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I'm Felicity....And i'm 16.

I'm fair over life atm..../3

Even though I'm young and don't have a lot of life experience, I think recieving advice from all different age groups is important, as it gives a different perspective to various problems.

Thanks for reading!


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What advice can I give him, and how can I get over this?

Q.   Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. After we broke up my ex slept with a few girls, as an attempt to get over me. He admitted to me that it didnt work, and he still loves me. Last night I found out he got one of the one-night-stand girls pr...

A.   23 March 2009: Thanks for the advice! I know its not really any of my business, but I really want him back.... But I'm thinking I should leave him alone for a while...... (read in full...)

What kind of woman/girl would you go for?

Q.   For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to ...

A.   22 March 2009: Why would you use the term "Stick thin"? which is quite insulting, yet you use "Maybe bigger" for the term fat? And the comment from otherstarfish is very rude too! When did it become okay to insult people who are thin, yet its considered m... (read in full...)

What's your dream girl/guy?

Q.   If you could have a dream girl/guy what would they be like??...

A.   22 March 2009: Around my age. Mature. Funny!! Good looking Nice, caring Romantic Brown hair Loving person Care free attitude Added bonus: Piercings Nice car... (read in full...)

Your sexual experience for the first time

Q.   its a bit nosy but i was just wondering about peoples experiences of having sex for the first time, whats it like? did things get awkward afterwards? pain? how romantic was it? advice?...

A.   22 March 2009: I always planned that mine would be special, under the stars and all romantic. But it kinda just happened in the moment. I was 16, it didnt hurt too much, and my boyfriend at the time was very caring and gentle, I dont regret it for a second.... (read in full...)

Views on virginity

Q.   Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x...

A.   4 March 2009: I was 16. Don't regret it for a second :)... (read in full...)

Is it obvious to tell if a condom breaks

Q.   So me and my partner had sex twice in february. When we had the 2nd time, he had a condom on and before he finished, he took his penis out of my vagina and so i saw he finished in the condom OUT of my vagina. the first time we had sex that month ...

A.   3 March 2009: Well, after we realised that he had actually came inside of me, I spent the whole night freaking out. The next morning we rushed to the chemist and bought the morning after pill. And it worked, I got my period the next day. So dont worry too much... (read in full...)

Is it obvious to tell if a condom breaks

Q.   So me and my partner had sex twice in february. When we had the 2nd time, he had a condom on and before he finished, he took his penis out of my vagina and so i saw he finished in the condom OUT of my vagina. the first time we had sex that month ...

A.   1 March 2009: I had a similar situation: My boyfriend came inside me, while wearing a condom...but I felt the cum inside me. Thats when we realised that the condom had completely ripped. So if your having rough sex, you dont realise that it sometimes ri... (read in full...)

Sex in public

Q.   So, I love the idea of potentially getting caught having sex—that is of course without actually getting caught. Sex in risque places is just a big turn-on for me. So, I was wondering…where are some good places to have sex at with the least chance of ...

A.   21 February 2009: At the park is always fun.....hehehe... (read in full...)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

Q.   Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

A.   9 February 2009: You are too young, But it's your choice. I always thought my first time was gonna be special, I even kind of had it all planned out....But it just happened in the moment, with a guy I "thought" I was in love with... Just consider what your doing.... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   9 February 2009: I never said it was silly..... I went through it too...except mine lasted 3 I would NEVER say its silly lol. It does get easier with time, all things do... Death, breakups, unrequieted love etc... Theres absolutly nothing you ca... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   8 February 2009: Its pretty simple. You already said that you know nothing can happen.... Then you have to try to get over him, swap math classes if you can, keep yourself distracted, avoid him!! etc.... I went through one of these obsessive crushes when I w... (read in full...)

How many sleeping partner have you had

Q.   Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...

A.   7 February 2009: I'm 16, and Have had 1 sexual partner My boyfriend has had 3, including me Were both from Australia :)... (read in full...)

Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm?

Q.   Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm? I'm in between relationships and started a FWB situation with a male friend of mine. While we were having sex, he pulled out and ejaculated on my stomach. Then he went back in and kept going. He ...

A.   7 February 2009: My best friends boyfriend is exactly the same! When she told me, I was amazed, as my boyfriend has to stop after one orgasm.....Lucky you!... (read in full...)

If I lose my virginity to a guy I don't love, won't it be easier?

Q.   Im listening to the advice ppl give me bout waiting for sex, but i have another theory. i know a girls first time is special and something she will remember BUT, i dont know if i can lose it to someone i absolutely love, and then lose HIM. I have f...

A.   21 January 2009: Losing your virginity to some you dont love, is worse than actually losing the person. It's like giving a part of yourself to someone, you really dont care about.... If you wait for that special someone, it will be so worth it. X... (read in full...)

Was I an asshole?

Q.   One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it ...

A.   19 January 2009: Wow... Good luck with your next girlfriend.... (read in full...)

What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)

Q.   This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...

A.   12 January 2009: Im 16 and I lost it when I was 16, Still with the guy, no regrets about it at all. Everyone feels its the right time for them, at different ages...In my opinion, as long as they are 16 or over, its fine. ... (read in full...)

LDR advice

Q.   I was wondering how to make a long distance relationship work? My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, the only problem is that I've recently moved to a different state. I really like him a lot, and he's head over heels, and we have ...

A.   9 January 2009: its a 1600 km distance between us, we speak atleast once a day, and my parents are fine with him coming up, me going down etc..... Its just hard not seeing him every day :( Thanks for the help guys!... (read in full...)

Questions for women about virginity and sex...

Q.   Okay I don't want to seem rude or anger anyone when I ask this. I am simply curious to know more about women and their beliefs on virginity and sex. 1) Do many women lose their virginity after high school 2) Do a lot of women save themselves f...

A.   9 January 2009: I lost mine a few weeks after my sixteenth birthday... I'm still with him, and love him. I don't regret it at all, and he was totally understanding and was willing to wait. I felt it was right for me, every person is different!... (read in full...)

My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??

Q.   Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...

A.   23 November 2008: What he did was wrong, and not your fault in the least! If i was in that position I know I would have gone for it.....Which would prob be a mistake, but I wouldnt be able to help myself teehhee. If he tries it again, and you feel uncomfot... (read in full...)

I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.

Q.   Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask m...

A.   23 November 2008: Ohh and if people say another rude comment about your body, say something rude back to them..."your nose is huge" "Dont you ever stop eating?" etc....then they'll think twice before insulting you! xxxxx PLEASE UPDATE or email me, i know what your... (read in full...)

I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.

Q.   Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask m...

A.   23 November 2008: 41 pounds? So your 18 kgs!!! thats not possible, I think you mean 41 kgs! hehe. There is nothing wrong with being slim, I'm 5'7 and 110 pounds (49 kgs) And I love it!! Your only eighteen, maybe you'll have a growth spurt? Just don't get down a... (read in full...)

Pregnant at 14 and in care. What do I do?

Q.   I am 14 years old.I was recently put into the care system but i have just found out im pregnant. I want to keep the baby but i have no support from my family or anyone else to be hounest.the father isnt in the picture either.i also have no where to ...

A.   7 November 2008: I can't even imagine what you're going through. I wish I had some useful advice for you, but unfortunatly I have no idea what to say. You are very brave, and I pray that you will get through this. Good luck. xx... (read in full...)

I suffer from really bad anxiety attacks, can anyone help me???

Q.   I am a 'survivor' I suppose you would say...but when do you stop trying and give up? Hope is all that has kept me going. I suffer from anxiety; have done for 20 years. This takes the form of panic attacks, sometimes agoraphobia. I have deep seated f...

