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He contacted me again after 7 months saying he wants to meet up but he's in a relationship! Help!

Q.   I’m really confused, nearly two years ago I dated this guy and he really hurt me. He messed me about and he stood me up and never contacted me until seven months later. He apologised and explained he lost my contact number etc. I didn’t w...

A.   4 May 2007: It sounds as though he regreted treating you badly in the first place and i think this is the reason it took him seven months to contact you again. However when you contacted him to meet up, what man would turn down an opportunity like that even... (read in full...)

I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?

Q.   Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my ...

A.   4 May 2007: In my opinion i would suggest you keep looking for the right one to loose your virginity to. I have been in this situation and went through with it. All though it was enjoyable and i did not feel uncomfortable at the time it desroyed our frie... (read in full...)

She keeps saying 'no not now' when I ask her out - should I just give up?

Q.   I am really confused about this girl. I have asked her out three times, seeing as she has never said no, just not now. Whenever i say anything about a relationship, she always says something about this day and time. For example, she said "stay ...

A.   4 May 2007: Well from a womans point of view it is obvious there is more going on with this girl than meets the eye. It seams as though she is afraid to commit to the relationship that you want. I think you can definatly be assured she likes you as she want... (read in full...)

I'm starting to get addicted on laughing gas!!!

Q.   This isn't a love or relationship question, but i dont know where to turn to, I'm starting to get addicted on laughing gas (nitrous oxide), last week i brought 240 canasters, and did them in 2 days, i brought another 240 today and did them all, my ...

A.   4 May 2007: Of course that is a step in the right direction! You should be proud of yourself for doing it. However it sounds as though you dont have enough faith and confidence to get over this problem. My advice would be to first tackle this and then move on ... (read in full...)

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