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Surely if he were so in love with me he'd make that 2 hour drive?
Q. met a guy in March, he lives far away bout 2 hour drive. Well he is my friends cousin. We started dating and he came to see me a few weekends and became very serious very soon. He said he wanted to marry me, knew he felt that way and started ...
A. 27 June 2008: So, your busy life makes it impossible to always go to him.
Can't the same apply to him?
Yes maybe he could make some time, but a business takes easily as much time as three kids and it is even harder to find a baby-sitter for a business.
W... (read in full...)
Surely if he were so in love with me he'd make that 2 hour drive?
Q. met a guy in March, he lives far away bout 2 hour drive. Well he is my friends cousin. We started dating and he came to see me a few weekends and became very serious very soon. He said he wanted to marry me, knew he felt that way and started ...
A. 26 June 2008: So no matter how tired he is, he should just hop in the car and drive over to your place? A 2 hour trip?
Ever heard of the dangers of falling asleep behind the wheel?
Why in fact do YOU not get behind the wheel and drive to his place?
How is... (read in full...)
Guys...did you ever break up with a girl then want her back?
Q. Have you ever broken up with a girl because you were getting attention from someone else and then realized you made a mistake and wanted your ex back? Did it work out? Did she take you back? How long did it take you to realize this?...
A. 26 June 2008: No.... (read in full...)
I am 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend sucks!
Q. So I am almost 10 weeks pregnant and I am dating my older brothers best friend who I have had a crush on since I was a kid. He tried really hard and was a prince when we first started dating. Well that ship has sailed and he can be a serious ...
A. 26 June 2008: No advice, just a question. When are you going to grow up?
"I know he will be a good dad but he is doing nothing so far."
In 6/7 months you will be a mother, playing time is over.
He is a drugs addict, with a drinking problem who spo... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to know how old she was when she lost her virginity?
Q. I am having trouble coping with the fact that my girlfriend won't tell me how old she was when she first had sex. I know who it was with, just not how old she was. I also want to know how many different guys she's been with and who they are. To a ...
A. 26 June 2008: Don't open Pandora's box.... (read in full...)
I was raped by my father's boss, what do I do?
Q. Please someone has to help me. I can't live with this anymore. when i was 10 I was raped by my Fathers Boss. His boss is also one of his good friends. My Dad and his co-workers had a party to celebrate their works aniversary. All my Dads fr...
A. 26 June 2008: Is there an other relative you can go to? Someone you trust and who is not going to listen to your dad?
Follow the advice by Smiles. Strength in dealing with this.... (read in full...)
I don't want my classmates to know I'm gay, how can I rig this test?
Q. I am a psychology Student and I'm on my 4th year of studying. I have this major subject called Projective testing and it reveals the deepest and inner part of yourself that you hide. The test shows many aspects of personality that is basically what ...
A. 26 June 2008: Rigging them is trivial, surely if you are in your 4th year you should know this?
These tests don't read your mind, they can only go by the answers that you give, so just give the answer that a straight guy would give.
If you can't manipulate... (read in full...)
How can I be quieter during sex?!!
Q. when me and my boyfriend have sex he makes me orgasm every time without fail but i feel the need to let out a big moan but when i do theyre loud, i enjoy it with him and he says sex it great with me, but when theres people in the bedroom next door ...
A. 26 June 2008: Or just use the pillow to scream into.
Some people are loud, some are not.... (read in full...)
The perfect man for me - except in the bedroom department. Can anyone give me any words of wisdom/
Q. I am a 35yr old female going out with a 36yr old male, we plan to move in together in the next 6months. My problem is we have only had sex 6 times in the last 12 months. Not my choice, his. I have tried to talk to him about this many times and he ...
A. 26 June 2008: Stress kills libido, I think your problem might be very simple.
Lighten his load, get him to excorsise and life healthy and the problem might go away.
But there is also the part that he got to regonize for himself that something is ami... (read in full...)
Has anyone lost it and laughed out loud in the middle of sex? He was growling like a lion!
Q. Has anyone been in a position that has almost made you loose it and laugh outloud uncontrollably in the middle of having sex? I had sex with this guy and everything was ok until he started to make noises like a lion. I said nothing and hoped I could ...
A. 26 June 2008: Well, laughter is the best medicine but it is lethal in the bedroom.... (read in full...)
I know I hurt him, I know I lied over and over, but now I want him back!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nine years. We have lived togehter for eight of those years. I love him. The beginning of our relationship was great we had so much fun together got along great. He was my best friend. At my job about three ye...
A. 26 June 2008: You would never do it again. How is he supposed to believe you? What are you doing to convince him that this is the truth?
I am not just talking about the usual crying and emotional promises. No doubt you promised to be true when you two got toge... (read in full...)
