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Im confused, does he like, me or was the touching up just because of the moment ?

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Question - (30 September 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

last night me and 3 of my friends went to my house to watch the grudge, and well obiously it is a scary movie so me and my really good guy friend were like hugging, and cuddling really closely. i would move one of my legs like over his legs, and he would grab the back and hold it there (hes on the left of me) (so i moved my right leg over his legs) but then he would kinda move my shirt up just a tad bit, and he would gentaly feel that part of my back and hip, and evenucaly did that to my stomach a bit.....he would always have his hands like on my back and fairly close to my butt.....and aventualy he moved his hand on to my butt a few times.......and one time he moved his hand between my legs, then quickly moved it away but by the end of the movie, he started to move his hand right under the elastic on my shorts i was wearing, then (dident go in pants) but moved his hand on my crotch area a bit, so i repostioned my legs so he could rub a bit further down (again he dident go in my pants)........but now im really confuzed, does he like me, or was he just in the moment?

(ps. i like him)

pls help thanx!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007):

It all depends girl is this the first time he ever did this to you? Id he ever do it again after words and did yall start talking after words?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

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hes deffently not low like that! hes one of the nicest most caring guy i know. hes also like my best friend, and were really close. he wasent gonna finger me hes not like that! trust me! he wouldent just jump into sumthing like that! i think he just got into the moment, but he wouldent have taken it any further the he did.

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2006):

Wendyg agony auntHmm yeah he likes you but almost in a pervy way... I dont think you want to start off on that footing... No man I have ever dated has proceeded to act in that manner towards me! Basically its about respect and if a guy had never asked me out but was sitting touching me up in an initmate way before we have even chatted properly would get shown the door lol. It could just be hes after one thing so be careful... I mean rather than ask you for a date hes just touched you up.. That should show warning signs.. so take it slow and see if hes up for going out doing fun things rather than just sexaul ones... theres a world of difference between someone that likes you for you and someone that likes you for that they think they can get!

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2006):

David Lewis agony auntWell, if I liked a girl, I would not let her know I did by attempting to finger her when around friends. I would prefer to have a quiet chat and let her know, rather than just touching her up.

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntI would talk to him, from what you have said I would say he does like you but the fact you wasn't alone and he wasn't completely sure on how far he could take things with you caused him to hold back and take things slow.

Good luck :o)

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A male reader, fallenman United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2006):

fallenman agony auntIt is possible that he didn't want to go any further because your 3 friends were in the room at the same time. He may have been a bit shy so as not to look like he was going to do fore play or something in front of them.

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A female reader, kdlady +, writes (30 September 2006):

I think it's official--HE LIKES YOU!

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