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Iam a single mother of one who has been trough alot of bad times in the past, but also a lot of good times. I spent many years travelling around europe, fell in and out of love many times.Had the experience of a very messy divorse. I believe all experiences in our lives good or bad can be turned into something positve and make us a stronger person.

His kids are rude to me and he say's nothing.

Q.   My boyfriend of six months has two children, both boys aged 12 and 10. The younger one is rude and obnoxious, often saying rude things to me. My boyfriend doesn't like it when I say something to the child about his rude behavior, and yet he doesn...

A.   21 July 2007: This is a difficult one poppy ! As parents we tend to take critisism of our childrens behavour very personaly. Can you explain to your partner how much this is effecting your feelings about getting serious with the relationship, maybe he is not awar... (read in full...)

My wife stay's out sometimes not coming home at all.

Q.   I'm married and I need advice. Recently my wife has been coming home late or not coming at all what so ever, so I confronted her and she said she's going to do whatever she wants. I thought we'd resolved this matter but she did it to me again. WHAT ...

A.   21 July 2007: It sounds like there must be other problems in your marraige that are causing your wife to behave in this way. and i think those should be addressed first. Suggest sitting down over a nice meal and disscusing why she is behaving this way . Tell her... (read in full...)

Say's she like's me, but she's confused.

Q.   I love this girl, shes my best friend. She says she likes me too, but is confused. What can she be confused about? How do i ask her out? Please help me out!...

A.   21 July 2007: You have already told her your interested in being more than friends so she knows how you feel. Now it is up to her to decide if she feels the same way, continue to be good friends but dont put any pressure upon her for a commitment.Good luck !... (read in full...)

How do you know when it's time for a relationship to end?

Q.   how do you know when your relationship should be ended?...

A.   21 July 2007: You know its over when you no longer enjoy each others company. When the trust has gone, when you no longer feel warm inside when you think about them, when you no longer talk or communicate with each other.... (read in full...)

Is it ok to spend the night at my girlfriends house?

Q.   My special lady owns a house, so i sometime on weekends spend in her house, i live with my cousin, now my cousin is all over me saying am doing it wrong, me i dont find it wrong, my girl too does not find it wrong too. Am asking for advise about th...

A.   21 July 2007: I would have no problem with what you are doing. Your friend owns her own house and as you are living with your cousin you probually have more privacy at her place. Also your cousin may be a little jealous about the time that you are spending with ... (read in full...)

If he knocked me up, do I tell him now over the phone or wait until I see him?

Q.   im late for my period and extremly worried im pregnant gonna take a test in a few days as i dont have time until monday. if i am pregnant how do i tell my long distance bf (it would definatly be his as i have not been with anyone else) we both ...

A.   21 July 2007: If you discover that you are pregnant and intend to keep the baby than YES you should tell him. Even if the relationship does not work out he has a right to know. The child also has the right to know him and have a relationship with the father. ... (read in full...)

My dad says I'm lazy and he refuses to buy me anything

Q.   Help my dad won't speak to me. He is very mad at me for not helping him with his office work. Now he won't buy me anything. He says that I am very lazy. Not even new clothes to wear to school. What should I do?...

A.   21 July 2007: At your age you should not expect to be getting handouts from your parents. You havent said why you dont wish to help with some office work. Your father is simply trying to teach you responsibity and that in life you cannot get on in life without ... (read in full...)

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