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I've hurt her and regret it now!

Q.   Is it right for me to say goodbye to her? About two weeks ago, I have sent out a goodbye letter to a girl whom I love because I was mentally exhausted after everything occurred between her and me. Btw here is the link for the goodbye letter: ...

A.   20 April 2011: thank you... (read in full...)

I've hurt her and regret it now!

Q.   Is it right for me to say goodbye to her? About two weeks ago, I have sent out a goodbye letter to a girl whom I love because I was mentally exhausted after everything occurred between her and me. Btw here is the link for the goodbye letter: ...

A.   19 April 2011: Oh well there is nothing I can do. Hopefully, things will get better when we meet in school again which will be next week. Anyway thanks for your support. I wish you can go through your own difficult process.... (read in full...)

I've hurt her and regret it now!

Q.   Is it right for me to say goodbye to her? About two weeks ago, I have sent out a goodbye letter to a girl whom I love because I was mentally exhausted after everything occurred between her and me. Btw here is the link for the goodbye letter: ...

A.   19 April 2011: Thanks for your honest opinion. When I wrote the letter, all my feelings that I was holding on for 6 months released. To be honest with you, I seriously think I have some kind of psychological problems. I don't feel happiness for long. And yo... (read in full...)

Should I remove this girl from my friend list on facebook? She broke my heart...

Q.   Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad. At t...

A.   16 April 2011: Thanks for everyone's help. I really appreciate everyone help. I will make the decision soon. Thanks... (read in full...)

Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?

Q.   Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her? Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is ...

A.   16 April 2011: I know but anyway thanks for your help.... (read in full...)

Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?

Q.   Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her? Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is ...

A.   15 April 2011: Dear Capri2, She used to be a good person but now a bad person, who hurts a lot after all the things I have done for her. If I didn't love her I would basically blacklist her. 83puremage1 ... (read in full...)

Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?

Q.   Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her? Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is ...

A.   14 April 2011: Thanks for you guys support and I written the letter while I was crying.... (read in full...)

I'm just not happy and feel like a failure in relationships

Q.   In the past 6 years I couldn't sense too much happiness in my life but a lot of amusement instead. In academic, I am absolutely on the edge since I got a scholarship and accepted by the best state school in england. A lot of people at my age...

A.   11 April 2011: Thanks for your help. I really appreciate it.... (read in full...)

I just can't persuade myself to believe that she is happy that I am heartbroken because of her.

Q.   One and half year ago, I fell in love with a girl but she did not like me and she turned my life upside down. During this extremely difficult time, another girl appeared in my life. She listened to me and found out we both suffered from the s...

A.   27 February 2011: Thanks... (read in full...)

Is it stupid to fall for someone?

Q.   Is it stupid to fall for someone? In the past two years I have fallen for two different girls at different time. I spent 17 months on the first girl and obviously end up with nothing. The second girl is my best friend who I just knew about two y...

A.   13 February 2011: Thanks for your advise... (read in full...)

How do I face her now, after I upset her and she moved on?

Q.   I recently upset a girl whom I love and she knows it really badly but she has chosen to date another guy instead of me. After ignoring me for two weeks and received two apology letter written by me. She had forgiven me but somehow I have no idea h...

A.   8 February 2011: Thanks everyone.... (read in full...)

Shall I tell the girl whom I love that I saw her boyfriend in town with another girl or just sit on the side and watch?

Q.   I recently upset a girl that I love a lot (she knows it) by saying her current boyfriend is using her. I said that to her because I care about her and put her at the top priority. I heard about that by coincidence, so I have no evidence to prove ...

A.   6 February 2011: Thanks for your valuable advise.... (read in full...)

What does she want?

Q.   I upset a girl that I love (she knows it)very recently by telling her boyfriend is using her as a temporary plan and some really bad things about him. I understand this would destroy her dream but she had promised me that she would not be ang...