How do I get him in the mood... dressing sexy doesn't work, dirty talk doesn't work, nothing works!?
Q. So my boyfriend says he hasn't been in the mood for sex lately and that the last few times we did it he didn't really want to. He says it isn't me and I believe him. I can easily get him hard, but he just never wants sex anymore. This has been going ...
A. 26 June 2008: Are their stresses in his life? Work, money, mortage, kids etc etc? Worry is a real libido killer.
Try and talk to him about what is in his mind lately.... (read in full...)
Should I get involved with this woman with two kids? Can I express to her how mad I am for her past mistakes? Please guide me through this!
Q. Woman with 2 kids, what should I do? We're both 23 years old I'm single and not involved in any relationship yet She's got two kids, one from a relationship from highschool and the other just recent from a three year long relationship. This beau...
A. 26 June 2008: Oh dear, I am going to have to be nasty on this one.
You seem to have a rather high opinion of yourself. If the woman in question had been posting a question I would warn her away from the "guy who claims he is going to safe you" type.
You cla... (read in full...)
Am I an odd girl for not trying girl on girl sex at least once?
Q. Am I odd? I`m a 28 year old girl and never experimented with girls. 80% of the straight girls I grew up with and girls in school and even married girls I know tried this at least once. I mean more than just kissing. Is this common for girls to try ...
A. 26 June 2008: What would be odd is to do something just because you think everyone else is doing it.
If you are not attracted to girls, why should you try it?
Yes, lesbian sex seems accepted in our society although you have to wonder wether the girl-on-girl... (read in full...)
I want what's best for my son. Is he too young to choose who he wants to live with?
Q. Hey family! My issue is concerning my son and his father (who I am no longer with because of abusive behavior). For the first 4 years of my son's life, I raised him by myself, emotionally and financially. His father did nothing to show effort in ...
A. 26 June 2008: Abusive partners are often abusive parents as well. What on earth made you think it was smart to send a young child into the same situation you managed to escape from?
That he didn't even meet his legal financial obligations should already ... (read in full...)
Would you stay in an orgasmless marriage??
Q. Where do I start..... As a single, I was very sexual and had multiple partners both male and female. I met my now husband this way so he knows what my past was like. I have always wanted sex with multiple partners, but for many years I let...
A. 26 June 2008: Wow this is one messed up situation.
I would suggest that you two get some serious counseling and I really have to wonder why the hell you two ever got together.
You two really just don't seem compatible at all where is the love? The attrac... (read in full...)
Will he think it's weird that he's my first proper boyfriend?
Q. I've just started seeing someone, I like him a lot but I am embarressed because I am almost 28 and have never been in a serious relationship - he wants to talk about past relationships etc but I keep avoiding the questions, do you think he will mind ...
A. 26 June 2008: Do me a favor and asnwer the question by lots of other women who think they will never get a boyfriend because they are X years old.
Then read the questions about couples having trouble with the girls past and you got your own answer.
Few men... (read in full...)
Our sex life doesn't satisfy me.
Q. Hello, I really need your help in somethong serious! I have more than one problem! I hate doing the doggy style and my husband loves it.. he asks me almost everytime while we are having sex to bend down so he can do it,,(excuse me for the language ...
A. 26 June 2008: Whoa, a lot of problems in this post.
Am I wrong in thinking that because you are from Lebanon that your sexual education is completely absent?
Women need more time to be ready for sex then men do. As you know by now the male gets an erection... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to want more than one woman?
Q. My boyfriend and I met and fell in love very quickly and knew we could spend our lives together. He told me early that he didn't think he could only see one woman naked for the rest of his life and would like to have prostitutes give him hand jobs ...
A. 26 June 2008: All guys want variety. Well, yes he has a point and before I fell in love I certainly wondered how anyone could be happy to spend the entire rest of their life with just one woman.
And then I fell in love and it became the most natural thing in... (read in full...)
Should I proceed with making this fantasy real?
Q. i have the fantasy of seeing my wife getting fucked by another male, particular our neighbour, who is showing a sort of interest in her. She also likes him and she is ready to have sex with atleast Once. By this thought only, I get excited and perf...
A. 25 June 2008: There are a lot of questions here about guys who have trouble with their partners sexual past and you want to add to hers?
This is a fantasy and in fantasy we don't have to think about consequences.
What if she gets with this neighbor and she... (read in full...)
What do you do when you dry hump?
Q. this may seem strange to ask but, wat is dry humping? i dont want wat it is, like wat do u actualy do wen u dry hump?...
A. 25 June 2008: Get some nasty burns and rub your penis against your fly which tends to end the session rather quickly at which point you find your belt has become stuck on some frill of her clothing and you tear a 500 gulden (shows you how long ago it was) dress ... (read in full...)
