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My mum just confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping together!!!

Q.   I really need some advice on my very complicated situation! On September 8, my mother who is my best friend also, confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping with each other, from the time we started dating up until i got pregnant ...

A.   29 October 2008: I am truly sorry that this happened to you. This has got to be the most frightening awful experiences I've ever heard of. I do think you should take measures to protect yourself at this time. My advice would be to pray for a good psychologist and ... (read in full...)

A stray text led me to find out that he's been calling 2 other women...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We live together, and everything has been great until about a month ago, when I realized we hadn't made love for almost 2 months. I asked him why, and he said we have different schedules. ...

A.   13 October 2005: I would say if you call the girls yourself there is a 50% chance or more that they will cover for him, especially if they know about you already. The best route would have been to text back something incriminating & check the response, but I think ... (read in full...)

Our four years together have been full of ups and downs. Now I'm not sure I should move in with him...

Q.   I am in a very confusing situation. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. Him and I have had our share of ups and downs. Right now, I'm not sure if I should continue this relationship. Here is where the story begins... Til this day, I b...

A.   10 October 2005: It seems that you are doing more than your fair share to keep your relationship from de-railing. I think a lot of women tend to become the relationship "managers" because they tend to be better at expresssing emotions and more intuitive. What ... (read in full...)

Am I too dependant on the man I love?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend David for 5 1/2 years. We are high school sweethearts and soul mates. I feel like this is rather pathetic that I am bothering someone else with my problems but I need help. Like I said, David and I love each other. We ...

A.   6 October 2005: A good book to read is the Dance of Anger. ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to feel threatened by my husband's female friend..?

Q.   I have been married for just under 2 years. My husband and I have had problems communicating. Also, I have been insecure and holding him back from going out with his friends. I admit this is a problem, but the poor communication makes me feel ...

A.   27 September 2005: I would feel threatened too. I think if you are married you have the right to know that your husband is being faithful to you and there is nothing wrong with that. If he's cheating on you, he ia not going to admit it. If he wants out of the marriage ... (read in full...)

Reeling from my husband's announcement that he wants a divorce. Opinions?

Q.   My spouse of nearly 7 years came to me on Labor Day and said that he was no longer happy with himself and that he wanted a Divorce. He has moved into his barracks so that he may have the time apart he asked for. He has said that he needs to find ...

A.   21 September 2005: How do you know he has only been talking to her for two weeks? After seven years of marriage, he says he feels he never loved you or knew what love was. I think he's either full of it or he's a terribly cold man. And if you married him, he can't be ... (read in full...)

Still hanging on to a thread of hope the my ex-girlfriend will come back to me...

Q.   I've asked questions on here before. The answers have been very helpful, but I'm sure you are all aware, things change. I told my ex girlfriend (who dumped me for someone else) that we couldn't be friends. At the time I said that to her, we were ...

A.   21 September 2005: If you try to pursue her, try to change her mind, try to be such a great friend she has to see what a fool she was: What will happen is she won't see it. She will run away. The only way you probably could get her interested again is if you started ... (read in full...)

Am I misreading the actions of two friends, or is my boyfriend playing up with the barmaid?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a few months ago i felt that something wasn't quite right. He had become very good friends with a girl working at a local bar our friends parents owned. I didn't mind before as there was no way I ...

A.   12 September 2005: Are you in a serious relatiionship? Three years sounds serious. Let me get this straight, after he's drunk, they met in his garage? She takes him home from the bar? Are you sure that's all that happens? I would have a serious problem with that. I ... (read in full...)

Those long, blonde hairs around the house aren't mine... so whose are they?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with a great guy for just over 9 months. He is often out working around the city we live in. We hardly ever have sex although I have pretty much adjusted to that. However recently I have found several long blond ha...

A.   8 September 2005: I can see why you would be concerned. I think that long blond hairs, less sex, defensiveness, and dumb answers are all warning signs. I would be cautious & keep an eye out. It could go either way on this one. Cheaters always get caught, they get ... (read in full...)

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