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... Send *ella555 a private message | | | *ella555's profile:After a few years without any relationships because of work, school, and various family stuff, and a few disastrous dates (yikes!), I found my soul mate, who has stranded me in relationship limbo. Fool that I am, I still want him back, so I float here in the hopes someone knows the magic words, the elusive stratagem, or can lend me the keys to this joint and I can escape. I just found out my ex has been pursuing someone else, all while baiting and teasing me, stringing me along like a toy truck. Greater fool that I am, I still want him back. Help...I'm not as stupid as this sounds, so why am I in this mess?!?
After some thought, I wanted to amend this brief bio by answering my own question. I'm in this mess because of myself, and the tragic, idiotic mistakes I made in what was a very promising relationship. I hope my pain can offer others perspective, and they can glean some value from my missteps and make their relationships work. |
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He says I'm not what he wants. should I wait for him?
Q. Okay, so im madly in love with my ex who has made it clear as day he doesnt want anything to do with me. we were together for three years and we both just let life get in the way of our relationship. he recently left to the marines. before he l...
A. 23 November 2010: We have different circumstances, but similar agonies. My ex bf told me not to wait for him either, saying he needed time to sort out his feelings after his divorce (finalized almost a year at our break up). Since then, he has disappeared on me, ... (read in full...)
2 years later and I want my ex back!
Q. I broke every single rule when my ex and I broke up 2 years ago. We were both young and in love and nieve, soo.... in other words we made mistakes and said stupid things to make eachother hurt. I've dated other guys since this, but... nothing has ...
A. 23 November 2010: I tend to agree with The Realist and Fairycakes that you should communicate to your ex your desire to get back together, with the acknowledgment you're both older, wiser, and most importantly, that the past is the past. If you're going to discuss ... (read in full...)
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