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Do I consider a threesome because I love him? Or just say no?

Q.   Right, i need someone's help to make me understand my boyfriend's mind a tad bit better.. He wants to try a 3sum, however.. i want MY boyfriend to Myself! I'm not into girls, sure they're gorgeous but not sexually. I thought we had great se...

A.   21 January 2011: First - 9 months is not a long time to be together. Secondly, if you're not into it - say thanks, but no thanks. Third - he does not give a shit about you - the fact that he continues to put pressure on you - hoping to wear you down is blatant ... (read in full...)

Does he really need time to himself, or does he want to break up with me?

Q.   Hi, I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 22. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now, and everything seemed perfect until two weeks ago. He has always treated me good, always told me he loved me and has never shown me otherwise. He...

A.   21 January 2011: OMG!! I'm sorry, but if you love someone you WANT to be with them. Move on my friend he's just not that into you.... (read in full...)

Dating a married man. What should we expect, I don't want to hurt anyone...

Q.   I'm a married woman having an affair with a married man from work. we've been doing this for 8 months. we've known each other 7 years. we see each other almost every day. we meet just to talk. we have seen each on weekends. it's getting harder t...

A.   9 January 2011: Yes! I had known this man for almost 8 years, just a friend, we did not work together. We would se each other every once and a while. Then last spring we starting texting each other, at first very normal things (we both travel quite a bit for our ... (read in full...)

His foreplay made me really wet... is this normal?

Q.   so last night me and my boyfriend went to the movies but we didnt watch the movie if you know what i mean, we made out the whole time. So anyway when we were leaving the theater it felt like i had gotten my period cause my panties felt wet.. but ...

A.   9 January 2011: Sure! Every woman is different. It's no big deal, your body is just responding to the kissing and touching..it's all good! Enjoy!... (read in full...)

What causes a miscarriage?

Q.   Does anyone know what causes a miscarriage? ...

A.   9 January 2011: There could be many reasons; sometimes the body just naturally rejects the fetus, or it doesn't attach it self to the linin of the womb properly. This can me emotionally heartbreaking, have you spoken to your family doctor yet?... (read in full...)

Help! Why doesn't he cum??

Q.   Hi I have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he...

A.   9 January 2011: your partner has a medical issue; tell him to speak to his doctor about the issue. This has nothing to do with you.... (read in full...)

Oblivious of the Staring

Q.   He stares, he stares a lot. We are in the same math class, by the third day he was sitting two rows from me, constantly staring. He doesn't speak at all and it took two months to find out his name. I've discovered he's painfully shy when we happened ...

A.   9 January 2011: Run, run away!! A man who stares at you, who is shy and has a girlfriend is creepy, and not just harmless creepy. I would avoid this individual as much as possible and delete him from your facebook, make sure you always sit behind him in cl... (read in full...)

I'm never going to get laid!

Q.   hey everyone! just looking for some advice on what i should do...ive been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months and she refuses to have sex with me, will not even do oral stuff with me. she says she loves me but im not sure how to go about this. ...

A.   9 January 2011: Could she have been abused sexually? She shuts down when you try to get her to open up about the possibility of sex. I think there is a deeper issue here. ... (read in full...)

Now she spits!

Q.   I'm 47 year old male and been married to same woman for 21 years. We have 3 kids together. She was a virgin when we got married. Before we got married, she would get give me head and swallow. After 5 to 10 years that progressed to giving me ...

A.   9 January 2011: I think going to a counselor would be a good idea, but maybe just a marriage counelor won't help, you need sexual support as a couple. For a woman to speak about sex, what she likes to do to you, what she likes done to her etc. of our generation i... (read in full...)

What is with his disappearing acts?

Q.   I met this guy about 8 months ago. When we met we hit it off great. We had three consecutive dates in a row, spending most of the time talking about our life experiences, music, traveling, etc. Our physical chemistry was fantastic - things happened ...

A.   9 January 2011: First "he's just not that into you" Second, he ejoys the attention emotionally and physically with you and he knows that he can keep coming back. Move on and erase his number and don't reply to texts or messages. You deserve more!... (read in full...)

Terrified to come out of the closet!

Q.   im gay i've known since just a bit after starting puberty. I probably would say it was in high school i knew i was gay, well im just a bit scared to come out because im the only one in my family which is gay and i see that as alot of pressure i just ...

A.   9 January 2011: Coming out is a big moment in your life, please only do this when you truly feel it is the right time. You Mom probably already knows, you were apart of her for 9 months, she knows. Your father could know as well. As far as having children,... (read in full...)

I'm caught in her sex web!

Q.   there is this girl who has been my best friend for many years, and during the course of our friendhip I have confided in her many things I have never told to anyone; such as fears, weaknesses, and my fetishes. I love her very much but as my friend ...

A.   9 January 2011: She is manipulating you with sex. As you mentioned she knows your weaknesses. If you continue the following will happen - she will continue to "think" that you want her because you continue to give into her sexually. At some point you will meet ... (read in full...)

After 20 year my wife just tolerates me.

Q.   Isn't it crazy how women who want to love and be loved seem to hook-up with guys who don't want to love of be loved? And men who want to love and be loved seem to hook-up with women who don't want to love of be loved? Been married 20 years and ...

A.   9 January 2011: Is your wife depressed? Have you considered this as a possibility? That could be the first step in healing your marriage, sounds like she does not love herself and is incapable of loving another person right now. Get her some help... (read in full...)

Discovered spouse's secret!

Q.   Discovered Partner's Secret: Please help! Hello and thank you in advance for any insight that you may have for me: I have been with my spouse for seven years. I have always enjoyed a fantastic and exciting sex life with prior partners (never ...

A.   9 January 2011: I think you need to get him to open up to you about what really turns him on. The images you saw do not mean that he wants to do those things to you, however I think it is critical in a marriage to be honest and forthcoming with each other. Wha... (read in full...)

No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!

Q.   My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so ...

A.   9 January 2011: Could he be gay??... (read in full...)

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