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I don't want to think I'm damaged but how do I get over a bad relationship?

Q.   I left a very abusive relationship a couple of months ago, and in class I've met a wonderful law student who is helping me with all the legal issues involving my ex. He has been very kind and supportive and always encourages me to keep pursuing ...

A.   24 September 2013: You are not ready for this. Don't plunge into another mess. This is a rebound. You need to heal yourself before making love to another guy. It will get you emotionally attached and the process will be another cycle. Remember love when you're ready ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl who likes him and it really bothers me!

Q.   Hey everyone so I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or what. But my boyfriend has a girl best friend I'm not used to dating guys who have girl best friends infact I absolutely hate it! But he's been friends with her way before we started dating. They ...

A.   24 September 2013: Opposite sex as best friends to my understanding is that they were once attracted to one another during a point of time. I have a guy best friend. We are still close to each other although we have both settled down with our own partners. To what I... (read in full...)

Everything seemed to change once we got engaged

Q.   I have just gonna engaged in May.. I have known him since 2007. We have been good friends since then. I have never noticed his presence in my life. I always end up with different guys and run to him crying confiding to him my breakup stories. He has ...

A.   24 September 2013: Hi guys!! I appreciate your answers very much. It really helped me out. I finally learned to listen and not be defensive for once. And it feels so good to not bottle things up. Although it was ugly having tears flowing down my face but for the ... (read in full...)

I've changed so much since I had an abortion!

Q.   I had an abortion last year march (please do not jugde me). It was a tough decision. As my boyfriend and I came from a strict family, besides I have just ended by diploma, I was jobless and my boyfriend was in the army serving the nation. There was ...

A.   12 September 2013: I tried opening up to my fiancé countless times and he don't want to talk about it. He wants me to move on from it. The only one who said he wants to be there for me no matter what doesn't want to face it with me. I feel so alone. I'm so tired... I ... (read in full...)

GF left me for another guy wants me back the NEXT DAY after having sex with him

Q.   gf of 1.5 yrs dumps me over txt saying she needs time to "think about what she wants". shows up 3 days later drunk on my doorstep crying admitting she F***ed some dude at her gym but it meant nothing and she wants me back. i tell her to F*** off....

A.   11 September 2013: It's hard to get rid if these negative things she has once done to you. But the moment you've accepted her back in your life, it means to say that you are able to let go of what she has previously done to you. It's good to talk things out with ... (read in full...)

How bad of an age gap is this? We met on Hot or Not.

Q.   Hi, Not too long ago i met a guy on 'hotornot' he was gorgeous so left a message telling him so. i was quite shocked to find out he was living in england, and this is a world wide website. Even more scarier was that he lived in the same county....

A.   17 March 2008: age is never a barrier in a relationship. as long as you're happy and he showers you with all the love you need is okay to go on. don't let what people say affect you. =) gd luck!... (read in full...)

My first love cheated on me and then dumped me... I'm so clueless!

Q.   I really don't know what to do...My ex boyfriend cheated on me 3 times and then dumped me. He was the first guy I have been in love with and it has been 5 months since we broke up and I am still not over him and I constantly think about him, I ...

A.   17 March 2008: hey. i think its normal to feel that way. all you need to do is just give yourself time and space. you need to accept the fact that you guys are no longer together. spend more time with yourself and knowing yourself better. im sure when the right ... (read in full...)

He gets annoyed at the littlest things but has a great personality and I love him.

Q.   Hey guys, i really need your help my boyfriend is allowed to say stuff, go out, talk to girls and stuff like that but the thing is im not!! I really love my boyfriend and i have put up with him for 8 months now. i cant confront him about it because ...

A.   17 March 2008: i know you love him. but sometimes, the more you keep everything to yourself the more miserable you'll feel. trying talking to him nicely, if he yells at you. yell back at him. you got to fight for your own rights. if you dont, you're just letting ... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to him at 14??

Q.   ok I'm a 14 year old girl and there is this black guy I have known for almost a year. He is 14 also. I talk to him some times not alot and he wants to have sex with me. I am a vergin and he I don't think is. Last night I was texting him and he asked ...

A.   16 March 2008: hey. never sacrifice your virginity for someone who only wants you for your virginity. a guy who loves you, would respect you and your willings not asking you to have sex with him. isnt it a waste that you saved your virginity for 14 years and ... (read in full...)

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