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Husband went to strip club 3X, hid it from me and I can't forgive him!

Q.   I found out that my husband was drunk and went to strip clubs about 3 times. He did this behind my back. When i found out i was devastated. I feel such hurt, betrayal, anger. I can't get the images out of my mind. I am nervous and anxious all the ...

A.   10 September 2010: point one!!! HE WAS DRUNK! Would he do this sober? He didn't do this to hurt you. He was drunk!!! There lies the problem.... (read in full...)

I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker.

Q.   I am someone can give me some advice. I am in a dilemma that I cannot goto anyone else in my life for advice. I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker. We instantlly clicked and he makes me feel things I have never felt before ...

A.   10 September 2010: You are adding fuel to two fires. Make sure one is out before starting the second. End your bad marriage if you want to, but not because of this new relationship.... (read in full...)

Lost and might be pregnant.

Q.   im a nineteen year old girl n im worried that i mite be pregnant. I did nt get my monthly which i suppose to get at the end of last mnth/begining of this month. It is the 9th of the month already n still nothing. Im studying 4my b.com in business ...

A.   10 September 2010: I agree with Tisha-1. Take the test. If it's positive, you are over 18, so legally you do not need their consent for an abortion. They may be strict but they are human and made mistakes growing up. You may be surprised how much they will support ... (read in full...)

Might be pregnant, scared, what should I do?

Q.   Hi I'm thirteen and on July 31,2010 we had unprotected sex after three days I started bleeding I had bad cramps and it didn't last as long as it usually does and it was extremely heavy.I'm seeing the signs of being pregnant but I haven't taken a ...

A.   10 September 2010: Buy the test. Follow the instructions carefully. If it's negative, great. The heavy bleeding may be a sign of miscarriage. If you were a virgin and the heavy bleeding occured shortly after sex, this is normal for some girls. Still you need to see a ... (read in full...)

Doesn't get things done on time, what should I do.

Q.   What does it mean when a man says i am tired of you trying to dictate when I need to do something??? He is the worst procrastinator. I have sat back and tried to let him handle our family business. But he will lie about doing it and it never get...

A.   10 September 2010: Keep the utilities on, take your name off his credit cards, keep insurance bills paid and taxes paid. Keep all of your receipts for at least 18 months. Keep a daily journal. Keep a recorded budget. Separate your accounts, JOINT NOTHING!!!! Build ... (read in full...)

I want to go to university in Paris! How do I tell my parents?

Q.   I'm a junior in high school and I found this really really good college in Paris, it's pretty much perfect for me. The problem is I don't know how to tell my parents, because I would be really far away from them (I live in the US) and the cost would ...

A.   10 September 2010: There are a lot of great schools in the US and more scholarships/interships available. If a traditional state school is not right for you, consider a private college. Most schools in the US offer abroad studies in the junior year. Are you sure this ... (read in full...)

How should I go about hinting that I like him?

Q.   How do I know if a guy likes me?... how should I go about hinting that I like him?...

A.   10 September 2010: Initially, there's a smile, eye contact. He shows interest in what you say and makes eye contact during conversations. He's a good listener. He seems interested in what you do, what you wear, and where you are when you aren't together, he is ... (read in full...)

I broke things off with him because I found he was up to no good...

Q.   Ok... I recently broke things off with my newborn son's father. I found out he was up to no good. I'm a little uneasy because he has a very dark side to him. I am hoping that I never have to deal with him and that he will stay as far away from us as ...

A.   10 September 2010: Your family and friends need to know your concerns. You need their support. God forbid anything should happen to you or your child, but if it does, authorities will need information. If your gut tells you to beware, then beware and cautious. You ... (read in full...)

Compatible star signs?

Q.   My question is to Sag women in relationships with Aries men. Accoding to the experts, Aries is supposed to be our most compatible sign. I've heard Aries men are short tempered, have child-like tantrums and have anger management problems. I've read ...

A.   10 September 2010: thanks, Eve. Advice is welcomed.... (read in full...)

Compatible star signs?

Q.   My question is to Sag women in relationships with Aries men. Accoding to the experts, Aries is supposed to be our most compatible sign. I've heard Aries men are short tempered, have child-like tantrums and have anger management problems. I've read ...

A.   10 September 2010: thanks, ASKEVE.... (read in full...)

How do you forget about someone?

Q.   I like this guy a lot, but i know he doesn't like me. I need to forget about him, but i don't know how...anyone know how to forget about someone? It hurts so much to think about him, and I've literally been up crying at night. I remember just a...

A.   9 September 2010: I know it hurts a lot but time will heal. It's ok to have memories of the good things. Best advice I have is stay busy. Engulf yourself in schoolwork and other activities with friends and family. Try to avoid him until you can face him without ... (read in full...)

Need advice on my ED problem!

Q.   I'm so worried right now. I don't know what happened to me, but I have serious sexual desire problem, and erectile dysfunction. Started few years ago. The doc says ,Im healthy, hormones are ok. And here goes my marriage, my wife 27 years was very ...

A.   9 September 2010: Yes, it's true that certain meds can cause ED like blood pressure meds, but at your age ED can be related to stress. Sounds like your stressed that her patience is running out and stressed about your lack of being able to perform is making it worse. ... (read in full...)

Should I let him be part of my child's life?

Q.   Well a few months ago my boyfriend and I were living together, happy relationship, and we find out that we're having a baby. Everything seemed to be going good (or so I thought). Then when I was 5 months pregnant I find out he had been cheating on ...

A.   9 September 2010: absolutely NOT!! once a cheater always a cheater. He's using you. Never leave him alone with your child. He has major anger management issues and is violent. Get a restraining order and move away from him.... (read in full...)

Ladies, how did you form your first ideas about love and romance?

Q.   Question for young women out there (under 30 ideally) I would love to know where and how did you first form your ideas about love and romance? Did you read books, see movies or get your ideas from your parents or friends? How did you expect y...

A.   9 September 2010: Our image of ourselves as females comes from a few places. First, how we are judged by society. Some of us are not the accepted Hollywood image, the beautiful crowd, the Barbie doll image most men want. Unfortunately society judges women on the ... (read in full...)

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