My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?
Q. I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...
A. 7 February 2015: First girlfriend was on the rebound. Told me she wished I looked different. Second 'girlfriend' was cheating on her semi-estranged boyfriend with me. I did not know this. She said I was "pretty ugly". Third girlfriend would not have sex with me... (read in full...)
My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?
Q. I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...
A. 6 February 2015: Abella, thanks for the input. I'm pretty rural. There are no sex therapists locally. The idea of a support group is intriguing. I will look into that.
In any case, I met the girl. She said she wasn't interested. The friend that got us to meet doe... (read in full...)
My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?
Q. I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...
A. 4 February 2015: Just to respond/clarify: It's not a trust issue. As far as I know I've never been cheated on & I would never do it so trust isn't something I think about. I guess I trust until given a reason not to and that's never happened.
I don't use social medi... (read in full...)
I'm a girl that fantasizes about being a guy!
Q. I'm bisexual, but I fantasise a lot about being a guy. And this confuses me so much, I don't know what to do....
A. 4 February 2015: I'm a bisexual male and I've occasionally fantasized about being female. I think if I could have chosen my sex it would have been female. Explore the fantasies, see where your mind takes you. Eventually you will probably become comfortable with ... (read in full...)
I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head
Q. Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am ...
A. 3 February 2015: Been there. Completely destroyed my first relationship almost 20 years ago. Never really recovered. I ended it because I was hurting her because I could not let her past go. I was a virgin. She had 2 previous partners (1 boyfriend, 1 for fun). Still ... (read in full...)
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