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How do girls masturbate?

Q.   hey, i'm 14 years old and like to masturbate but recently i want to try something different to my usual technique of 'humping' my chair. i don't want to use toys or finger myself. what else can i do? ...

A.   18 April 2011: Heyy all you have to do is play with your clit :)))... (read in full...)

He's nervous about hanging out with me..so, does he like me?

Q.   Ok so this guy I kind of like I asked him if he,could hang out today And he said that he wil try and go. Then later today which was when we were suppose to hang out he told me that he couldnt go. And then after I left I text him telling him he ...

A.   3 October 2010: I think he likes you. I think you should try flirting with him and if be responds to your flirting, he might like you. It is a good harmless way to tell if he does like you. Cause it seems like he is flirting with you. :)... (read in full...)

How can I stop getting so angry all the time??

Q.   Hi veeryone. I'm 13 and want to know why I am so angry. I haven't had a good life at all and my mom said she fears I will run away or something. But the littlest things get me angry and it is very sudden. I don't want to Hurt myself, but I want to ...

A.   3 October 2010: Some one said to tell you all about me so I will. My parents went through a really bad divorce, I have to move out of my house, and I my dog has cancer. My mom is so dressed out and i feel the same with school. I have just had a hard life and I'm ... (read in full...)

How can I reconnect with my father?

Q.   Hi. I am here because i'm just so confused. When I was about 6, my dad left my mom me and my two older sisters. Before I was even born they were fighting. When I was a kid I was so happy when my dad would come home from work, I would always run up ...

A.   29 September 2010: Hi, I just want you to know you aren't alone. It is like I just read my life story. But my sister and my family hate my dad. I'm going through this now and I'm 13. I'm sure it will be all over soon. Trust me, we feel the exact same way. If you ever ... (read in full...)

He doesn't say he loves me back anymore

Q.   I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more when I tell him I love him all he says is me too! He always use to call me babe and baby and beautiful but all of that has stopped,When we talk its so quiet its like he doesn't care anymore or he's ...

A.   31 August 2010: If I were you I would talk to him and ask him what is up with him. If he says something you don't like or is cheating on you, I would break up with him. You are young and will probably have tons more boyfriends. Hope that helped you a little and ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and no boys are interested in dating me. Is this normal?

Q.   I'm a 13-year-old girl and I've never had a boyfriend. Not even a little meaningless one when I was little, and I've never heard of a guy liking me or thinking I was pretty. I'm starting to feel really uncomfortable about it because all of my ...

A.   29 August 2010: I am 13 years old too. And I have had a couple boyfriends, but they didn't like me for me. They were just desperate. I feel like I have a hard life and I always pray to god to give me a break, but I never get one. You are not the only one out there. ... (read in full...)

Please help!!! Depression hurting me physically and mentally!!!

Q.   [Mod Note - OP's own title] I'm 13 years old and going into 8th grade. And I want to know why I don't feel pretty??? I get compliments from my friends and they say that I'm beautiful, but I don't get why they think that. They are pretty that I am. ...

A.   29 August 2010: Thank you so much for the answers and support : ). It helps me a lot and I made plans with a couple of friends to go out and spend some time together. Sorry thay this will be long, but I have recently found out that we are moving out of my house ... (read in full...)

I want to remain a virgin until I am at least 17 but I cant help getting really horny around my boyfriend!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year.[[I'm 14]] I'm a virgin. When we talk on the phone, on MSN, and when we see each other I just get SO horny. I just want to jump on him. I know enough about sex...(I have tons of free time so I read...

A.   27 August 2010: I agree that you are too young to have sex. I am the same age you are and I would want it 2. But I don't have a boyfriend :(. But I masturbate and it is awesome. I don't finger myself but I play with my clit and have orgasms. They feel good and that ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and have wanted a baby since I was 11!

Q.   hey i am 14 and my name is sherry i have allways wanted a baby sence i was 11 and i really want one i have got a boyfriend and everything but i really dont know what to do ...

A.   27 August 2010: I really think you should wait. It isn't like out are going to stay with the boy your with now for the rest of your life and good luck finding another boyfriend who will accept a baby. If you get pregnant, odds are your mother and father will lose ... (read in full...)

