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Should I initiate sex? It hurts my feelings that boyfriend doesn't want sex more

Q.   I'm in a great relationship w/ my bf, he's 35, I'm 28. He treats me like a princess, is affectionate and we are getting married next yr. Lately we haven't been having sex as much. It's been over a week since our last time. I talked to him about it ...

A.   17 September 2011: I'm not pregnant...... (read in full...)

I acted standoffish because I've been hurt and now I'm worried I should have acted more interested

Q.   I met a guy and immediately clicked with him. I was fresh out of a bad relationship, so acted standoffish and not that interested. Now, I really like the guy. What do I do? I don't want to get hurt again, but I don't want to lose him! ...

A.   1 January 2011:  Thanks for the advice. I will tell him and let you know how it goes.... (read in full...)

Dating is like riding a bicycle, right?

Q.   I posted questions before about being cheated on for almost 3 yrs and not knowing what to do about fiance, moving on and our businesses together. Well, I am trying to move on! Here's my new question: I met a new guy, who seems great, treats me with ...

A.   13 December 2010: Thanks for all your advice. We have talked daily, hung out a few times and are having fun getting to know eachother. I have been out of the dating game for so long! Any advice??? ... (read in full...)

Dating is like riding a bicycle, right?

Q.   I posted questions before about being cheated on for almost 3 yrs and not knowing what to do about fiance, moving on and our businesses together. Well, I am trying to move on! Here's my new question: I met a new guy, who seems great, treats me with ...

A.   8 December 2010: Thanks for advice. I have gone out with him several times and really enjoyed myself. I was honest about my situation. ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he understand?

Q.   I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years and known him for longer than that! We were also business partners and the best of friends suring our relationship. He cheated, I forgave him, then I found out he kept cheating on and off for 3 years! ...

A.   29 November 2010: Just to clarify...wee have been together for 7 yrs, not engaged that long. I was young when we got together.... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he understand?

Q.   I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years and known him for longer than that! We were also business partners and the best of friends suring our relationship. He cheated, I forgave him, then I found out he kept cheating on and off for 3 years! ...

A.   29 November 2010: Ok, so what do I do now? He was such an integral part of my life, I can't imagine life without him!... (read in full...)

How do you get past the hurt after being cheated on?

Q.   For all those who have been cheated on, how do you get passed the hurt and get on with life again? I feel so empty and I can't seem to find a way forward. After having been with my husband since I was 19 (now 31), I feel so lost. I don't even ...

A.   29 November 2010: I know how you feel. I have been with my fiance for 7 years and found out he was cheating and in a malicious way. I am having a hard time moving on as well. My advice is don't overthink it, don't blame yourself and try to be positive in every aspect ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore

Q.   My partner of 4 and half years wants to end our relationship, he says he doesnt love me. He is still very affectionate and touching and intimate with me. HOw can he be like this if he doesnt love me. We never fight and we get along well, he did ...

A.   29 November 2010: I am in a very similar situation..where my fiance says he isn't in love anymore after I forgave him for cheating. I would try to talk to him and be patient and ask why he feels that way and tell him that there's no pressure but you love him very ... (read in full...)

My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?

Q.   Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. ...

A.   4 November 2010: He wants to remain business partners? He is super close with my family also. What do I do? It's so hard to just think of him as a business partner after all this time together. I don't even know where to begin with telling my family we're not ... (read in full...)

My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?

Q.   Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. ...

A.   1 November 2010: I appreciate all of your responses and I know you're right. I need to leave, its just so hard. I wouldn't stay for him for $. I was saying we built all these business together and so it would hurt me financially to leave. We don't have kids.I will ... (read in full...)

His friend turned out to be more than a friend!

Q.   I'm going through a lot right now. I'm going to make this short as possible. My Ex and I, were doing good. Til his so called "friend" was always around. When my ex went back to college, i looked at his call records, because he only would text ...

A.   14 October 2010: I am in a very similar situation! I feel your pain, my fiance cheated with a 'friend' and we've been together 6.5 yrs. I think you should go with your heart and if you believe he can change and is willing to admit his mistakes then you can consider ... (read in full...)

He wants to live with me, put a front on that we're together in front of family, friends ets, still do business together but be 'separated.

Q.   I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years. He cheated a few yrs ago when we were on again/off again and we both moved on together...or so I thought. In the meantime I started my own business, my mother became terminally ill and my fiance and I ...

A.   13 October 2010: He also says he doesn't want to hurt me anymore and wants to better himself and doesn't want to see other people. Am I stupid for staying? It's just so hard to give up on him after all this time!... (read in full...)

He wants to live with me, put a front on that we're together in front of family, friends ets, still do business together but be 'separated.

Q.   I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years. He cheated a few yrs ago when we were on again/off again and we both moved on together...or so I thought. In the meantime I started my own business, my mother became terminally ill and my fiance and I ...

A.   13 October 2010: You're right. It is all about him, but I feel like I have no choice..and if I left it would be even more stressful and emotionally and financially draining and lonely.... (read in full...)

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