How can I stop suffering from ENVY?! I'm single but why can't I be okay with it?
Q. I'm suffering from envy. Two of my close friends who are in a relationship together are currently traveling around the world. I've been keeping up with what they've been doing over facebook, and they are having a really nice time. I'm so happy f...
A. 24 March 2008: Oops, my bad! There was a 50% chance I was right ;-)... (read in full...)
How can I stop suffering from ENVY?! I'm single but why can't I be okay with it?
Q. I'm suffering from envy. Two of my close friends who are in a relationship together are currently traveling around the world. I've been keeping up with what they've been doing over facebook, and they are having a really nice time. I'm so happy f...
A. 23 March 2008: The best thing you can do is keep busy, make friends and don't let not having your life partner stop you travelling and having fun.
Relationships can be great, but their hard work and every couple have rouch patches. When were single we can forg... (read in full...)
Is it love or lust in his behalf?
Q. I've known this guy for the past 4 months. Both of us are already committed. However we get along very well, I do feel very splendid when i'm with him. He is aware that I've very strong feelings for him. He's promised to support me forever. It g...
A. 23 March 2008: Your both already committed! That should answer your question!
I suggest you stop dragging this out. Either take a break from your current partners and make a go of it! or
stop it now before you damage your current relationships beyond repair! ... (read in full...)
Why can't We fall in love?
Q. How come teenagers are not allowed to fall in love? I am 14 and have been in love with this one guy, we went out for over 2 years but unfortunatly he moved to the USA because of his dad's business and I did love him a lot, but even though we went ...
A. 22 March 2008: If you feel love then it doesn't matter what age you are. (no underage sex though!)
But at this age, your still not an individual, you are part of your parents family until you are 18 and the same with your boyfriend.
Just because he moved away doe... (read in full...)
Dating "RED FLAGS"
Q. The RED FLAG List - Warning signs that He (or She) is BAD NEWS... Too many women are misled by the romantic myth that men are "diamonds in the rough" and we are supposed to "help" them become better men, often by sacrificing our own needs. We ar...
A. 22 March 2008: WOW
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To ladies, about sex: longer duration, better? To men: can you control when you climax?
Q. Does any of the ladies out there feel that when sex goes on for more than 2 hours it becomes boring and tedious and repetitive? I lose interest in having sex around an hour into the act, and I start to dry up and just want the guy to finish up. And ...
A. 22 March 2008: I wanted to put in a little respons to your second query:
Men can control it just like we do. If your thinking horny, your feeling horny and you know the objective is orgasim and you focus on the glory, you cum! Its the same for them I think, a... (read in full...)
My GF always chooses her friends over me, regardless of our plans! What can I do?
Q. my gf chooses her friends over me. with everything. we make plans and if one of her friends wants to do something she will cancel with me to hang out with them. all kinds of plans. valentines day even. i don't know what to do. i think that she is ...
A. 22 March 2008: When she calls to say she has to meet a friend, go with her, if she doesn't mind!
If you both want to spend more time together then you have to try and get to know her friends. Maybe next date you could invite her best friend along?
Still... (read in full...)
Should I just try to forget about him as we're both married, or really open up before he goes to visit his wife?
Q. I have been happily married and with my husband for 12 years. I am in my late 40's, and my husband is in his late 50's. Lately, my sex drive is through the roof and my husband is not interested. In the past few months, I have become friends with ...
A. 22 March 2008: STOP!
Have you given up on your husband? Your focusing on another man WHO IS MARRIED. It means he promises himself and probably makes sweets love to another woman who is Not you. It is his wife. Think about what you are considering doing, This is r... (read in full...)
How can I get back my self esteem?
Q. Hi Ive been with my wife for 7 years its not all been roses she had an affair after the second year. We got back together and I forgave her, but things have never been the same. Most of the time i feel inadequate and she constantly critises the ...
A. 21 March 2008: It might be worth joining a Jym and getting some endorphins into your body.
If she's critises you its because she can't say something to you. Your able to tell her your problems but what are hers?
Be ready to hear some painful home truths and try ... (read in full...)
I need closure, how long should I wait before calling him again?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years ago broke up with me about 2 weeks ago, because he said that i did not support him. he refuses to give me some sort of closure, and i have tried everything: i wrote him a letter, i have tried to call him and i have ...
A. 21 March 2008: It sounds like no matter what you do, he's made a decision and he wants to stick to it. Maybe he's using your behavior as a way to break up with you before he goes to the Navy. Maybe he knows he can't be faithful but isn't man enough to say that to ... (read in full...)
Should I try to forget her or is there any hope to get her back?
Q. Well my name is chris. I broke up with my gierlfriend a week ago because I couldn't stand watching her treat me with much less interest and attention then she used to do. We were 2 and ahalf years together and during the last 2 months fighting and ...
A. 21 March 2008: Hi Chris,
This is one of those relationship make or break decisions for you. I'm sure the questions on your mind are: If you fight for your girlfriend and you stay together will you ever be happy with each other again? Are you just delaying the inev... (read in full...)
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