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... Send *nowbird a private message | | | *nowbird's profile:I am a mother of 2 grown up boys who have had problems of their own, and I have a lot of experience in relationships, (Was married for 31 years, but to the wrong man), so am about to face a divorce. I have been through a lot of traumas in my personal life, both in my childhood and throughout.
I still see the good in people, though I have been through it somewhat, and still they all say I am very young for my age - something I always reply to that I refuse to get old!!! (Don't like it, won't have it!!!) :o)
I have helped a lot of friends, one bereaved at a young age of her husband, a few who have had cancer, (and survived); one who did not - a family member who has suffered sexual abuse at the hands of a man she was getting to know as her step-dad; one very dear friend who has just died and will be so sorely missed - by many people, not just me; and my sister, who was deserted by her boyfriend of 14 yrs and deprived of ever being able to have a child thanks to him; the list goes on - yes, you could say I have had a lot of life experience. I see things from all sides and try not to judge.
I live in Sale, near Manchester, England.
Without wanting to sound 'cheesy', the things which make me tick are people who go the extra mile for others, and, whilst I am no Mother Theresa, I try to live by the same ethic. After all, why else would we have been put on this earth?? I just hate to see good people being treated badly..we all have to live in this world, after all..
Not really religious, but try to do the right thing! Usually find a sense of humour helps too...thanx for reading this! |
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I love her so much that when we are apart it hurts so much, how can I deal a bit better ?
Q. Is it possible to love somebody TOO much? I am engaged to a girl, she has made me the happiest I have ever been in my life. When we are together, I am in heaven, but when we are apart, I am like a lost puppy. When she is not around, I become moo...
A. 6 September 2006: This is so romantic! I feel your pain, and do hope you can very soon get together on a permanent basis - like the old saying goes - "Love will find a way"..you really need to look after yourselves though!... (read in full...)
Worried about my sons odd diet!!
Q. Hi there Apologies if this seems weird or odd, but it's a problem which I can't seem to find much advice for. My 14-year-old son is having an odd diet; he ate spaghetti, ice-cream and mashed potato in one meal washed down with Coca-Cola. Then...
A. 6 September 2006: It does seem odd, but kids do the strangest of things - especially in their teens! It could be a touch of teenage rebellion - easier to handle than some of the other tricks I have heard of, or drugs.. How long has he been doing this?
Could he be c... (read in full...)
Should I give up?
Q. Im a teen and a boy who i really love ,my ex boyfriend he has said he still liked me and we kissed and i gave him head but he went out with another girl after it :( and while he was going out with her i did it again. And again when he wasn't with ...
A. 6 September 2006: Sorry, love but you are as bad as one another - he is using you and you are making it easy for him to do so.
If he is coming to you for sexual gratification whilst going out with another girl, what does thid=s tell you about him, and how do you feel... (read in full...)
How do you compliment guys, looks-wise?
Q. This is going to sound like such a stupid question, oy. How are you supposed to compliment guys, as far as looks go? When a guy says you are beautiful or gorgeous, what do you say back besides "Oh, thanks." ? I always feel stupid saying "Thank...
A. 6 September 2006: Ooo, Yos, you are all those things..what a shame you look like an orange and white fish!! We luv ya anyhoo..
Just really look at him, make up your mind what it is about him that really makes him unique in your eyes, and tell him what attracts... (read in full...)
Is he just leaving his options open ?
Q. Q: I am dating a guy for over 2 months. We have already spoken of marriage which will happen in 1-1 1/2 years time. He is very jealous of me because I am a very friendly person and I do make alot of male friends. So he tends to leave trademarks on ...
A. 4 September 2006: Yes, he could be insecure, but how come you say you are about to get married- you have only known him for 2 months! Not enough time to really know him, you are still at the 'walking-on-eggshells', romantic stage, and putting 'trade-marks on you - ... (read in full...)
Why cant he accept that we are over, is it because he loves me or simply cant face rejection!?
