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Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?

Q.   I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel ...

A.   10 August 2009: To be honest, you should only be listening to the male answers to this. Obviously, women do masturbate too but men in their late teens and early twenties do it when they're a.) bored and b.) sexually tense. It may be a hormonal/sexual awakening ... (read in full...)

He says he can't orgasm during sex as he masturbates too much! It isn't me is it?

Q.   My bf says he has never been able to ever cum when having sex with any girl that he has had sex with. He can however when he masturbates himself. He says he cant come during sex because he has masturbated so much. For him to cum he needs it to be ...

A.   10 August 2009: I'm not sure whether than sounds physically possible. Try and consult some medical journals on this because it might be that your bloke is just assuming that the masturbation is the problem. A lot of men can't ejaculate when wearing a condom that ... (read in full...)

I'm willing to do almost anything but he'd rather watch it on the computer!

Q.   Hey - I have been having a little problem for a while now regarding my boyfriend of 3 years. He is a great guy and i love him. But our sex life can be a bit lacking at times and i find myself knowing some things i shouldnt- because i snoop. (...

A.   10 August 2009: One thing about men and their porn (which a lot of women don't understand) is that for a lot of men it's entertainment when bored. Men's preference with porn is usually related with their wildest sexual fantasies. Often us men do not wish to ... (read in full...)

I'm single and missing sex!

Q.   Basically I'm single again and really missing sex. My supervisor's noticed I'm not getting much work done - I just can't concentrate on anything, it's really bad. Has anyone else had this problem? What do you do to satisfy your cravings when you're ...

A.   10 August 2009: A lot of people have this problem and there's only one real answer. I live with my girlfriend but even if she's away for a week with work I go out of my mind. Some people can go months and months without sex or masturbation. It sounds like your need ... (read in full...)

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