When I see him now I run away
Q. When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...
A. 8 February 2010: You'll be fine, just keep going and remember you are in control of your own life.
If it's not going to work then that's sad but you'll find someone else.
Keep smiling!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I tried a threesome and hated it!
Q. I have had a boyfriend for about 2 years and recently I found out he wants to watch me have sex with another man and he won't feel jealous or anything. We tried to do a threesome but I couldn't do it.. I couldn't stand another person touching my ...
A. 27 January 2009: You tried it, you didn't like it.
So don't do it again.
Simple as that.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that I don't feel the same way any more?
Q. I have got a new bf and hes a really good guy, we have been together for a few months now. We have been getting on so well up till now. We have been arguing over stupid things, like music, films, even games, if I don't like somthing that he does ...
A. 27 January 2009: If it's all gone tits up then just end it.
Next time you have an argument then wait for you both to calm down and just tell him that this keeps happening and you are not happy.
Tell him that it's made your feelings fade and that you are ver... (read in full...)
I Think I may like girls but how do I tell my boyfriend??
Q. Ok so I heard the song by Katy Perry you know the taste of her cherry chapstick and I think I may like girls. Yeah I kissed a girl before or girls and stuff I dont want God to punish me because Im a strong believer in God. So what do I do? Hide the ...
A. 27 January 2009: If you are with someone then I strongly believe that you shouldn't tell them you like someone else. That is just upsetting for them.
If you don't want to be with your boyfriend and be with girls instead then dump him and go out with a girl. Do... (read in full...)
Afraid of giving a blow job!
Q. I have been sexualy active for about 9 years.... but have never been able to bring myself to give someone a blowjob. It has almost become a phobia.... the reason I can think of causing the fear are: 1. I have issues with texture and food, which ...
A. 27 January 2009: Ok, there will be a way you can do this and then if you chicken out you can do it with style.
Wait till you are on top of him and you are JUST about to have sex with him. Then as you are about to put him into you / put the condom on, pause, w... (read in full...)
He seems to have dropped me like a hot potato... what's going on???
Q. Hi, I've been seeing someone been out on dates, he paid for everything night on drnking, meals etc. He even came and picked me up and dropped me off at home. Been back to his for relaxing night and even invited me to his mate's party new year eve. T...
A. 27 January 2009: Sounds like he liked you but not too seriously. He's putting his job first so if you want to hang around and wait and see if he comes back then you can.
If he doesn't re-appear in a couple of weeks though then I'd move on. It's his loss if he mi... (read in full...)
He knows how I feel so why is he still pushing for sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 months now. When we where friends he didn't want to rush into any thing like sex, he just wanted to take things slow and at a time, he didn't seem like all the other boyfriends that I've been out with, ...
A. 27 January 2009: Is he actually asking for it or trying it on for actual sex?
Or is he just flirting and kissing you and being sexually affectionate?
Just because a guy gets a bit heavily into feeling you up when kissing doesn't mean he's after sex. You may be ... (read in full...)
What do boys like in a girl?
Q. ok well its a reallly simple question basicaly what do boys like in a girl or find attractive? even if a girls not amazingly hot...
A. 27 January 2009: Face, boobs, bum, legs, personality, sense of humour, style.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls?
Q. Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls? I'm in a relationship with this guy and sometimes I'm like 'What a jerk' Either that or has no manners. Ok, I hate, hate, hate it when guys walk in front of me and leave me behind. He does this sometimes. ...
A. 27 January 2009: Well if he knows he's doing it and then you let him get away with it and stay with him then it's no wonder that he carries on.
As soon as you actually stand up to him and say "I don't like it when you do that." and then stay angry / leave until he... (read in full...)
It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend, any ideas?
Q. It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend... Any ideas??? Male and female answers welcome!!...
A. 27 January 2009: Take him for a dirty weekend away some where.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I don't know if he ever really loved me which sucks.
Q. Hi so there is so much going on in my life know first of all i had a boyfriend and he was my first one but we live together and I told my ex best friend and she told him and he denyed it and broke up with me this has happened 3 times and he has ...
A. 26 January 2009: This is why sex under 16 is illegal and dangerous. He used you for sex because you gave him it when ever he said anything nice to you.
Stop seeing him. Get your self tested for disease and pregnancy and don't have sex again till you are older an... (read in full...)
A question for the guys about long distance hookups.
Q. Here's a question for the guys please... If you had a one night stand with a girl that lived over 200 miles away, what would be your motivation for staying in contact with her through online chats?...
A. 26 January 2009: In case he's passing through your town again, most likely. My husband agrees.
Just because you have a relationship that is based purely on sex doesn't mean you can't be mates as well.
Chat to him and if you fancy meeting up for some fun again t... (read in full...)
Can you get gum disease by kissing?
Q. Iv heard that you can catch gum disease from people who have it through kissing and such, true or false? Slightly concerned as my boyfriend has some form of full blown gum disease, he's lost a majority of his teeth and everything, also its not from ...
A. 26 January 2009: If it's a genetic thing then it's probably not going to mean there are bacteria / virus / germs that can be passed to you.
If it means that he has sores, ulcers, or blood or anything nasty in his mouth then yes there is the possibility of you catc... (read in full...)
What should I get him for Valentine's Day?
Q. Hey... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and 7 months. What should I get him for valentines day?...
A. 26 January 2009: A weekend in Prague.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My family is being cruel towards me and accusing me of lying, what do I do?
Q. When I was eight years old I was raped in my bedroom by my Mother's then boyfriend while she was out. After that I was always afraid of men until my late teens. I am doing okay for myself now and have a very successful career. I finally decided to ...