Q. Iv broken up with my lover because i felt our relationship wasn't going anywhere.We were together for over 3 years but he lacked intimacy,even though i showed him what i wanted he appeared uncomfortable and he only got really affectionate when sex ...
A. 1 September 2006: I think you have just answered your own question here..he did'nt learn his lesson then - what is to say he ever will? Trust me, you are better off with someone who can GIVE and receive pleasure, and he sounds far too selfish. I was married to a ... (read in full...)
I cant move on from her as shes come back to live with me with our son... please help I dont know what to do...
Q. Hi everyone, i split with my gf of over three years a couple weeks ago, her decision, feelings changed . gone, lost faith cos of arguments ages ago when we were rocky, but we sorted that out and seemed to be getting on with the issues not returning ...
A. 1 September 2006: I think you are doing the right thing. You have wrestled with your conscience for so very long now it is all you can do you really can do no more it is like flogging a dead horse, and she really can't see the wood for the trees. Very difficult for ... (read in full...)
My husbands friend flirts with me, could there be a real attraction?
Q. Hi. I'm really unsure as to how my husbands friend feels towards me. He's single. He keeps eye contact and flirts with me when he's drunk. Every time I see him, he makes comments about my clothes, not bad or good, just comments on my boots or coat ...
A. 1 September 2006: Zanders, I agree with your sentiments in the context you are addressing (if she were interested in him) - but please re-read the post.. I can't see that she is interested in the least?! Just wants to know what this guy is up to!!... (read in full...)
Why is my husband doing this to us??
Q. Dear cupid, My husband left me and the children last week for another woman who is 20 years younger than me his excuse was he did not love me anymore. I had no warning this was to happen he took all his things this week he came to see the children...
A. 1 September 2006: HOLD ON!!!
He has ABSOLUTELY NO right to tell you to move out and sell your home - get legal advice ASAP - As long as the children are dependants they have a right - as you do - to stay in the home..any divorce court will tell you that!
You a... (read in full...)
My husbands friend flirts with me, could there be a real attraction?
Q. Hi. I'm really unsure as to how my husbands friend feels towards me. He's single. He keeps eye contact and flirts with me when he's drunk. Every time I see him, he makes comments about my clothes, not bad or good, just comments on my boots or coat ...
A. 1 September 2006: I would err on the side of caution here - it does seem as though he fancies you and he is definitely being over-familiar. I would not sit next to him or give him any encouragement whatsoever..
Have you spoken to your husband about his behaviou... (read in full...)
What sex positions hurt the least?
Q. which sex posion herts the least do you fink!? im a virgin and would like some help for any ideas?...
A. 1 September 2006: First of all, make sure that you are relaxed and ready for sex. Foreplay is very important to get you in the mood and lubricated enough for penetration.
If you are on top, then you are in control of how much you will take, how fast, how deep, et... (read in full...)
She talks about marriage, but Im worried it could lead me going astray!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years. She's already starting to think seriously about marriage, but I'm not sure. I know I love her, but she's the first girl I've ever dated, and I can't help being physically attracted to ...
A. 1 September 2006: You have been with this girl for 3 years, no wonder she is taking the relationship seriously!! Whatever do you mean ALREADY she is talking about marriage, etc..? 3 years is a long time!
You are acting like a small boy climbing a tree - you can'... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: I find "Tiger" works well, and I have nick-names of Big Bad Bear, or Bare Bear for my man (whichever happens to be appropriate at the time!!) which really suits him as he has hair the colour of a teddy bear...(and a bit of a 'belly' - which he is ... (read in full...)
A death in the family and he is not being supportive?
Q. I have just had a death in the family my 6 year old cousin died of an epileptic fit and i am finding it hard to cope with it and when i ask for support from my partner he just says that i am being stupid whats done is done but this death is really ...
