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I am too attached to my lover, but I want to lead a normal life with my husband now he wants a baby!

Q.   hi i am 27/ f/ married for 5 years. I have been involved with lots of guys in my life physically and this continued even after marriage as my husband is not a interested in sex, its been almost 3 years we made love, he is fine with it as he is not ...

A.   26 April 2011: i have been through this recently and i am heartbroken. we both entered the affair, him moreso on an emotional level, he didnt just want sex, he wanted me, all of me. we fell inlove, we did speak of the future but not alot as we were too wrapped up ... (read in full...)

Can a man truly love two women at once

Q.   Question- can a man truly love 2 women at the same time? A little history- I am married so is he. We work for the same company but live in different states. We have fallen in love which is crazy I know. We have never been physical but have hun...

A.   26 April 2011: i dont believe you can truly be inlove with two people, if someone else has told you they love you, then either they do or they are lying but they do not love the other person either! its easy to fall out of love but i believe if you fall out of ... (read in full...)

Unhappily married, and emotional affair partner wants to take it to the next level. What should I do?

Q.   Help! I am afraid I will cave under pressure. I have been in an emotional affair with a married man for many months. I am also married. Neither of us are happy in our marriages but we both have children and stay because of them. I have not felt att...

A.   26 April 2011: dont do it, im not saying that to be horrible but i have been their very very recently!! and i am hurting like hell!. He may very well have deep feelings for you but if you fall in love and he hurts you you will have no one to blaim but yourself. ... (read in full...)

I've messed up badly, but now I want the guy I can't have..

Q.   I've been married for almost four years now. My husband stopped having sex with me since the first few months of our marriage. Since then, we have sex once or twice (a year), literally. We have a twenty month old (apparently we're both very fertile ...

A.   26 April 2011: dont get a divorce, i have been in this situation, i fell for someone else and him me, i am engaged. It was amazing, i felt like i had met mysoul mate but now he hasnt contacted me for 4 months, he risked alot to see me, a hell of alot but after the ... (read in full...)

I'm engaged, he's married, but we've both confessed feelings for each other. How can we deal with this without it affecting our friendship?

Q.   My coworker and I have feelings for each other. The problems are he's married and I'm engaged. He admitted to me that he's attracted to me. I admitted that I like him, too. We had a talk. It was a talk about not crossing the line and we are not ...

A.   26 April 2011: i have been their, he told me he was inlove with me, we had this amazing connection, he risked alot to see me, i trusted him and him me, we nearly got caught plenty of times, we still carried on seeing eachother but as soon as it got too much hard ... (read in full...)

I had an affair. My husband forgave and now that I'm no longer cheating, I can't decide if my husband is "the one." The indecision is killing us

Q.   I have been married for almost 16 years now (together since high school). I had an affair for just over a year. We broke up last summer because of it but got back together. I continued to cheat with the same man. My husband recently found out ...

A.   26 April 2011: I have been their i know what you are feeling, i wont go into it but let me tell you, i do know how awful it feels to be in that situation. You dont say wether or not you have feelings for this man you were having an affair with? how long it went on ... (read in full...)

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

Q.   Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...

A.   1 March 2011: Thank you all so much for your kind words, i have so many friends but feel so alone! it helps to be able to talk to people who understand and will give honest advice. There is one last thing that i didnt mention as i didnt want the sympathy... (read in full...)

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

Q.   Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...

A.   1 March 2011: and sorry to answer your question anonym12345, the other woman is 26 and my husband is 30. I can see why he was attracted to her but it shouldnt have gone any further than that. He seemed so interested in her, asking her all about her life, they ... (read in full...)

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

Q.   Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...

A.   1 March 2011: Thank you for all your replies, i feel so alone, i love my husband so much but deep down i know there was something between them, even if not now, then! and that makes things no better, even if he doesnt go back to her or contact her in the future ... (read in full...)

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

Q.   Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...

A.   28 February 2011: havent a clue why my age has been published as 22, i am 39 ... (read in full...)

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