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Can't seem to walk away from a man that I do not love.

Q.   [OP original title] I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but I know I am not in love with him. My previous relationship left a deep wound in my heart and he was the first person to make me feel whole again and something inside me just won't let ...

A.   11 July 2010: Heyaah, i think either way it is unfair to stay in a relationship with your boyfriend on the bases that he loves you even when you dont feel the same, i think the only thing thats keeping you together is you feeling scared of change and not havi... (read in full...)

Should I not have kissed her?

Q.   OK people, I just need some advice. I have developed feelings for a girl who recently separated from her boyfriend (it wasn't planned!). On Sunday we met and it went better than I think I dreamt of, we held hands, cuddled and even kissed when sayi...

A.   19 January 2010: Ok ... She said that she needs time just to be single for a while, this is because girls like to get over their past relationships before jumping straight into another, You've already done great by telling her that you dont want to put pressure on h... (read in full...)

Why is life so unfair?

Q.   I'm a 23 yr old male. I have no gf, just got terminated from my first full time job after three weeks (they decided to hire somebody else due to unexpected circumstances)... it's so frustrating. Why do these things always happen to me???? All the ...

A.   19 January 2010: Ok ... Life is unfair, but its how you deal with it that really matters, if you concentrate on all the bad things in life you will get no where. Start with the job, this is your perfect opportunity to find a job that your passionate about and one ... (read in full...)

Crushing on an old friend...

Q.   Okay, so I've known this guy for about seven years, but we've never really known each other properly. Like, we've acknowledged eachother, and I guess we're friends, but we've never been close. Now recently, I've started to develop feelings for him....

A.   18 January 2010: Ok ... I suggest that you just tell him about your feelings and see what he says. Or you could try and become better friends with this guy then as you get closer and you feel like you trust one another you can tell him, then atleast if he turns yo... (read in full...)

How can I feel better about myself?

Q.   I cant seem to let go of my past. I don't know if its really bad but I'm just having difficulties with my self esteem. I kissed one guy when I was younger like 16. My first kiss. Then I got into a relationship, my first real bf when I was in high ...

A.   18 January 2010: Ok ... try not to dwell on all the bad times in your past, concentrate on all the good ones! Theres always someone out there worse off than yourself! And just remember that not all guys are like the ones that you've previously dated. Ther... (read in full...)

I slept with other girls but we were not dating at the time!

Q.   Im in quite the predicament someone please help me. I have been talking to this girl (will call her M) for 11 or so months, she had a boyfriend off and on up until a month and a half ago. We would have streaks where we would talk and spend time ...

A.   18 January 2010: Ok ... That Is quite a tricky situation. For girls commitment, trust and honesty are three of the most important things in a relationship, however the fact that you werent in a relationship at the time makes all the more complicated. Theres no... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of me to think this way?

Q.   Hello, I'm here to find out... am I wrong for not believing in getting married? I love my partner, we've been together for 13 years and have three kids but my parents marriage kills my hope for ever wanting to do it. Is it wrong of me to think this ...

A.   18 January 2010: Ok ... No I dont think its wrong. Parents have a lot of influence on a childs future beliefs and opinions. But aslong as you love your partner than marrage doesnt really matter, but I will say try not to inflict your feelings about marrage onto... (read in full...)

Should I continue to have sex with him???

Q.   It all started when I took this guy I work with home, we flirted constantly at work and we fooled around every time I took him home (I would go down on him and him on me). I then left work for two weeks to go down to NC to visit my father for ...

A.   18 January 2010: Ok ... Do you really want to be involved with this guy? He is engaged, which means nothing is going to happen between you other than sex. And even if he ends things with his fiance, he has already cheated once (or maybe even more times) woul... (read in full...)

I adore her, I want to make her fall in love with me!

Q.   I have a really big problem, I like this girl that i've known since grade 9. (I am 17) She is my closest friend, someone I can trust no matter what and I have gone over in the middle of the night upset just to speak to her. I adore this girl so muc...

A.   18 January 2010: Ok ... First of all I'd say you cant make someone fall in love with you, but you can show her what a lovely, kind person you are then maybe she'll realise that you are better suited to her than boys who will cheat on her. I Would suggest th... (read in full...)

How do I escape my misery and change my life?

Q.   I have never been so frustrated with life before. I don't even know where to start! I'm so sick of failing at life, but I am so frustrated because I feel helpless. I would like to change my life and be a successful person, but I feel powerless to ...

A.   18 January 2010: Ok So ... The First thing I suggest you do is blank out all of your problems and concentrate on all the good things (e.g. your loved ones) because there is always someone worse of than yourself, and the more you forget about the bad things the less... (read in full...)

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