A. 1 September 2006: He is a heartless cad - you poor girl,is he made of stone?? If a tragic death of a little child can't move him, WHAT ON EARTH CAN?!?
You are most definitely NOT stupid, and you know it!
I am so dumbfounded at his crass insensitivity that even I ... (read in full...)
I proposed but he said no, I feel so shut down!
Q. hi there, my partner has been married before for ten years and he had 2 kids with his ex wife. i proposed to him on our anniversary and he said yes but a couple of weeks after that i asked him if he really wanted to be engaged to me because i wasnt ...
A. 1 September 2006: I do hope you have discussed with him how you are feeling - you poor girl, you must be feeling awful..Why on earth would he say yes, and then change his mind? Perhaps he was taken by surprise by your proposal, and got cought up in the romance of it ... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 31 August 2006: Congratulations, you star!!!
Keep up the good work now, you have set yourself the most WONDERFUL precedent!! Be wonderful for each other!! xx SO happy for you!! x... (read in full...)
I cant move on from her as shes come back to live with me with our son... please help I dont know what to do...
Q. Hi everyone, i split with my gf of over three years a couple weeks ago, her decision, feelings changed . gone, lost faith cos of arguments ages ago when we were rocky, but we sorted that out and seemed to be getting on with the issues not returning ...
A. 31 August 2006: And don't let her 'arm and leg draped over you' get to you - she was asleep, and it is a comfort thing, like a warm pair of slippers...don't put any importance on that, she knows full well which buttons to press, that is why she sleeps in your bed!... (read in full...)
I want baby with my husband...but he doesn't want this. What can I do to convince him?
Q. I would like a 3rd child, ( I have 2 from my previous relationship, he has no biological children) but my husband is happy with my two, in fact we are in progress of him adopting them) For a year and a half now I have been talking to him about it ...
A. 31 August 2006: Could one of his fears be that once he holds his very own 'flesh and blood' child in his arms, that he thinks, rightly or wrongly, that it could create a shift in his affections and love for your two?..Just a random thought, something else to throw ... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 31 August 2006: I know Wendy - just that I thought it was so amusing that someone should write in with this 'problem', when there is so much trauma and real sadness going on - to me, it just beggars belief! ... (read in full...)
My online guy wants to meet in person, im a bit worried incase he doesnt like me....
Q. Hi all, ive met a guy online and we have been chatting for a bit and exchanged photos, he now wants to meet me which is great, but im worried about meeting him in case he dont like what he sees. Also i maybe overreacting but i think he talks to ...
A. 31 August 2006: You can't expect him to focus on you just yet, you haven't even met him!!
He has a right to keep in touch with other people until he has met someone who he can feel he can commit to, and can offer him the same commitment.. that is the nature o... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 31 August 2006: I note with interest, and not without amusement, that someone with a sense of humour has put this piece of 'agony' under the header 'BIG Question!...lol.. take a look at some of the others on this site love, and ask yourself - do you really imagine ... (read in full...)
Not sure if my net guy is playing hard to get or does he just want to be friends ?
Q. i have been chatting to a man on the net for 2 months and met him last wk.his really nice and i have never felt so comfortable around someone in meeting for the first time,even his friend kept asking if we had met up before,as we were so relaxed and ...
A. 31 August 2006: Fingers crossed here too, and going from your letters I think you are more than capable of charming this guy's toes off!! I do hope all goes well for you. Take care, chicky!!... (read in full...)
Caught him with his pants down, was it more to it?
Q. hi, my bf and i have been together 3 years, about 10months ago i saw my bf doing something which i have always qestioned in my mind. im 20 his 25. one day i was coming home afer school early , i opened our front door and walked in and saw my bf st...
A. 31 August 2006: You would definitely be better off without him. If someone is cheating, and is found out, the first thing they do is counter-attack by accusing you of snooping...My answer to this retort is that a person who cheats forfeits their right to ... (read in full...)
I love her so much that when we are apart it hurts so much, how can I deal a bit better ?