A.   3 February 2011: First, she asked to know about these things, but she did not know I would tell her these things and maybe she was expecting me to say something else. Her boyfriend using her is a fact, but I have no evidence for it since I witnessed it by ... (read in full...)

What else can I do to gain her forgiveness?

Q.   I recently upset a girl really badly, so I wrote her a letter of apology. She has been ignoring me for the past few days and never replied to me. I seriously do not want her to hate me for the rest of my life. What else can I do to get her ...

A.   23 January 2011: Thanks for your advise. "then I have to leave" means I will only become a normal friend with her which is something that I do not want to happen since she has been helping me a lot and I do love her but she is currently in a relationship with som... (read in full...)

What else can I do to gain her forgiveness?

Q.   I recently upset a girl really badly, so I wrote her a letter of apology. She has been ignoring me for the past few days and never replied to me. I seriously do not want her to hate me for the rest of my life. What else can I do to get her ...

A.   23 January 2011: Thanks for everyone's advise. I will just wait for her to forgive me and if she doesn't then I will have to leave. ... (read in full...)

I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...

Q.   The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying...

A.   21 January 2011: I still can't figure out what made me to make that decision at that time. I knew she would not chose me because of that. I just wish she can forgive me and I will just let other problems to sort themselves out. I used to be a really bad guy w... (read in full...)

I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...

Q.   The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying...

A.   20 January 2011: Thanks for your advise again.I really appreciate your help. I have written a formal letter for apologize and waiting for reply. All i hope is she will forgive me and everything turned back to like the past. I just wish I didn't do this stupid t... (read in full...)

I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...

Q.   The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying...

A.   20 January 2011: I am not a very "open" person and hides a lot of feelings and other things from other people. Most of my time, I chose to swallow everything. She knew that I was upset so she tried to help me out but I was really upset because the guy she chose is... (read in full...)

I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...

Q.   The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying...

A.   20 January 2011: Thanks for your advise. To be honest, I have been think to apologize to her since I was the one who started it and she did not know I was going to tell bad things about her boyfriend. I don't mind to take the blame since I can't get any worse. ... (read in full...)

I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...

Q.   The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying...

A.   20 January 2011: I think I just done something really stupid. First, I don't want to lose her as a friend and second this basically turn my chance of being her boyfriend in the future to 0. I understand she is totally blind which is very normal since I would do... (read in full...)

I want to break up this couple

Q.   I have decided to fight for the girl I love even though she is in a relationship with someone else. I understand I am doing something extremely unethical and horrible but I just could not persuade myself to stand there like an idiot and watch ...

A.   13 January 2011: Yeah you guys are right, I will just be a good friend of her and let see what will happen in the future. I know I nearly committed to do some really stupid things but I seriously can't persuade myself to give up. Thanks for the advices ... (read in full...)

I want to break up this couple

Q.   I have decided to fight for the girl I love even though she is in a relationship with someone else. I understand I am doing something extremely unethical and horrible but I just could not persuade myself to stand there like an idiot and watch ...

A.   13 January 2011: yeah you guys are right but just somehow I can't persuade myself to give up. I understand I am those kind of people who like compete and fight until the last moment. I am kind of half torn too but I just can't persuade myself to give up. ... (read in full...)

I am being forced to go to boarding school by my parents!

Q.   My parents is forcing me to an all boys school which is the top school in the UK. I do not want to go to it because I will be a full boarder in that school, which means I will be in the campus 24/7. I seriously can't tolerate that. What c...

A.   10 January 2011: Thanks everyone ... (read in full...)

Should I just accept that I'll never find someone who loves me?

Q.   i know many of you here who have read my past posts realize that i needed to move on from my gf who has thrown me on an emotional roller coaster. Many of you also suggested i find someone new now thats the problem the way i got with my ex was ...

A.   23 December 2010: Don't give man. I understand how you feel since my situation is similar to yours one. Just don't give up and continue the journey. If you are tired then have a rest.... (read in full...)

