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I love my long term partner but feel a spark for a coworker!

Q.   Hi, i'm in a situation i never thought i'd be and i need advice, because i can't talk about it with anyone..I'm in a longterm relationship (7 years). I love my partner, although i can't deny that our relationship is much of a rutine now. We live ...

A.   1 November 2017: Hello there. Look...the simple fact of the matter is that you have already cheated on your boyfriend. You are now with-holding information from him by which he would make an informed decision to whether stay with you or not. So, now you are dece... (read in full...)

He duped me! How do I learn the red flags and move on?

Q.   I had seen this guy in a walking group over the past 5 months. We were friends a few years ago but lost touch. Over the months he has dropped hints that he likes me, has cuddled and held me for long periods of time and kissed my cheek in a loving ...

A.   1 November 2017: I've actually had a situation with the 'cuddler'. It sounds weird if you haven't actually experienced it directly or never heard of it but the effects of learning that 'cuddling' is all there is too it - is pretty devastating - so I do actually hear ... (read in full...)

The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me?

Q.   The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me? We have an odd relationship, we say we love each other all the time. He says he's not ready to date (we've been in a like-dating stage for 3 years). I have fallen in love with him. But I feel like I'm ...

A.   31 October 2017: Hello my friend. Much love to you. You are dealing with a narcissist and all that comes with it. I URGE you....URGE you to go onto YouTube and look up Angie Atkinson who has dozens of posts about narcissistic abuse, how to spot it, how to ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband went for an adult massage before we married

Q.   I just checked my husband phone and found out that he went to adult massage before we marry 2 months back. His friend asked him to join last week and he rejected it as he said hes broke now. Yes he is financially unstable now as he loss some from ...

A.   25 October 2017: How do most women feel about the idea of their man having an adult massage? For some reason in life, adult massages, strip clubs, basically sex-entertainment has pushed itself into mainstream life as something that is kinda ok for men to do (in ... (read in full...)

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