Q. Is it possible to love somebody TOO much? I am engaged to a girl, she has made me the happiest I have ever been in my life. When we are together, I am in heaven, but when we are apart, I am like a lost puppy. When she is not around, I become moo...
A. 31 August 2006: Is there no way that you could move closer to her? Can't one of you re-locate? Silly question, maybe, as you have probably already considered it, but the way it is affecting you, even to take a cut in wages for a while, could go some way to ... (read in full...)
I think if I don't leave her, I will mess up her life. Should I leave and how do I do it?
Q. should i leave my girlfriend? I still love her but i cant let her go through with this. I'm 17 and i stayed at hers one night and she heard us fooling around and now shes being a bit harsh about it, shes slapped my gf, changing her college to avoid ...
A. 31 August 2006: It seems as though she has more to worry about with her mother than she does with you! She is being abused at home, which is most likely to be the cause of her self-harming. This girl needs help, and so does her mother. You could help her by ... (read in full...)
How do I let this guy know my true feelings for him?
Q. I met this guy online a few months ago and we have chatted on and off since (most nights in fact), we have been out a few times from a few drinks at a bar to shopping together also went over one night to watch dvds and also we went to the cinema ...
A. 31 August 2006: Just start gently, like touching him on the arm when you tell him something, and slowly progress, put a hand on his shoulder when you are laughing. Touch his hair - men usually love that, I like to quickly scrunch my fingers at the back of his head ... (read in full...)
When I see him..I get hurt and start shaking inside. Why am I this way?
Q. hey guys, What does it mean when you start shaking in front of a person that you had been attracted to for a long time or may be in love. This man in particular and myself are at a stage of life where we know we can never be together as we both are...
A. 31 August 2006: Hi there... I think this is a case of - "question asked, question answered" - you know you are in love with this guy. Best all round if you can steer clear of him and concentrate on your own relationship.
Not easy, I know, but at times you will... (read in full...)
This 14 year old has a crush on me...and I 'm an adult! I don't want to date him so what should I do?
Q. There is this 14 year-old boy that I have known for four years and like as a younger brother as well as a friend. The problem is that he seems to have a crush on me. I know that he and I couldn't legally date and have sex until he is the minimum age ...
A. 31 August 2006: You obviously like the kid, so how about saying something along the lines of, say, "when I was your age I used to get crushes too, but you know you are too young to be thinking about dating"... Tell him that he is a nice boy and you like him as a ... (read in full...)
Are her orgams real or fake?
Q. I think i gave my girlfriend an orgasm but i dont no! the last three times me and my girlfriend have had sex she has been on top and after about 10 mins she says she feels a pulsing inside of her a few mins later she says she has 1 big pulse an...
A. 31 August 2006: It sounds pretty genuine to me, as if she was faking it she would probably make a lot more noise about it. Also she perhaps wouldn't be so descriptive..
Why worry anyhow, as long as you are both enjoying yourselves? No pressure = good sex!... (read in full...)
I'm a 23 year old virgin with a 5.5 inch penis. I feel shy about having sex...help!
Q. i am 23 old virgin and i have 5.5 inch penis .should i feel shy from having sex ? i feel shy :(...
A. 31 August 2006: 5.5? - That's a fine size, don't be shy, for goodness sake! I had a couple of boyfriends who had large penises, and they could'nt go too fast, or get too excited because they would really hurt!! And that does'nt really make them the best of ... (read in full...)
What a mess... what do i do. Give up? (long)
Q. YES IT IS LONG BUT I SO NEED HELP FROM AS MANY AS POSSIBLE. PLEASE PLEASE YOU SMART ONES READ THINK AND HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING i was with my gf for three and half years, lived together for a lot of it and we had a baby eight months ago. We...
A. 30 August 2006: This is heartbreaking - you are turning yourself inside out for this woman and obsessing about her happiness - whilst she is letting your world crumble around you. Please do not bruise yourself anymore. Let the doctors take over, they are ... (read in full...)
