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I'm a 25yr old Gay man and engaged to be married to my long term partner and have had experiences on more things that you can shake a stick at. I live in Kent in England and love helping people out.

I would love to think I can give sensible yet straight forward advice on almost any subject so if you feel you need a straight forward piece of advice please feel free to put your problems to me.

Should I replace my ex-boyfriend's jacket?

Q.   Should I replace my ex-boyfriend's a jacket that I distroyed? I had it in my possession when he broke up with me. I was angry at the time and damaged it. ...

A.   17 February 2010: Obviously it was wrong to damage the jacket, but understandable at the same time. You should consider whether it is your responsibility to replace it. Anyway if he worried about the coat why did he leave it in your possession. In bluntest wor... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking about how he once left me for another woman. Is it going to work?

Q.   Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. He has broken up with me a few times then comes right back to me apologizing and claiming that he didn't know what he was thinking. Our last break up was because he left me for anot...

A.   19 August 2009: Right, im sorry to hear about your relationship problems here. But I am going to be blunt, if he has left ya before what makes u think he will stick with you this time? He is having his cake and eating it. Time to decide whether you want to be ... (read in full...)

Was I just her experiment?

Q.   Gosh. I'm feeling so down right now, and I really need help. Okay, there was this girl who I met on a forum. We only knew each other vaugely, but then I couldn't go on the forum for a few weeks (coursework at school) so I asked a load of people o...

A.   19 August 2009: I am sorry about the boy bit in my first response, my concentration was mainly on your problem, which is no excuse. but u can easily substitute the gender. ... (read in full...)

I want to sleep with another guy to see what it's like, but I'm shy! How do I go about this?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old boy who has had sexual intercourse with women, not seeming to be big headed but i get told im good looking lots and a huge amount of girls want to shag me. I love girl i know that, but, deep down, i know, i would love just a one ...

A.   8 August 2009: OH sweetie, I was in your position at an earlier age, tried sex with girls and took the plunge and triied it with a man, to quote the words of a song, i kissed a man and i liked it. there are plenty of gay dating websites online which you... (read in full...)

I want to lose my virginity to a guy who's not a virgin, how can I please him?

Q.   Okay,im kinda in a jam.i have been in love with this guy for almost two years, and i was talking to him about us having sex.he seemed to like the idea.hes not a virgin, and i am.i know im ready to do this, and i am positive i want to do this. im not ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hunny, Sex is a wonderful and explorative experience, there is no right or wrong way to do it. One thing i will say though, make sure this is the person you want to lose your "virginity" to. Losing your virginity is a lifetime commitem... (read in full...)

Was I just her experiment?

Q.   Gosh. I'm feeling so down right now, and I really need help. Okay, there was this girl who I met on a forum. We only knew each other vaugely, but then I couldn't go on the forum for a few weeks (coursework at school) so I asked a load of people o...

A.   8 August 2009: I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune with this girl, its never easy to realise the hurt and upset an internet "forum" conversation can be. She made you feel like you were to special to her. Unfortunately the internet is only an only messaging s... (read in full...)

He says his feelings haven't developed as much as mine!

Q.   im 19 year old guy, hes 24, we have been seeing each other for about 4 months now (not actually in a relationship way). he has just came out of a long term relationship (3 years) as well as his bit on the side leaving to go home (far away), well ...

A.   7 June 2009: Rome wasn't built in a day, and love is no different. Your friendship is blossoming and obviously you two are very close. Your still young and to you things will always seem as going to slow. Just put the breaks on your feelings for the moment a... (read in full...)

He chases me and then tells me we should never be in contact again??

Q.   I'm 48, so I've done the relationship thing before. I've been seeing an (ex) Marine (they're never really ex Marines) who went to Vietnam at 17. He came great guns after me...ending up with stuff like "we belong together," "You belong in my ...

A.   6 June 2009: Although I dont know this person or the situation except how you have described it, I get a feeling this gentleman is frightened of commitement, which is not very helpful for you in this instance. It seems to me something in his life has scared h... (read in full...)

Married, but gay and I don't believe in Bi-sexuals!

Q.   So I'm in my early 20's and got married to my HS sweetheart. Very typical; most of you already know why I need advice. She is quite possibly the best thing for me and keeps me grounded, she's smart and ridiculously good looking. All my friends are ...

A.   6 June 2009: Hey There, This sounds like your feelings are confusing you at the moment. from your post I read you have kind of seperated from your wife, which I believe is a good idea as this gives you time and space to consider whether these feelings are true... (read in full...)

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