She's starting to act interested and almost jealous now, after rejecting me! What to do?
Q. I've liked this girl for a LONG time and pursued and let her know many times, only to be rejected.. we are still friends but now.. when eventually I've just given up and started getting on with someone else really well she is starting to act ...
A. 25 June 2008: Maybe she always used you as a confidence boost?
It is one thing for her to reject your love, quite another for you to take it away.
Oh and ask yourself how this question makes you look. Do you even care about the other girls feeling? perhaps... (read in full...)
After we had sex he said he'd call... it's been three days and I am going coo coo!!
Q. There has always been a chemisty between me and one of my best friends roommates. We ended up making out drunk at a party a couple months ago. We saw each other through our mutual friend we flirt, but nothing ever happened. Recently we ended up ...
A. 25 June 2008: Well he might have lost your number.
He might be in hospital.
There are any number of reasons why he might not have called.
None of them are likely but each month someone wins the lottery no matter how small the chance is of winning the... (read in full...)
Although I can get really hot guys, I am attrackted to nerds... what do I do?
Q. hey the problem with me is very weird..i am in the first year of college and i am having an awsome year i was recently voted as the fresh face of the year and the best model in the whole college,i have guys after me,the hot ones,that includes the ...
A. 25 June 2008: Let me guess, you are a rather typical young woman who tries to label everyone for easy sorting?
Jocks, Nerds, the popular group, the not-so popular group, the losers.
Grow up.
Do you love your boyfriend because he has the right labels or ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make her realize she could really hurt herself?
Q. Ok, one of my friends recently lost her virginity, and she has done it again with a different guy about two weeks afterwards. Neither of them wore condoms, and she's only 13! She said that she wanted to have sex with me next. I declined the offer, ...
A. 25 June 2008: Well, first of, good for you in being a responsible person. A lot of guys would have just used her and dropped her.
There really isn't that much you can do. Young girls have no fear. They are often highly protected as they grow up as kids, fa... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to masterbate every day?
Q. is it wrong if i masterbate everyday?? my friends say it is wierd for girls to masterbate...but i dont see why guys can and not girls?? so is it healthy if i masterbate everyday??...
A. 25 June 2008: 50% of women masturbate and 50% lie about it.
As long as it doesn't interfere with other parts of your life, then there is no harm.
Considering that the alternative for many people seems to be to get frustated and then fuck the first escaped lu... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about tattoos on women. How do I get rid of it?
Q. Help i have a phobia about tattoos on women. I don't no where it comes from but if i see a tatoo on a woman i feel repulsion. I'm not a sexist i embrace the modern woman, its just this one thing that bugs me. Why do i feel this? Do other people feel ...
A. 25 June 2008: Why would you want to?
Unless there is a specific woman you are talking about in which case you just got to accept that she is who she is.... (read in full...)
If he took off with my daughter I would be devastated! Please help!!
Q. I have a daughter that is about to turn 7. Her father and I split up in November 2005. He has not helped us at all. He has moved on and married another woman that has 3 kids. He has seen my daughter a handful of times and all but one my olde...
A. 25 June 2008: It is time for the lawyer once again.
Find out what your options are to remove all visitation rights.
What might that do to your daughter? She will be hurt short term but long-term she would be better off not being torn apart in all this. He ... (read in full...)
Was I sexually assaulted?
Q. Was I sexually assaulted? Long story short 2 years ago at uni a couple of years ago I fell out with someone I was in halls with. (We're both male). He had previously told me he fancied me.One night I tried to make up with him by having a mat...
A. 25 June 2008: It is very likely. If you are in-capable of giving consent then by default you have not. This is to protect people who are helpless.
So if you were passed out when he did it then it was rape.
But if you were awake when it started you migh... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity before going to Uni?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and will be going to university in September. I'm still a virgin, although nearly lost my virginity with a boyfriend last year. He was also a virgin and was too nervous, so it was impossible. I'm really worried about the rumours about ...
A. 25 June 2008: *shrug* if you are planning to just have lots of sex with random people you don't care about at uni, sure, it might be wise to just get it out of the way.
Why don't you look up "dogging" go to one of those spots and just get it all out of the way?... (read in full...)
I hate feeling like this because I feel like I'm a bitter prude...so please help me.
Q. I hate teen sex comedies. I actually hate the way sex is presented in most western media. And I want to get over this, I want to be ok with it, I wanna enjoy it if it's possible. For example, all this "American Pie" things... where regular ug...
A. 25 June 2008: The media is NOT real. It is fake. Just accept that the idea of a commercial break is an idiotic notion. EVERYTHING on TV is a commercial.
But commercials try to sell something don't they? Yes indeed, but what does a commercial for an advertis... (read in full...)
