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Why does it take so long for my answers to appear

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Question - (8 July 2020) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2020)
A male United Kingdom age , *ustryingtohelp writes:

Why do my replies not appear for days sometimes? Does this site monitor everyone's replies? I read a post, write a reply then watch as loads of others pop up before mine eventually appears days later when everyone has moved on. Feeling despondent.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (10 July 2020):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntThank you for pointing me in the right direction, WiseOwlE. That's very helpful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2020):

You can go in under "Forums;" if you want to keep your inquiries just between you and the other aunts and uncles.

We all go through moderators. At the beginning your answers have to be reviewed just to be sure they follow-guidelines.

Please don't be discouraged.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (9 July 2020):

Honeypie agony auntJust keep at it :)

New posters and people who answer do have a delay (like Auntie BimBim explained) over time this will be faster. It just means there are people (Our lovely Mods) who take care with what is posted.

And don't forget, OP - all mods are volunteers and have lives. So that can also add to the delay.

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A male reader, Justryingtohelp United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2020):

Justryingtohelp is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your response. I didn't expect the question to be made public but couldn't see any other way of contacting the mods.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (9 July 2020):

Aunty BimBim agony auntHi Just trying to help

Ive been modding this site for a number of years. Some of us are, after a time, put on automatic so that our answers appear immediately. This decision is made after discussion between the mods, and the action allowing it to happen is done by a senior moderator.

Mods are alerted there are questions and answers when the number of questions to be modded hits a certain number ... because the site isnt coming up close to the top in google searches etc, the number of questions being recieved is much less than it used to be, so sometimes it can take a day for the number of questions to hit the desired number, which means any modded answers also sit there waiting for the magic number to be hit.

Please dont let your discouragement lead you to giving up on the site, I'm sure the quality of your answers has been noted b the senior mods.

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