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Hello Everyone,

I am and have always been that person who friends both male and female alike come to and tell all their problems to. Which I love. But sometimes I find myself inadequate or under experienced or for some of life's curveballs, and get in over my head in my own affairs. I guess that is how I ended up here, and I suppose thats common with most of us younger folks. I am a very analytical person, probably why I am a psychology major...

I am a 20 year old student, out in Southern California. I am extremely active and excessively social. Anyway I have been in a relationship for quite some time now (for me at least) and it recently had distance added to it. Its difficult at times but very rewarding.

Anyway,

I have lead a very interesting, unique twenty years and believe all the good and bad I have witnessed allows me to offer some well intentioned advice. I love the challenge and the potential for good, hope I am the able, well rounded, helpful agony aunt (well uncle) you need! I love to listen to any and all your troubles, hope I can help! This is an amazing place, I love how positive and supportive this group of friends is, thank you all and I am glad to be participating!

I feel like sex but he says he feels "tired"... Any ideas?

Q.   Anyone who reads this, I would love some feedback. My fiance and I have been togeather four years,and he is always turning me down for sex when I ask for it; saying he's tired. It's not just some of the time, it's all the time. This makes me feel so ...

A.   30 May 2006: This certainly isnt normal, I doubt your fiancee enjoys his sudden abstinence and I am sure its hard on you. But before you go looking for external reasons why he might be too "tired" for sex, look at him a little more carefully. It is very pos... (read in full...)

I don't understand what is going on in his head

Q.   I have been casually seeing a freind of mine for a three months now. We had been freinds for a while and kissed one night when we were out drinking. We are both single and happy to be single. We kissed the following weekend have been kissing and ...

A.   30 May 2006: I have been in a similar friends with feelings, monogamous relationship. It went on for about 6 months with some pretty intense weeks of fighting, and some really great weeks of low-commitment but intimate hooking up. All in all, it never worked ... (read in full...)

My friend went through the 'Mummy Test' and I might have overreacted

Q.   Fellow agony aunts, I have a friend who has been seeing a guy for about a month. Her guy wants a wife and kids - he is at the stage of life where these things should have happened by now. My friend is a few months away from starting her doctorate ...

A.   30 May 2006: I agree with Hopeful on this one, Its nice that you care for your friends academic future, but I am sure that since she is up for her doctorate she is very intelligent and capable of sniffing out "desperation" herself if thats the case. I agreee t... (read in full...)

He likes me shaved, but it hurts....what can I do?

Q.   My bf has a shaved pussy fetish. I met his needs, but it bleeds a lot when i shave and it stings. I want to keep it up for him though. What do i do? ...

A.   30 May 2006: I understand your motivations to please your partner, I prefer my girlfriend when she is clean shaven Although, she has her own personal hair hatred similar to bonym's. Anyway, your boyfriend is most likely oblivious to the problem (sounds like ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend found out I lied and it's ruining our relationship...

Q.   I am 20 and two years ago I met such an amazing guy, he was the first guy who respected me for who I am but because of various past experiences I was afraid to commit to a relationship and treated him quite badly for a long time. Last April we were ...

A.   29 May 2006: Wow, your post really hits home! I am 20 as well, and was in the exact same situation you are. Only in reverse! I met an incredible girl almost two years ago, this fall actually, and cheated on her secretly over winter break two years ago; before ... (read in full...)

Helping him get over an ex, but now his not communicating, is he just using me?

Q.   My mind feels scrambled!!!. I have been helping my male friend get over breaking-up with his ex but have found myself falling for him. I think he feels he same way about me. We have enjoyed cuddling each other very much but this has recently ...

A.   29 May 2006: You seem to be providing him with great support; at some degree to your expense... you are offering him some frienly female intimacy that he surely lost in breaking up with his ex. But it should raise flags that talking about her changed your ... (read in full...)

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