He cheated, I will forgive, I ask if he still wants me, he doesnt know!!!!!
Q. Hi. I've been married for 2 years and recently discovered my husband has been cheating. It started 1yr ago almost to the date of our anniversary. He has been lying to me for the past year about this and I learned last month he has been "miserable"...
A. 30 August 2006: Seek counselling first and foremost - for the sake of the children, you owe it to them to give it a chance. Normally in these circumstances I'd say leave him, but there is so much at stake, and you have proven that you are a strong person in that ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 30 August 2006: Lovely toaster, Yos, now... to make some virtual toast!! (reads virtual instructions...)... (read in full...)
How do i know if my husband is unfaithful?
Q. how do i know if my husband is unfaithful? He is suddenly not interested in sex. He critisizes me constantly He ogles other women. He wants to have a penis enlargement. He is suddenly working late often. He spends money (up to R1000) ev...
A. 30 August 2006: Knickers in the car??? What if he has never had sex in the car - you would well and truly have egg on your face!!
Just keep your eye open for clues - and yes, a great idea to 'surprise' him with a lovely meal at work...he may just end up wearing ... (read in full...)
What a mess... what do i do. Give up? (long)
Q. YES IT IS LONG BUT I SO NEED HELP FROM AS MANY AS POSSIBLE. PLEASE PLEASE YOU SMART ONES READ THINK AND HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING i was with my gf for three and half years, lived together for a lot of it and we had a baby eight months ago. We...
A. 30 August 2006: You say she has no feelings for you and "is like stone" towards you - yet you are putty in her hands as far as she is concerned.
It seems to me that she is leaning on you really hard, and using your son as a blackmail weapon to get her own way.... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 and my Dad's friend always grabs at me! Who will believe me and what should I do?
Q. hi.i'm 12 years old virgin. my dad's closest friend grabs me at any chance he gets. i've told him not to do that and i'll tell for him if he tries it again but he says no one will believe me not even my dad his good friend for years. He said he will ...
A. 30 August 2006: Tell one of your step parents..they will be able to see that you are not lying, by your hesitance in telling them. They will be able to see that something is troubling you, and that you are afraid.. Is it affecting your school work? Before long a ... (read in full...)
She offered herself up for sex and I turned her down! Should I have done that?
Q. hi,theres a girl at school and well we were gettin on real good,and on her birthday the other night,we were both drunk and she got some condoms out of her pocket and offered me sex.i said i gotta go and went home.should i have turned her down?...
A. 30 August 2006: I would say that she probably took you by surprise, and you panicked..are you usually the one to make the first move?
You did the right thing anyhow, in my eyes, as you were both drunk, and it could have been seen as though you were taking adva... (read in full...)
What does it mean???
Q. I think I know the answer to this already but what does it mean when someone tells you that they are not in love with you but they love you very much??? At the same time they kiss you and hold your hand and do all the relationship stuff. Should ...
A. 30 August 2006: Well I am not able to read her mind, but she is perhaps saying that whilst the relationship is not passionate enough to "rock her boat", she would not like to be without you in her life. This is completely normal, and as long as you are both happy ... (read in full...)
Why would it bother my ex, that I kissed his friend when he dumped me for another girl a year ago?
Q. Why does my ex care that I kissed his friend when he dumped me for another girl a year ago??? We havent spoke since we split and just ignore each other when we see each other out but recently everytime he sees me he gives me a weird look or grabs ...
A. 30 August 2006: He sounds really childish. I agree with the other aunts - just ignore the buffoon, and get on with your own life. What he cannot get used to is the fact that now you have a life without him, whereas he wanted to imagine your world falling apart ... (read in full...)
Is he really getting married or was he lying?
Q. A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ...
A. 29 August 2006: This is really tricky!! A poem,eh? Maybe he is harbouring romantic feelings for you, and is having second thoughts about his impending marriage..perhaps he is trying to jerk a reaction out of you, to see how the land lies.