I've just told him a few minutes ago I wont be calling him again.Should I try calling him again or what?
Q. okay well I've been talking to this guy since March we talked everyday over the phone.but lately the conversations were starting to get boring after an hour and before we used to talk all night..well he hasn't called me or anything for the past 2 ...
A. 25 June 2008: Depends, how desperate do you want him to think you are?
Sometimes you just got to take a step back and accept the other party now has to make a move or things are over.
Take a deep breath and accept that you tried everything you could, the b... (read in full...)
Young People Having Sex
Q. Does anybody else find it as ridiculous as I the age people nowadays are losing their virginity? I am sixteen and have no intention of having sex while I'm still a teenager. It saddens me whenever I hear of girls (and guys) my age running off toge...
A. 25 June 2008: *shrug* we are all different.
The age isn't really getting younger, just that we stay kids for longer.
Don't let the media fool you into thinking that what they report is the absolute truth.
50% of marriages involve cheating. Oh my god! Yet... (read in full...)
How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?
Q. Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work...
A. 25 June 2008: Is there a female relative that can talk to her?
Some teenage girls go through a rebel phase, so do boys but our rebellion tends to be handled by the police if it goes out of hand, and because having out of control sex isn't actually a crime th... (read in full...)
I saw my ex forcing my friend to have sex, but she doesn't want me to tell anyone!
Q. My friend got raped by my ex. I am 16 and so is my friend. My ex, he is 19 in a few days. Just yesturday my friend and I had a party because we had just graduated from school. yea we r young don't ask. Ok so we threw a party and I invited my...
A. 25 June 2008: Report it anyway, go to the police and simple report what you saw, if the police works the same as in holland they will type up your report and save it, should she wish to report it in the future then your report, giving fresh after it happened can ... (read in full...)
I depend too much on my boyfriend, how can I change this?
Q. I have a problem regarding my social life. Seems like my only social life is my bf. I have no friends, because 1) Most of them moved away for college 2) The ones that stayed and I have grown apart, and got into different interests. 3...
A. 25 June 2008: So anyone else thinking something like this when you read her reasons.
1) Yeah that happens when you leave school
2) All part of growing up
3) RED FLAG, controlling boyfriend ALERT!
Perhaps I just been here to long but while the signs are ... (read in full...)
He has informed me that his birthday is also National Sex Day!
Q. I am a 15 year old girl, and my boyfriend is turning 16 in August. By August we will have been dating 5 months. I am a virgin, he has told me that he isn't. His parents are going away the week of his birthday, and he has also informed me that his ...
A. 25 June 2008: So? Masturbation is sex, tell him he can have as much as he desires and if the tries it again that is ALL he will be getting ever.
Sorry but that is just a teenboys desperate and pathetic attempt to get you to have sex with him. Don't worry, t... (read in full...)
I'm shy when men approach and talk to me, can you help me out here please?
Q. I'm kind of shy and when men approach me and talk i'm scared that my body language is telling them i'm not interested even though I am, because they don't ask me out and I can tell they want to. I want some of these guys to ask me out but i'm so s...
A. 25 June 2008: Practice with men you are comfortable with and who ain't dating material and just talk with them.
Doing it in a setting where you are comfortable like work or at your sports/hobby club might help as well.
Everything to get your mind used to tal... (read in full...)
If he took off with my daughter I would be devastated! Please help!!
Q. I have a daughter that is about to turn 7. Her father and I split up in November 2005. He has not helped us at all. He has moved on and married another woman that has 3 kids. He has seen my daughter a handful of times and all but one my olde...
A. 25 June 2008: He has not helped at all? Were you entitled to child support? If he doesn't pay that aren't there legal consequences to this in the USA?
Why does your son no longer want to see him?
Why do you think he may kidnap her?
More seems to be goin... (read in full...)
How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?
Q. How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...
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Will taking anti-biotics reduce your chances of becoming fertile?
Q. Im so sorry for bothering all you wonderful people. This is what i should have included in my previous question posted a few hours back. I just want you guys to confirm the reality to this: will taking anti-biotics reduce your chances of becoming ...
A. 24 June 2008: There are so many it is impossible to say, as said, the leaflet can tell you, so can the pharmacy and so can your doctor. A couple of laymen online cannot.
If you mean long-term effects, no most likely not because any medicine with such long-ter... (read in full...)
Porn or prostitution? Which is worse?
Q. Is porn more degrading than prostitution? Just wondering what peeps opinions are.do you think that been a porn star or working in a brothel is more degrading? serious answers please...
A. 24 June 2008: What is degrading? Having criminals sentenced to do the job you are doing all your life?
Depends on who you are, while it wouldn't be my choice of job, partly because I would starve to death, there are far worse available. Unpaid Agony Aunt for... (read in full...)
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