A.   26 October 2008: I'm sorry your going through this. I am too, at least you have the courage to go out there and join, where as I prefer to stay in the house. I'm a bit younger than you, but know what your going through, as i experience it every day. I would recomm... (read in full...)

I'm jealous and guilty what should I do???

Q.   Im sleeping with a married man and Im 14 years old. Ive fallen in love with him but recently he's been really really close to his wife in front of me and i just feel jealous and guilty. help?? what should i do??...

A.   9 August 2008: I don't understand why everyone is blaming the girl. She is 14!!! The married man/PEDOPHILE, probably coheresed and seduced her into's called rape. I think some of the aunts/uncles need to think about what their saying!! This girl, th... (read in full...)

I have a problem looking at myself in the mirror, how do I make myself like myself more?

Q.   Dear, Uh, Cupid. I know this is a very boring, basic, conceded question and I apologize for that but, I feel just gross. I hate what I look like. It might be just because of my eczema, and so I /feel/ disgusting most of the time but ew. Looking...

A.   7 August 2008: I know how you feel, I have eczema too. I just try to focus on my good qualities, which usually outweighs the bad. Most girls your age aren't happy with how they look, but in time, you'll grow into your looks. I use celeston for my eczema, and ... (read in full...)

I am confused, this girl hugged me, bumps into me, and sometimes touches, are these signs that she likes me, should I try to make converstation, call her, ask for a date, what?

Q.   Few months ago I had a girl hugged me and said i love you and sometimes touches me and bumps into me. What should i do? ...

A.   7 August 2008: If you like her, ask her out. I think she is definitely interested! ... (read in full...)

My sister gave me oral

Q.   I woke up the other night to my own sister giving me a blow job! I thought I was dreaming it. I woke up I asked her to stop, but she said you must like it as I was ready to complete. She had been drinking I think. She is 5 years older than me. I...

A.   3 August 2008: Wow.. Confront her about it first, and if you feel you want to take it further, get the police involved. What she did was wrong. Good luck, and please update. xx... (read in full...)

Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?

Q.   Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your f...

A.   3 August 2008: First snog, 14. Havent had a real relationship yet, I'm 16 in a few months.... (read in full...)

Why do women keep dumping me right after we have sex?

Q.   I have a big problem. Girlfriends keep dumping me after sex. Allow me to explain. I have had a total of 4 proper girlfriends to date. Every single one of them has dumped me just after we'd had sex for the first time. My first girlfriend, who ...

A.   29 July 2008: Wow, you definititly need to ask your ex what you did wrong. Becasue I have no idea. It's very strange for a woman to break up with a guy, straight after sex, most women get clingy and tend to fall in love. Please keep us updated! Good luck. x... (read in full...)

Am I over-reacting to him groping me while I slept?

Q.   I've been in a relationship for a year and a half now and about a week ago my boyfriend and I were on holiday together; we'd gone away with my family. We shared a room but not a bed; we're both virgins and I want to wait until I turn 18 before I ...

A.   28 July 2008: You are not over reacting, this is sexual harassment. It was wrong for him to touch you, especially since you were asleep and unaware. Confront him about this, and I would even consider breaking up over it, when it comes to sexual harssmen... (read in full...)

I need help to get over my boyfriend.

Q.   i just broke up with my boy friend today..he sounded all emotional...hate to see him sad but i gave him more than ten chances to correct himself..he doesnt seem to change..he's just taking me for it worth goin for someone like this when ...

A.   28 July 2008: If you gave him over 10 chances, it's unlikely that he'll gonna change. I think you should move on, find someone else who treats you right. Good luck! xx... (read in full...)

What are some ways I can really thrill my boyfriend?

Q.   So I told my boyfriend that next time we get togehter I'll make it amazing for him because I made him wait because of my period. What are some things I can do that he'll love?...

A.   28 July 2008: You should try and tease him, until he wants it really bad! I suggest tying him up, and strip teasing, or let him watch you pleasure yourself. Like aphexinfinite said, lick whipped cream, and chocolate off him! Roleplay, toys, dirty talk...there... (read in full...)

