It bothers me that my father in-law always brings up racial topics when I meet a new family member...How do I handle this diplomatically?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am engaged and soon to be married to a wonderful man. His family loves me very much and I love them too. The only thing is my in laws are very over bearing. I almost feel bad about this situation because most people aren't lucky...
A. 16 April 2011: Dear 30-35; I can see you are in a very difficult situation and I am going to be very honest with you about it. Your father in law is not going to change. In order for that to happen the entire family, your fiance included would have t... (read in full...)
My friend asked to stay with me for a while but I don't want her to even though I like her. What do I do?
Q. ive gotten myself in a bind! help! ok,im a 28 yr old single mom who lives by herself. i have a friend,same age as me,whom we've been friends since middle school. she's single with no children. she's recently come upon hard times and had to move out ...
A. 16 April 2011: Dear 26-29; I see your dilemma. An easy way to get an answer for yourself to something that is confusing is to put it to your self this way: what would I regret about this decision? Given that none of us want to look back on regrets in our l... (read in full...)
She loves me like I'm her brother and I'm confused!
Q. i hve a girl who is my best frd... i love her a lot... she has a crush on a guy... bt tht guy jst nvr respnds to her.. he is very egoistic.... now she has decided to move on from him... i cant tell that i love her coz if i do i m 200% sure my ...
A. 19 March 2011: Dear 18-21; It is lovely to hear you have such tender feelings for this girl. I think you should write her a letter and give it to her in person saying "This is for you", leaving her to read it alone and reply the way she wants to. Even if she ... (read in full...)
I'm angry at everything and everyone!
Q. I need help! I am angry about everything! Everything irritates me and upsets me, to the point that I'm never happy. I stress out so much and I can't think straight and I don't know what to do, I don't want to live like this anymore. I'm sick of ...
A. 9 March 2011: Hi,
I have the answer for you but I don't know if you will be able to do it. Until you can apply it everything will continue to be angry, awful, horrible etc., so here's the thing, you can change this but only after you consciously and sub-cons... (read in full...)
Should I break up with this guy because he is SO busy?
Q. This guy (he's 26) and I (I'm 23) have been talking for about 2 years now. Him and his friends call me his "girl", but we've never had "that talk" to say we're exclusive. We've just had this implied strong connection since we met a couple years ago. ...
A. 9 March 2011: Dear aged 22-25;
You need to suddenly turn into "cool girl" the one he will want to "hang" with and you can do this by:
1. Reminding yourself of all the reasons why you are amazing, unique and special - know who you are and you will have an attr... (read in full...)
Really paranoid when it comes to kissing a guy!!!
Q. Ok so I really like my friend and I've known him for about three years. I already know he likes me and when we first met we went out but it wasn't for tht long and we didn't even kiss. I'm pretty sure he's kissed a girl before and I'm way to scared ...
A. 28 February 2011: Dear 13-15;
Do you realise that every adult reading your question is extremely envious of you right now? Wow the first kiss! IT IS SO SPECIAL! And we all did it soooooo badly! Everyone on this planet wishes they had been a bit better at their fi... (read in full...)
I know he is never going to leave his wife for me, so how do I go cold turkey when I have to see him everyday?
Q. Hello I am a 33 year old lady who has got myself into a bit of a mess. I started seeing a co-worker in December 2009. He and I are both married, unhappy, but both staying for childrens/financial sake. He only married in January 2010. He didn...
A. 3 February 2011: Dear 30-35; Firstly, let me say that you sound like you're in turmoil and understandably given the situation you are in. I want you to seriously take the time to ask yourself the following: Do you want to continue being in turmoil? Is a pa... (read in full...)
I really like him, but I'm helping a friend to date him!
Q. I really am in like with this guy at work. He has so much in common with me in so many ways, I feel like we are perfect for each other. And I know he can see it... I can see it when he asks me certain questions, because he's trying to figure me ...
A. 3 February 2011: Dear 18-21; There is an old saying: what they do with you, they will do to you. It's an important one to remember. Why? Well in your case, think about if you finally get with the "Romeo" that you have been supporting because he is not emo... (read in full...)
After 2 years of dating, he's not ready for a relationship. What should I do?
Q. I really don't know what to do I've been with a guy for 2 years now and he still tells me that we not ready for a relationship even though we act like we going out. Should I stay and wait till he comes around or walk away?...
A. 11 January 2011: Dear Anonymous; I am concerned by your letter for a few reasons. Firstly, at the age of 16-17 in the full span of your life you are in the young love phase and young love with it's first experiences and awakenings deserves to be a tend... (read in full...)
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