How can I make her be my friend again?

Q.   Hi. Okay, so... I had a girl which was my best friend, we used to talk almost the whole time and being together a lot, I loved her but didn't tell her because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. One day she saw I had no mood, it was because of i...

A.   21 December 2010: I think you should just tell her how you feel about her. Trust me the most painful thing is you love someone but never have the courage to tell the person and then she goes out with another guy. If she rejected you, then that means she only tre... (read in full...)

Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?

Q.   Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not ...

A.   21 December 2010: Thanks Mifbla I will tell her when we go back to school and I hope she will be my girlfriend at last, which is unlikely to happen. But at least she will realize what I have done for her and it will make me feel better. So, I can move on. I... (read in full...)

Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?

Q.   Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not ...

A.   19 December 2010: Thanks Mifbla. I seriously have lost my confidence since this is the second time I got turned down by a girl. I never manage to get a girlfriend and the only reason is I have far too many problems for a sixteen years old kid. I am strong o... (read in full...)

Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?

Q.   Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not ...

A.   19 December 2010: Yea may be I am those kind of people who are designed to continue their journey on their own or I am just far too weird for anyone to understand me. And I will tell her in front of her because I simply can't continue like this and there is limi... (read in full...)

Why can't I be with the girl that I love?

Q.   Why can't I be with the girl that I love? People always say no pain no gain but how much pain I have to go through. I seriously had enough pain and I am too tired to continue. I have loved two girls so far at different time. I spent 15 month...

A.   18 December 2010: Thanks everyone and I feel a bit better.... (read in full...)

I might have lost out to another since I didn't ask her out when I had the chance!

Q.   Should I tell a girl that all my problem is because of my love to her. I fancied a girl who everyone believe she used to fancied me but I did not take it at that time due to I was not ready to go on to a new relationship since my last one ended u...

A.   14 December 2010: Thanks for your help and before I told her my best friend had told her everything and then came back to me about that. It was a shame that I could not tell her. According to my best friend she is extremely sorry what she has done but I am sure I ... (read in full...)

I might have lost out to another since I didn't ask her out when I had the chance!

Q.   Should I tell a girl that all my problem is because of my love to her. I fancied a girl who everyone believe she used to fancied me but I did not take it at that time due to I was not ready to go on to a new relationship since my last one ended u...

A.   13 December 2010: Here is an update of my version. The girl in this situation is taking relationship extremely serious, which is same as me. I know a lot of things about her apart from her lover, which I discovered secretly, so this means that she is not putting ... (read in full...)

I think she's interested in someone else!

Q.   I believe my girlfriend maybe seeing/interested in someone else… Basically, she added this guy called on facebook bout 2 weeks ago and put on her status tht she is checking out some fit boy on facebook wit her mates and the guy tht was the guy ...

A.   12 December 2010: I personally your girlfriend still has you in her heart but you are fading away slowly. Is good that you notice things are going wrong and the worst thing is she is not being honest to you, which is a serious concern. Moreover, you should j... (read in full...)

Getting a girlfriend

Q.   Hello I am a 17 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend before never kissed a girl nothing. Never had anyone really love me. I don't have any friends that are girls. Thing is I been talking to girls but I have not asked them out. I want to g...

A.   12 December 2010: Your problem is very common among people who are excellent at academics, just like me. The only difference is you are 18-21 and I am only 16. So don't worry, love will arrive when you don't expect according to some expert and according to my pe... (read in full...)

Getting a girlfriend

Q.   Hello I am a 17 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend before never kissed a girl nothing. Never had anyone really love me. I don't have any friends that are girls. Thing is I been talking to girls but I have not asked them out. I want to g...

A.   12 December 2010: Your problem is very common among people who are excellent at academics, just like me. The only difference is you are 18-21 and I am only 16. So don't worry, love will arrive when you don't expect according to some expert and according to my pe... (read in full...)

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