Should I give up or try harder?
Q. It's about a relationship advice... Hello, call me StuPiD.CuPiD. Here's the thing, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years now, I really love him, and he does too... Only that his parents are actually forbidding him from seeing anybody since he...
A. 15 November 2008: Well if he so under the rule of his parents that he is not allowed girlfriends at all then I think this might be a lost cause.
If he is not even prepared to risk annoying them by telling them he has met you then I think your situation is hopeless... (read in full...)
Should I give up or try harder?
Q. It's about a relationship advice... Hello, call me StuPiD.CuPiD. Here's the thing, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years now, I really love him, and he does too... Only that his parents are actually forbidding him from seeing anybody since he...
A. 13 November 2008: Why not talk to his parents and find out why they would not consider you as a daughter?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I prove to him I won't kick him out again?
Q. Hello! I was dating my fiance for a year and we lived together until I looked on his myspace and saw that him and his co worker were messaging each other back and forth with questionable content and it clearly pointed to him being involved with he...
A. 13 November 2008: Well how can he prove that he wont cheat on you with a co-worker again.
For someone who is engaged to be married to do that... I think you acted perfectly rationally.
Why is it you having to prove anything???
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I am afraid of taking the legal way in case he (husband) flips.
Q. I am separated for two years now, husband gets copies of the keys to the house off my son's keys, they are the ones you leave in the door. My sons won't get involved and I understand but my ex just lets himself in and snoops, I am afraid of taking ...
A. 13 November 2008: Your sons may say they don't want to be involved but since they keep letting their dad get hold of their keys, I think you could be right in getting the locks changed and not giving them a copy.
Or get an alarm fitted that silently alerts the poli... (read in full...)
I just had a baby, I hate my body and I think my husband does too.
Q. I have just had my first baby with my husband 5 months ago. I have always had a weight and body image problem and I hated the way I looked when I was pregnant. My body is in such a mess since having my baby and I have no confidence, especially when ...
A. 13 November 2008: I think you need to talk to your husband about how you are feeling. I very much doubt it was what you thought.
Also I think you may have post natal depression.
Why not get one of your mum's round to take the baby for a day and just have a day ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant just from his cumming shallowly inside me a few times?
Q. Okay this might sound wierd, but my bf and I have never had sex and I think I might be pregnant. It's not that I'm a virgin, 'cause I'm not, we are just staying away from sex until I turn 18, because he's 25 and it's illegal in ND to have sex with a ...
A. 13 November 2008: Yes you are probably pregnant and yes this still counts as sex with a child in your state.
You should have used condoms or kept your trousers on.
You need to go to the doctor and get this confirmed.
Sorry.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My much older girlfriend is pregnant and moving away. should I marry her?
Q. My brain says its wrong but my heart says its right: I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 43. I have only had one girlfriend before her and this relationship is way better. We have been going out 15 months. The last month she was offered a new job ...
A. 13 November 2008: You can't expect a stranger on the internet to make this decision for you.
It's something you have to do for yourself. I'm not quite sure why you can't just move with her and live with her though.... marriage is a huge commitment and living t... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want a baby at such a young age?
Q. is it bad to want a baby at such a young age? i feel myself really wanting to be a mum and i don't know why. i had a pregnancy scare a while ago and i was actually happy about it. me and my boyfriend are very happy together and i just reli want a ...
A. 13 November 2008: Well it could be the last part of puberty sending you mad with hormones... btu some girls are just pretty much happy with being a mum in life and want nothing more.
However, just because you both want a baby, it doesn't mean you should do it.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a World of Warcraft addict!
Q. Basically my boyfriend is a world of warcraft addict i'm sure of it! The next expansion has come out today and he's getting it this afternoon. I've been told hes leveling with a friend for two weeks. :( This really isn't good! How do I make him see ...
A. 13 November 2008: Arrange a time this week when he can meet you outside of his house. If he's not there then he can't play it.
As long as you two do have time together and he's not neglecting you altogether then it shouldn't be a problem. He has to have hobbies ... (read in full...)
Why do guys and girls never understand each other?
Q. Why do guys and girls never understand each other? I thought I had it figured but I am dead wrong. please help......
A. 13 November 2008: You've obviously got a problem so why not post that rather than posting a vague generalisation?
Not all women are the same, and not all men are the same.
There is no set of rules. If you think there is and tried to squish your man into a smal ... (read in full...)
How does one go about getting an abortion?
Q. hia. im 15 and im pregnant. im so terrified. i dont want to keep the baby and want an abortion. can i go throught with an abortion with out my parents finding out?...
