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Is it common for a man to steal and wear his partner's panties?

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Question - (21 August 2017) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2018)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Ok I was with my long distance lover three

Months ago.He told

Me over the phone that he stole a pair of my

Panties ...did I realize they were missing?

No... he said When

He put them

On he got hard... said he liked that the

Panties were soft.

We both laughed....

Is this common?

Also he had never married ...

and has mentioned several times

That his family has commented or asked

If he is gay?

He says No

But has mentioned that several s times...

So there aren't two issues here

I love him ...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2018):

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Ok I thought the whole panty thing was kind of cute.

When I asked him what he wanted to Christmas

He said a pair of sexy friend underwear ..

For him. So I bought him a pair of men's

That glow in the dark ... I think

He he just has a fetish with underwear.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2017):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntNot common, but not totally rare either. That said, him taking them without permission is not a good sign.

It doesn't indicate anything about sexual orientation.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (22 August 2017):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think it's common as most men don't fit their partner's panties.

There are many men who enjoy women's underwear. To wear them or sniff or insert "whatever they like to do to these poor panties" - not sure why. It's underwear.

I liked "sleeping" with one of my husband's T-shirts when he was deployed. It wasn't dirty or real sweaty, but it was his.

What it comes down to is this, are you OK with it or not? If not... say so. If you are... then good for both of you.

And no, it has nothing to do with his sexual orientation.

However, if he gets off on wearing your underwear does that mean he could be a cross dresser? I don't know.

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A male reader, Riot2017 Mexico +, writes (22 August 2017):

I can't talk for your partner regarding the gay issues,

but when you are in a LDR relationship like me, some times the only thing you have from your partner is her panties, which really turn me on.

I think the panties thing is normal since many man have fetishes, but not the gay stuff.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2017):

It doesn't means he gay but I wouldn't know whether or not it's common. I was seeing someone for awhile who liked to buy me sexy lingerie. He once made a comment, while stroking my nyloned thigh, that it felt so nice he'd like to try a pair on himself.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (22 August 2017):

CindyCares agony aunt No, common is not common, -in the sense that it does not happen that often, it is not very usual. Then again, neither it is a big deal, as fetishes go it's pretty tame- there are much weirder ones around. If this is brand of kinky, it sounds pretty innocuous.

Bur why should he be gay because of this ? If he were guy... he would steal MEN's underwear, wouldn't he ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2017):

Yes it is very common like keeping a lovers picture or shirt but much more intimate and a turn on when you are thinking of them. It only becomes depraved when someone steals other peoples knickers and bras from the clothlines.

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (22 August 2017):

Myau agony auntIs it common? ..............No.

Oddly I did end up with my first 2 gfs panties.... They left them over I assure you.

But if you like him, then tell him he owes you a pair back.

have fun.

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