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Is he with me just cause it is convenient, or does he really care?

Q.   Here is a good one. I am 46, been with the same guy for 13 months. We get along so well, but the problem is he isnt in love with me.He has been up and down lately with feelings, and when I bring up what his future plans are he says he doesnt know. ...

A.   7 October 2007: If you feel that you are attractive than you have won half the battle. Love can really belittle us at times but you have to gather your courage and move on because nethier the dad or the daughter appreciates you or your companionship. Depen... (read in full...)

She says our relationship has to be secret. Is she just using me?

Q.   Hi To make a long story short. I met a girl at an organization we both belong to. After a while we started dating, after another while we went into a relationship. Sort of. Everything is there. We kiss, we hug, we spend lots of time together. T...

A.   7 October 2007: Looks to me like she is using as the bridge to her next venture. Try not to get too emotionally involved here. If she wants a casual fling and you can deal with it then go ahead.If not then talk to her and make her she your point of view and if that ... (read in full...)

Should I just walk away from this friend from 20 yrs ago as he is married with kids?

Q.   I recently met my best friend from high school after 20 years. I was his first love and he was really in love with me but I never knew about it. He is currently married with kids but says he is not happy in his marriage. Tables have turned around ...

A.   6 October 2007: I am tired of agony aunts telling all thses girls caught in a love situation with married man to walk away. The guys wouldn't go out to find love and affection in the first place if thier wives didn't become fat and ugly after they have been married ... (read in full...)

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