A. 13 November 2008: Go to your local faily planning clinic.
Put the name of your town and family planning into google and there will be a website where you can find where it is.
Most of the time you can drop in without an appointment and they will be able to talk ... (read in full...)
I don't have many new friends, how can I fix this?
Q. Hello. I hope you can help. I feel really depressed. I feel like I haven't got a friend in the world and that I am surrounded by fakes. I am on a social networking site, and a lot of people I knew at school have added me. The thing is, they very ...
A. 12 November 2008: Sweetheart, it's one thing sending facebook messages to someone you used to know, but spending up to a thousand pounds and most of your holiday time off work going to a place that some one ELSE wants to go to is a completely different thing.
I thi... (read in full...)
Christmas is coming up and I don't know what to ask for!
Q. I'm really stuck...everyone keeps asking me what i want for Christmas and i really have no idea what to ask for??? any suggestions for a teenage boy welcome:) Thanks:)...
A. 12 November 2008: If you have everything you want ask for something like those little "sponsor a lemur" gifts, or you can "buy" a tree which is then planted by the woodland trust.
Book are always a good thing to ask for.
Get a nice box set of all the old Jame... (read in full...)
I lied to her about my smoking and now she can't trust me.
Q. my girlfriend has finished with me for smoking i gave up shortly after meeting her. but started again and was to embarrassed to tell her so lied to her. shes not finished it for smoking. its or lying. she said she cant trust me anymore. can anyone ...
A. 12 November 2008: It sounds like she's been hurt badly by someone in the past who's lied to her.
So now you've lied to her and hidden something from her which means you lied quite a bit.
In her mind that means you are now also capable of having 8 other girls on... (read in full...)
Is it my fault that he can't be on the internet, text or call?
Q. I dont know if its my fault or not, but im in a internet relationship with a boy who i really do love, and his mum has now disconnected his internet and blocked his phone so he cant send texts, and i think its my fault... if it is what should i...
A. 12 November 2008: She probably found out about you, decided you were a filthy old man posing as a girl to try to abuse her little boy.
If you knew his home address then you could write him a letter.
If not then you will just have to get out in to the real worl... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to encourage his feelings for me again?
Q. Please can you help me with my current situation? A few months ago I had a brief relationship with a guy I had known for many years. We were both fresh out of long term relationships and things between us seemed to move very fast. He recognised th...
A. 11 November 2008: Beware the Friend Zone.
It will get to the point where he may want you but will not want to ruin your friendship or may well just not see you in that way because of your friendship.
Just ask him to do something with you outside of the pub and t... (read in full...)
We're over, yet he still talks about me like I'm a diseased person. Whats going on?
Q. I dated this guy, (unofficially) therefore he was unfortunately dating other girls while he was with me, he thought i knew thinking he told me, but he didn't, so I thought the only one he was involved with.. Things were going well until we just sta...
A. 11 November 2008: Well he obviously has some kind of issue with you... but it could be anything.
He could still like you, he could hate you, he could feel terribly guilty about you, he could be highly irritated about the fact he has to deal with you and you are ... (read in full...)
It feels as though my boyfriend's friend (and flatmate) has control over our relationship!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and his best friend has become quite a good friend of mine. Recently they got a flat together, and at first it was great. I was allowed round whenever, I stayed most nights and we all got on ...
A. 11 November 2008: So you want to marry him... but your relationship is not strong enough to survive only being able to stay at his flat 2 or 3 nights a week.
Why don't you get a place where he can stay over with you?
Or figure out / ask what it is about you tha... (read in full...)
I thought we were doing great but my wife told me she's not attracted to me anymore!
Q. I need some feedback here-,my wife and i have been married for 8 years now-weve always had our problems of course-no infidelity-nothing like that. about 6 weeks ago we were getting ready for church and my wife tearfully told me im not in love with...
A. 11 November 2008: Well the fact that she goes to the gym and you don't says to me that she is putting in effort and being exposed to all these beefy men. I'm sure one of these younger men showing interest and being lovely to her would possibly turn her head.
What ... (read in full...)
How can I get this man 'out of my life'? Please help!
Q. I am 52, my live-in bf is 50. My bf is the problem..I can't put my finger on it. He seems very insecure, clingy and always needing desperately, some validation but it's constant and I am exhausted. I have tried reasoning with him, tried to ask ...
A. 11 November 2008: You've told him to go and he said no. Then you gave up.
So from then on he knew that all he had to say was "NO!" and you'd back down and work round him from then on.
You need to tell him to leave and actually mean it.
Tell him it's over an... (read in full...)