I've tried to move on from this girl I like, but I haven't had feelings for anyone else. Am I just bitter?

Q.   Hello, I had/have a crush on this girl from my school, who was in most of my classes grade 9 year, we talked and stuff, she was nice, attractive, etc. Grade 9 Grad came and I asked her to it and she declined. Over the year it was leaked that i ...

A.   28 July 2008: I dont think your bitter, You just haven't found anyone else that interests you yet. If you still like this girl, try asking her out now that she is 16. But if you want to move on, try meeting new people at work, school, through frineds, parties ... (read in full...)

He keeps saying he will break up with his girlfriend but he doesn't, is he using me, should I end what we have?

Q.   i have know this guy for three years and just started having sex.we both like each other and have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend he keeps saying he's going to break up with her but he doesn' question is does he really want to ...

A.   28 July 2008: Confront him about this, ask him why he says he will, but doesn't. It seems like he is using you for sex, while having another girlfriend, which you shouldn't stand for. If he really does like you, he would have broken up with her by now, or maybe... (read in full...)

Could he be serious about wanting sex because he finds me "perfect" or is he trying to use me?

Q.   Im confused about this lads feelings towards me and what he REALLY wants from me. Well, we've been friends for about 2 years now and Ill admit, for most of this time, Ive fancied him. We get on really, really well. He texts me all the time and tells ...

A.   27 July 2008: I would suggest running away from this guy. It seems like he's just wanting you sex, instead of a relationship, and trying to sweet talk you. Yes, wait until your legal, until you find real love. If you lost it to this guy, I think you'll regre... (read in full...)

Does anyone know of any stores that sell fake candy necklaces?

Q.   this is random, but do you know any stores that sell candy necklaces? (preferebbly(sp) fake ones)...

A.   27 July 2008: Candy shop.... (read in full...)

People say I can get any guy I want but..

Q.   I can never get a real boyfriend. It seems like I can only sleep with any guy I want, but I dont want that. I want a relationship but guys just want me for sex and nothing else. I dont get it Im tall, thin (people say I look like a model) smart and ...

A.   19 July 2008: You sound like a girl, that heaps of guys would love to be with, but you just havent found the right one. I suggest trying to meet guys, outside of clubs,bars etc, because most guys there are just looking to get some. Try to meet guys through ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to be upset? His friends talk crap about me when they have never even met me!

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for roughly a year now. We'll call him A. A and I have an all around great relationship except for a few things here and there. Whats bothering me the most is that if not all of his friends most of them hate me and ...

A.   18 July 2008: After reading your update, i would break up with him. He obviously doesn't respect you. He sounds like a jerk. I'm sure you can find a better boyfriend, who will stick up for you, and treat you well. Good luck xx... (read in full...)

Should I have sex or not?

Q.   Could you try and help plz me and this boy are on about having sex i dont know wether i should go on with it or not hes a lovley boy and i do like him its just i think im a bit scared as we will be doing it outside (probably in a bush) it will also ...

A.   17 July 2008: In a bush? hahaha, that cracked me up. DONT DO IT! Your virginity is very special, and you shouldn't go about losing it, until you are ready, and of legal age. It should be romantic and special, no bushes involved! Good luck! xx... (read in full...)

I got beated up, until I was bleeding, evidently because I am gay, my friend who witnessed it, went to the principal's office, and told, when I asked him not to, why would he do that??

Q.   I get pick on a lot because people think I'm gay (which I'm not) the "popular" kids shoved me into lockers, beat me up. One day I talking to my friends (who hadn't ditch me to be popular) until those guys push me into a locker and I started ...

A.   16 July 2008: He was just looking out for you, thats what good friends do. Im really sorry kids pick on you, maybe now that the principal knows, it might stop. Good luck. xx... (read in full...)

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