to notice me and chat me up?

Q.   Hi im 18 years old and i havent got a boyfriend...most of my friends have. ive never had a propper realtionship and really want one. i really fancy a guy who work in the pub in my town, he is really good looking...any ideas on how i can get him to ...

A.   26 June 2008: A trick i learnt from one of my friends that always works is to make eye contact with him for a couple of seconds but not too long, then look away and leave, then he'll follow you with his eyes as you walk away from him!.. small talk is a good idea ... (read in full...)

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