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He gets what he wants, then he's a total stranger. Are we just together for sex?

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Question - (30 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:


Lately every time I sleep with my guy, afterwards he acts like a total stranger. Then he never seems to want to hook up with me for ages afterwards. It's starting to depress me. It makes me feel cheap. Does this mean he only wants me for sex?

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (31 July 2006):

Bev Conolly agony auntYes, I think he only wants sex. When you provide that, he's satisfied for a while, and disappears.

What happens next is up to you. Now that you have the opinions of a few people that it's just about sex and not about caring for you, what do you do? If you enjoy the sex, and can separate that out from Love, you're fine.

However, if you want to find someone who loves you and makes you feel wanted, then you'd do well to extricate yourself from a sex-only relationship with this guy, so that you feel free to get out and meet other men.

You know what I'm going to say...

Move on.

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A female reader, Astrid Spain +, writes (31 July 2006):

Astrid agony auntCheeer up! It is not that important there are many men in the world. drop him or talk to himonly if you like him very very much, if you only wanted sex you could choose a really good looking guy dear!

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2006):

DrPsych agony probably means he sees you as sex only. Men who are really into you want to spend time hanging out regardless of any sexual activity. Anyone who makes you feel bad surely isn't worth the effort...if you were happy to go along with the sex thing then it would be fine but as you say it makes you feel 'cheap' and depressed so why not walk away with your head held high and find someone to treat you nice...or rather don't find someone, let them find you!

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