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Life is passing me by. I'm a virgin, I'm alone and I hate my job.

Q.   I'm a straight male aged 21 years old. I live in a small town in the south of the Netherlands. I still live with my parents and i've got a job as an IT networking specialist. I really hate my job, but i see no other options. I've got a lot of ...

A.   11 January 2010: it took me until 22 to lose virginity, you sound a little similar to how I was at 21. Now I am 30 and certainly, it's much easier to get girls now, have a choice even. For me, back then, it was easiest way to meet a girl I spoke to on the internet ... (read in full...)

Please give me advice on what is the best course of action to rescue this friendship.

Q.   Here's the situation.. I fell out with a female friend of mine. She is an au pair and moving soon to a new place and getting a new number. She said she didn't want to talk or meet me again due to us not getting on so well one night, but not really ...

A.   5 January 2010: I did nothing more than be in a low mood and talk about something a little depressing once too much. But the night we fell out, we hardly spoke. It's a total overreation. I suppose you are right, she is not a good choice for a friend. But I always ... (read in full...)

Please give me advice on what is the best course of action to rescue this friendship.

Q.   Here's the situation.. I fell out with a female friend of mine. She is an au pair and moving soon to a new place and getting a new number. She said she didn't want to talk or meet me again due to us not getting on so well one night, but not really ...

A.   4 January 2010: Thanks for reply. The problem is she won't answer calls, my only options are text, e-mail, other than going round there. I suppose it's best to wait and as you say, just say sorry for what I did and let her think about it, but I just wonder if I'm ... (read in full...)

Advice for a recently ex-virgin please....

Q.   so i lost my varginity 2 days ago and after i didint feel anything but when i woke up my stomach felt achey and strange and i also bled for the next 2 days but that just stoped today but i still have a weird stomach ache. we used a condom so i ...

A.   3 January 2010: You should be fine, but consider if you should keep doing it, I would wonder being so young. ... (read in full...)

Her text said I love you then she turns up with 2 guys and has me thrown out??? What gives?

Q.   I was seeing a girl for 7 months, she moved away to work 70 hours a week, so I went there with the intention to live and work with her, to save our relationship. We ended up arguing about the job which after looking on the net about, found out it ...

A.   14 November 2008: Thanks for the help. It could be that we never talk again. Its very strange to be so close to someone then in an instant, its gone. She has kept me on facebook, dont know if it means anything. Probably to try and make me jealous somehow... (read in full...)

Her text said I love you then she turns up with 2 guys and has me thrown out??? What gives?

Q.   I was seeing a girl for 7 months, she moved away to work 70 hours a week, so I went there with the intention to live and work with her, to save our relationship. We ended up arguing about the job which after looking on the net about, found out it ...

A.   14 November 2008: The strange thing was, she told me she was raped when i first met her by some guy she met, but seemed happy when i met her next day. She told me months later. Then she told me she considered me to be her first. She then breaks up with me and sleeps ... (read in full...)

Her text said I love you then she turns up with 2 guys and has me thrown out??? What gives?

Q.   I was seeing a girl for 7 months, she moved away to work 70 hours a week, so I went there with the intention to live and work with her, to save our relationship. We ended up arguing about the job which after looking on the net about, found out it ...

A.   14 November 2008: Well yes, immaturity plays a part, she is a beautiful polish girl and 19. But not every girl this age, acts in this way.... (read in full...)

We didn't break up on bad terms, so why won't he talk to me?

Q.   Hey everyone. I've had something on my mind now for a little while now and thought I'd get some insight into what other people may think about it! Well, basically the back story is that I recently broke up with a long-term bf (2.5years). For...

A.   5 November 2008: Im in a similar situation. My girlfriend of 7 months has made absolutely NO contact in 5 weeks now. We fell out about her 70 hour a week job and that i therefore could hardly see her and speak to her, so she got 2 guys to throw me out, sleep with 1 ... (read in full...)

Am I right to think that she hasn't treated me right?

Q.   I loved this girl and we went out for 7 months. Then we moved to opposite ends of the country. She joined a strange sales, marketing company thats bit like a cult. I went there to be with her and live and work with her, but we fell out about the ...

A.   5 November 2008: Thanks for your points of view. I was affected by it cos we were close and she was nice before so its hard to deal with. Part of me wants to do something back but what i have done is in the first 2 to 3 weeks, called, text, internet msgs. But it ... (read in full...)

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