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Did I miss the boat with a relationship?

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Question - (14 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I fell in love at 16 and got engaged at 18 my boyfriend went to service. I met a boy at work who I heard was crazy about me. He wanted to ask me out.

I happened to know that he was seeing a girl already steady on and off.

I finally went for a car ride with him, and he asked me if I was afraid of my boyfriend. Because one my boyfriend had seen us talking at a dance and he hit him.

I said No and he never asked me out, he kept asking if I was still engaged and people who knew my boyfriend said yes.

He got mad at me for about two weeks and then detached.

Did I miss my boat why can't i forget him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

I had no way of knowing if the man would break up with his girlfriend. He never really asked me out, but behind my back asked people at work about me and if I was still going out with the boy and still engaged. Since I had told the man that I had broken up and I lied because I wanted him to ask me out but he never did. I tried to explain why I lied and he just would not listen and was mad.

I did marry the boy and I am sorry. What I am asking is what could I have done different that would have had a better result.

Also thanks for your insite I wish I had that at the time.

I cannot forget the man but I have been married a long time to the boy and often think of the man. Why do I think of him so much when it is hopeless? I guess that is my question.

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A female reader, luvy duvy United States +, writes (14 March 2009):

luvy duvy agony auntI don't the man your engaged to or whatever is a nice guy. If he hits a guy for talking to you, that means he doesn't want him talking to you or you talking to him. And if he hits a stranger for talking to you he must not trust you and he must be a jealous boy. A lack of trust and jealousy in a relationship will never work. And if he hit that man I don't find it hard to believe that he will hit you too.

I think the man at your job thinks this as well, and no you didn't miss his boat. If I were you I would hurry before someone excepts the ticket with your name on it.

Ha! Take notice that I refered to the boy you are engaged to as, a boy. Being jealous and having such a lack of trust is for boys. The boy at your job is a man.

But, if your leaving the boy for the man (the dude that you work with) , make sure that it is what you want to do and that the man still feels for you and is available. and if he isn't and you still want to leave the boy, thats even better

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