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Lonely married military guy

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been married now for 9 years and I'm not happy with the intimacy in my marriage. I feel my wife is being very resistant to improving our relationship. Our relationship was passionate and giving, on both sides. Even after a...

A.   9 June 2010: let me tell you what i did. i started hitting on my wife's prettiest friend, then her other friends started hitting on me. my wife felt the heat and started demanding sex. she was very aggressive during the sex, like i've never seen her. it drew up ... (read in full...)

Why would a married man make it very obvious he is attracted to you, create sexual tension, but never say anything?

Q.   All married guys out there, I need some help please! I have become very attracted to a man I have known for some time. He is married (I am divorced) and I gather his marriage is not too good lately. I know he has had an infatuation, or massive c...

A.   9 June 2010: He is not hesitating like the above poster wrote, she is full of shit. And, you're in luck because I was this same exact man last year, and I know exactly what he is doing. He's being a challenge to you because he is head over heels for you in a... (read in full...)

She told me she likes us as friends...but then she was flirty with me! Very confusing!

Q.   Very confusing for me... So two weeks ago, I asked my friend of 4 years if she wanted to take our relationship to the next level. She said she likes us the way we are - friends. Last weekend, my friends and I went on a retreat - she was ther...

A.   9 June 2010: First off, take a step back. You should have never told this girl you were into her, because you killed any sort of challenge that you could have had. Now, this girl knows you like her, and she is gonna take advantage of that. In other words, don't ... (read in full...)

How would you react if you were in this girl's position?

Q.   To cut a long story short, I fell in love with my best friend, I'm male, she's female, we're both 26. She has suffered from low self esteem and depression for some time now and has major problems with her appearance (all in her head as she's re...

A.   7 June 2010: First mistake was telling her how you feel. You killed any challenge and mystery, and didn't let her earn it. You say you are looking out for her self-esteem, but no one buys that. Next mistake is trying to assume the role of her boyfrien... (read in full...)

What do men find sexy in a woman?

Q.   I am newly divorced, 35 years old and have no idea what men think sexy is anymore. The last couple of guy I was involved with was kind of REI, so I got used to wearing outdoor hiking clothes, and basically dressing down. Now I'm working in an office ...

A.   7 June 2010: Hi. I am going to give it to you straight, so here goes. Men only respond to two things, initially. Those are: Looks and easiness. Looks are essential. If you are overweight, you need to hit the gym. If you dress outdoorsy, you need to dres... (read in full...)

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