Any way, though, if he i... (read in full...)
I dont think im as happy as I should be, and keep have dreams of an old flame......
Q. Dear cupid agony aunt, Before I begin, I'd like to point out that I am a (perhaps excessively) caring and considerate man, and so advising me to simply 'leave and move on' will unfortunately be useless. I've been with my girlfriend for almost...
A. 29 August 2006: Dreams are what they are - dreams.. driven by your own unconscious thoughts, and desires, intangible, they do not take into account the fact that other people involved in those dreams are living their own lives, and may well be out of reach, and ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to open up a bit without causing friction ?
Q. Let me give you a little bit of background before I get to my question. I have been seeing this lady for a little over two years now. She is a few years older than I am, which is one drawback according to her countrys customs (she is not ...
A. 29 August 2006: Perhaps if you open up a bit to her she will see what you are feeling - it is a two-way thing, and if she is not sure how deep your feelings are for her, she may be hesitant about telling you how she feels. You say that you have discussed marriage ... (read in full...)
Is he really getting married or was he lying?
Q. A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ...
A. 29 August 2006: How well do you know him? Does he think you may know her, and pass judgement or dissaprove?
I doubt if it would be that he is trying to make you jealous or get your attention - Getting married , or pretending to, is guaranteed to throw you off ... (read in full...)
I love her so much that when we are apart it hurts so much, how can I deal a bit better ?
Q. Is it possible to love somebody TOO much? I am engaged to a girl, she has made me the happiest I have ever been in my life. When we are together, I am in heaven, but when we are apart, I am like a lost puppy. When she is not around, I become moo...
A. 24 August 2006: Just enjoy it - I don't agree that 'it will pass(!?!)..but it will calm down after you have been together for a while. It is the 'absence which makes the heart grow fonder' - a cliche for sure, but the only way that a cliche can grow, is if it is ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 23 August 2006: This is gettin' just plain silly!!! - just up my street! lol, hehe..... (read in full...)
Caught him with his pants down, was it more to it?
Q. hi, my bf and i have been together 3 years, about 10months ago i saw my bf doing something which i have always qestioned in my mind. im 20 his 25. one day i was coming home afer school early , i opened our front door and walked in and saw my bf st...
A. 17 August 2006: Give him a few scars to match, and perhaps a few emotional ones to match the ones he gave you!!!
Then GET OUT of that damaging relationship and find someone who can be SEEN to be being honest with you..
BTW, IF , and only IF he was telling the ... (read in full...)
Not sure if my net guy is playing hard to get or does he just want to be friends ?
Q. i have been chatting to a man on the net for 2 months and met him last wk.his really nice and i have never felt so comfortable around someone in meeting for the first time,even his friend kept asking if we had met up before,as we were so relaxed and ...
A. 16 August 2006: Hi there 'Giggles', me again!
Have you considered that he may be feeling the same way as you and is on the net in the first place as he is unable to converse face to face easily?
He has put xx's on a convo, so that, to me indicates affect... (read in full...)
Not sure if my net guy is playing hard to get or does he just want to be friends ?
Q. i have been chatting to a man on the net for 2 months and met him last wk.his really nice and i have never felt so comfortable around someone in meeting for the first time,even his friend kept asking if we had met up before,as we were so relaxed and ...
A. 14 August 2006: 'Tis the nature of the beast which is on-line dating, methinks'!!!
This is always the awkward, walking-on -eggshells time in a relationship, where you have to be led gently by one another's actions..
He on the hand, may feel he knows you well e... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 7 August 2006: Can't wait to hear how you got on!! Really hope it went well! :o)... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 3 August 2006: Hannieseds' idea is the nicest thing I have ever heard!!
OR: I found a website - just google 'romantic proposals' and it comes up with some great ideas - PLEASE let us know how you get on!!!... (read in full...)
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