Did I say the right things to her and did I seem strong?
Q. Hi all, So my gf of a year cheated on me. At first, she broke up with me saying she didn't love me anymore and I could get better than her. I was confused, I knew she loved me..I couldn't understand what she was saying. So I asked her if there wa...
A. 11 November 2008: I think the whole "I can date and get revenge sex" thing is a mistake.
If you are going to forgive her then take time by all means but don;t leave her hanging with "you have to prove you can change and at the same time I'm going to be just as ... (read in full...)
Because of my vomiting and not eating my boyriend thinks I have an eating disorder. I don't agree.
Q. hey, im 16, female and 5"3 in the last 3weeks ive changed what i eat a lot. it started where i threw up everything i ate, this lasted for 1 and a half weeks during this period itriedd to throw up half of what i ate but i just ended up throwing u...
A. 11 November 2008: The fact you've given us all these details about how you have had a crap life and that is why you want to throw up your meals doesn't exactly paint a picture of a girl who wants to drop a couple of pounds in a healthy way.
Your boyfriend is right... (read in full...)
Wow! What am I doing wrong?
Q. My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong? +we're quite young....
A. 11 November 2008: Well if he gets an orgasm out of it then he must be enjoying it.
I think what he meant was that doing it with you means nothing to him. He's basically saying he's using you for a good time.
He's probably not mature enough to handle the emoti... (read in full...)
If you leave sex for a few days your hymen heals itself and you have to break it all over again. Is this true??
Q. Last Friday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It really hurt (me being very nervous probably didn't help) and I bled, but I thought that at least next time it won't hurt as bad. Thing is, my friend told me that if you leave it for a few days ...
A. 11 November 2008: No if it could grow back, then you would have magically become a virgin again.
You lose your virginity and then it is gone.
It gets better because after a while you stretch out and learn to get more turned on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?
Q. Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...
A. 11 November 2008: Because some men get turned on by it!
As a general rule, when a man's penis gets hard, it means he likes what you are doing.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How could I make her love me?
Q. How could you make someone you love fall in love with you?Ive been dating this girl but had to be separated from her due to business.I've stayed in touch with her through phone.And i knew that i love her in the two months we stayed apart.Now i'll be ...
A. 11 November 2008: You will just have to be yourself and be a gentelman and hope that she feels the same way you do.
You cannot make someone love you, but you can be romantic and tell her that you feel she is beautiful.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Meeting someone for the first time - how can I avoid being nervous?
Q. I recently went on to an online classifieds website (like gumtree) and asked for a friend who would be able to hang out with and teach me another language. Now im meeting them tomorrow, and i only know their name and their gender. I'm real...
A. 11 November 2008: There is nothing much you can do. Just take a breath and be yourself.
If it doesn't work out then there will always be many many others.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I contact him after he left me to be with my best friend? I want him to come and see our son!
Q. My ex left me 4 months ago for my best friend and we have a 20 month old son together and he hasnt came to see our son in about 3 months, he doesnt call or pay child support. Im having a hard time letting him go and I just want him to be apart of ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think you need to contact him and tell him that he can sort out child support now, or you will take him to court.
Get some cash and if he doesn't want to see the child then you will just have to accept it and move on.
Your son can judge hi... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?
Q. My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love ...
A. 11 November 2008: You need to get a job and saveup for a deposit on a flat.
It might be worth you asking your dad to help you out.
I know that sounds crazy but if you point out that by giving you a few hundred dollars for a deposit on a place to rent, he will ne... (read in full...)
I need your opinion, did this player like her more or not?
Q. I'm a little upset and wondering what is so wrong with me. Did he like her more than me? This girl who my guy friend dated briefly is smart, average looking and nice. They dated for 2 months before she moved back to school and he cheated on her a...
A. 11 November 2008: Well he cheated on her A LOT!
But you seem to measure how much he likes someone by the amount of cash he spends on them.
This guy sounds like an arse.
All you need to know is not to date a guy like him again. Find a real man who doesn't tre... (read in full...)
Why can't I get pregnant ?
Q. hey just got married there three months ago and came off the pill.am having lots of intercourse around the time i shoul be ovulating but nothing happening so far bought some ovulation predictor kits and am hoping they will work have two beautiful ...
A. 11 November 2008: You'd have to speak to a real doctor to get the facts about menbranes and things... but I have been told that if I wanted to come off the pill then I have to take lots and lots of folic acid and give it a good few months for it all to get back to ... (read in full...)
Fiance distant while I am in Iraq
Q. Ok here's my deal. I am in Iraq and I have been with my Fiance for almost 2 years I try my hardest to call IM and email I even text and send her flowers once a month to let her know she is still on my mind and in my heart. the problem is she ...