Do I move and make a go of it or do I let him go even though I think I love him

Q.   hi im a gay guy who lives in america but i have a boyfriend in the uk i care about him a lot and we talk every day he addmited to me yesterday that he had fluirted with a couple guys but nothing else has happend and i accepted that the thing is he ...

A.   26 August 2010: Ok I want to know if it works out. I hope it does. It sounds like you love eachother very much. : ) tell me how it goes ... (read in full...)

Older woman w/ a younger man

Q.   is it wrong for me to have a relationship with a 17yr lad i am a 33yr woman with 2 children, i don't look 33 and he doesn't look 17, we both are very much in love so i wanted to know does age really matter if you're happy?...

A.   24 August 2010: I think that it is ok. If you love eachother as much as you say you do, then it is acceptable. Love is so powerful that age shouldn't matter. Stay happy And hope it works!!!! : ) ... (read in full...)

Trying to make plans between two friends and don't know who to chose!

Q.   I'm not sure what to do about meeting up with my friends. One of my friends is having a night out for her birthday on 4th September, bu ti havent seen her for a few years, and there will be a lot of people there that i dont know, and i feel shy in ...

A.   24 August 2010: I think that you should go out to the town with your one friend. If you go to the party and you dont know anyone it would be akward and boring. You should catch up with your friend and go somewhere you have never been. You might have a lot of fun. ... (read in full...)

Do I move and make a go of it or do I let him go even though I think I love him

Q.   hi im a gay guy who lives in america but i have a boyfriend in the uk i care about him a lot and we talk every day he addmited to me yesterday that he had fluirted with a couple guys but nothing else has happend and i accepted that the thing is he ...

A.   24 August 2010: Ok think that of you love him enough thya you should be together. If he loves you maybe he could move there or help you move there by giving you a little money to help. Best of luck to you both and I hope of works out. Stay happy : )... (read in full...)

I'm not bi but I think I like my friend!

Q.   O.k first of all me and my best friend are like the closest ppl u will ever meet. She has a boyfriend and all and thats cool the only problem being is I think I'm attracted to her I don't know why I mean I am very straight believe me but when she ...

A.   24 August 2010: I think that you love you friend (as a friend) so much that you do get butterflies. You two have such a close connection that you would do anything for eachother. So I think you are straight, but you two are just very close. Best of luck and hope it ... (read in full...)

Would experimenting make me gay?

Q.   I am a guy who has been completely straight all my life, but I have always had a fascination with well endowed men in porn. I have thought about trying out a "big" guy (just oral probably) to satisfy my curiosity. Would this make me gay, or is it ...

A.   24 August 2010: I don't think there is any problem with it. Women do it all the time and it isn't fair that women can but men can't. It is totally not fair. I'm straight but I feel it is ok to experiment. I also support gay rights. So go for it and best of luck!!! ... (read in full...)

Is it over? Because I'm afraid its not!

Q.   abusive ex boyfriend that abused me verbally, emotionally and physically ,i got restraint order against him and he been warned not to contact me again after being stalking and begging/pleading for 3 months after i broke up with him now it has been...

A.   24 August 2010: It should be over but if it isn't and he starts abusing you again, I would probably take it to court. I have a bad family and this all happened. You could also get a restraining order for a long time if you are that afraid. Hope that helped and good ... (read in full...)

I want to leave but I'm scared

Q.   I want to leave him but I am scared. When I tried to split up with him and ask him to move out, he said that he would chuck me out and take my son from me. I dont want to lose my son and I dont want to move out but he wont go. He has been ...

A.   23 August 2010: I think that u should go to the police, too. My mom did that to my dad and she got a restraining order on him. If you want him away from your son, and if you are scared you should deffinately turn to the police. That's what my mom did and that's ... (read in full...)

How can I tell my friend to butt out???

Q.   I'm fourteen and my bf and I have been going out for two months but somehow I find myself almost madly in love with him I've met him in person but we've never been alone..my friend that hooked us up always comes.. I know she us jealous but I do...

A.   22 August 2010: I think that you should talk to them both and work it out. If she doesn't understand then she might not be a good friend. Friends support eachother and if you tell her how you feel, she might understand. And I would talk to your boyfriend and work ... (read in full...)

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