A. 11 November 2008: My husband is in Iraq at the moment so I know a bit of what she muct be going through.
You tend to change your routine completely when your other half disappears, it's like being single again but with constant pain and worry about your other ha... (read in full...)
Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?
Q. Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?...
A. 11 November 2008: Were you having sex with him while you discussed your problems? If so then yes it is cheating.
Were you talking about problems and then developing feelings and a real emotional connection while using him as a shoulder to cry on?
There is su... (read in full...)
I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!
Q. ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...
A. 11 November 2008: Ok, before we start throwing works like paedophile around I will just suggest this.
You were ill, and therefore your brain will have been full of crazy chemicals as you tried to fight off the infection. The dream may have felt really amazing ... (read in full...)
I grew two inches in two weeks. What's happening to me?
Q. HI! this is crazy ok, im 14 and at school they measured us last month. they measured me at 5'5 1/2. well now im 5'7 1/2 a month later. whats going on?!...
A. 10 November 2008: It's called a growth spurt.
Make sure you drink lots of milk as you need all the calcium you can get to grow bone.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I feel as if my mum interrogates me all the time.
Q. It's because of my mum that I can't have a relationship with this guy that I like. We both really like each other, but I can't stand it when my mum asks questions all the time, she doesn't even know about him but she anoys me so much I just don't ...
A. 10 November 2008: She is a parent and that means she has had 20 years to practice being annoying.
When my husband came back from the invasion of Iraq in 2003, he decided to go out with his mates.
"where are you going?" asked his mum
"Into Liverpool," he repli... (read in full...)
I want to marry him, but I don't want to end up stuck away from my family.
Q. After I graduated high school, I left all of my friends and family and moved 1000 miles away for school. While here, I met a great man and we've discussed getting married when we graduate next year. Everything between us is perfect, except that I ...
A. 10 November 2008: Well how important to him is being near his family?
Would he even consider moving to your end of the world for a few years and give it a try?
This has to be your choice. But I think if you have gone to Uni and are desperate to move home then y... (read in full...)
How do I let my girlfriend know I appreciate her gifts?
Q. I have an amazing girlfriend who looks attractive and can hold interesting conversations. And she loves to spoil me! I'm 19 and she is a self titled "older broad." (I'm guessing 42-44 but I've never asked her.) I don't know if she's feeling se...
A. 10 November 2008: Sorry but I don't give sexual favours to say thank you. That's a bit of a narrow minded view.
However, there is nothing wrong with you doing that if you want to. And yes you enjoy sex but why not try and make it really special for her, give her... (read in full...)
I had sex with her too quickly - how do I make her into my girlfriend?
Q. I'm really scared that I f*cked this whole thing up. I met a girl in the club last night, and we hit off pretty well. I took her home and we had sex, and then in the morning she left pretty quickly. I tried calling her, and she never answers. I...
A. 10 November 2008: Your brother is an idiot.
If you have sex with a girl as soon as possible then she'll think you are just after sex and dump your arse.
In this case though, I think all she was after was sex. She's got it and now is not interested. This... (read in full...)
My friend cant get past being friends with girls
Q. My best friend has the worst case of being 'stuck in the friend zone' that I've ever seen. He's a very charismatic person, and has absolutely no problem chatting to people he doesn't know. Unfortunately, he doesn't know when to...
A. 10 November 2008: I think as his friend you just have to take him out for a couple of quiet beers and tell him straight.
A good friend will stick with you when you make an arse out of yourself infront of a girl.
A great friend will tell you to STOP IT and be h... (read in full...)
My husband got his school girl mistriss pregnant
Q. I'm still crying over my husbands affair. He had a six month affair with a school girl. I was pregnant they both knew that. He didn't use precautions and slept with both. I've had councilling but feel my life is tainted by them. I have three lovely ...
A. 10 November 2008: My first instict is to say that if he is capable of getting an underage girl pregnant then he is not worth staying for.
Are you sure that you and your children could not make a life if he moved out and you two divorced.
I am sure you know th... (read in full...)
How to help my friend escape her abusive ex...
Q. My Friend is looking to move because her abusive husband is being realesed from prison he was sent down for battering her and the youngest of her 3 kids now after 8 months he's coming out before christmas and she is petrified he will come after her ...
A. 10 November 2008: Get on to your local victim support charity as they will have a list of charities with all the info on what is available to help her.
In the mean time make sure that her locks are changed and she has a bolt fitted so she feels a bit more secure. ... (read in full...)
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