A. 26 January 2009: Your sister is jealous of what you have with your finance. She sees everyone being great you you about the abuse and your bloke being amazing and standing up for you.
It's no wonder she's trying to make her self feel better by putting you down. It... (read in full...)
Should I just take it in my stride and be happy or try to change the impossible?
Q. I've been exclusively dating this man for over a year and although mostly a happy relationship, we seem to bump heads a lot. I'm 19 (turning 20 this year) and he's 20 (turning 21) so there isn't much of an age gap, yet somehow, he seems to be the i...
A. 26 January 2009: I'm sorry hun but some guys are just rubbish.
If he's lazy, stubborn, and abusive in order to win arguments then that's just the way he is. Therapy or whatever is not going to change his personality.
I know you love him but do you really want ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of my lisp?
Q. I'm 15 years old and I've had a lisp since I can remember. Does anyone know if there is ANYTHING I can do to get rid of it? I get called for it at school, it makes me feel so outside from everyone and I hate meeting and talking to new people. ...
A. 26 January 2009: Speech therapy works for some people and not for others.
Google it and put your town name and then you'd really have to be assessed to see if someone could help you or not.
To be honest though, people will find something else to pick on you a... (read in full...)
Is it ever too late to try ballet?
Q. Hey - I've always been fascinated by ballet and always wanted to give it a shot but never have. I'm finally now in a position to try but the thing is, I'm 19 and not a little girl any more - is it ever too late to try ballet?...
A. 26 January 2009: It's one of my new years resolutions to try ballet and I'm 25!
I thought it might be like yoga and step aerobics combined into one so fun and good for toning up.
Go for it and if you find a good adult class for beginners then let me know!
... (read in full...)
Would you sacrific your own happiness for someone else?
Q. Would you sacrific your own happiness for someone else? say you know that your significant other loves you dearly and you somehow fallen out of love with them. They are aware of it and you both are working to rekindle that love.. but you know that ...
A. 26 January 2009: You are mistaken if you think that staying with them is going to make them happy.
Do you know how horrible and soul destroying it is to be with someone when deep down you know they don't love you and may very well want someone else?
If you ... (read in full...)
Protected sex but fear of pregnancy.
Q. So my girlfriend and I had sex about a week ago and again 3 nights ago. Both times I used a condom and 100% sure that I never came. But she's worried that she might be pregnant because she just went ill, she has sore breasts, and her period is late. ...
A. 26 January 2009: It sounds like there is little to no chance of her being pregnant to me.
Has she been ill SINCE taking the morning after pill, or before.
If it was before then it could be anything, it doesn't have to be pregnancy. If it was since taking the... (read in full...)
Will I be stuck in this rut forever where I don't meet many girls?
Q. -Nearly 22 -Never had a girlfriend -Kissed once ( drunk ) -I really struggle talking to girls -No friends that are girls, not even 'Sorta' friends -Never approached a girl, but read everything on how to do it lol I feel a big void, never ha...
A. 26 January 2009: Well you say you go on holiday and go to pubs so what do you do there? Do you just sit with the guys in a corner and scowl? Do you work in a men only environment?
Next time you are out make it your mission to chat to ONE girl. It's going to be sc... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but he smokes weed...
Q. I am in a six moneth relationship with my boyfriend and we are very happy, loving and caring and affectionate towards each other, we get on so well and I've never been happier. the only problem is he occasionally smokes weed... its far from all the...
A. 26 January 2009: I think you have to talk to him about it. Yes it is maybe not your place to DEMAND he stops but you are fully entitled to tell him that you don't like drugs.
Ask him if he would ever consider giving it up.
He has to give it up of his own free ... (read in full...)
Sperm bank problems...
Q. Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...
A. 26 January 2009: This woman cannot get pregnant right now. She is mentally ill if she is willing to try and kill her self.
She was willing to abandon her other 2 children and risk her unborn child by trying to kill herself. That is not the action of a woman in... (read in full...)
Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me...
Q. Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. He doesn't want to break up. He still wants us to be together, and he doesn't want to date other girls. He gave me ...
A. 26 January 2009: Hun it's not something we can decide for you.
You can stay with him and it may turn out happily, or you may get absolutely BROKEN by it. The feeling of knowing you love someone but they don't love you is soul destroying.
What if he meets some... (read in full...)
Have I ruined the best thing that I've ever had in my life?
Q. I don't really understand this situation. I started talking to this guy online. We use to talk 3 years ago but stopped when he went into the army. We started talking again after New year i;m 18 he's 24 and he was really into me, gave me his numb...
A. 26 January 2009: This is not about you and "messing it up."
You met him when you were 15 so it's no wonder he ran scared. Now you are safe and legal he's flirting and will probably quite happily have sex with you.
However, it is highly unlikely that he will wan... (read in full...)
I told her if she had a termination we were over!!!
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and she recently found out she is pregnant, she wants to terminate. She's also only 22 and says she's not ready to have a child. When she told me I didn't talk to her for a week then told her I ...
A. 26 January 2009: Well you said those things and you stormed off and refused to speak to her for a week.
This hardly screams "responsible boyfriend / father." It's no wonder that she is planning the future with out you in mind.
Write her a letter and post ... (read in full...)
Should I take a claim out against the other firm?
Q. I was in a minor car crash on sat nite when out in the town with my friends. We were in a black taxi and another taxi company crashed into the side of us, flinging us all off our seats. I cut my face on the handle of the taxi and it's quite a nasty ...
A. 26 January 2009: You could get a lot of cash, but you could also put the other cab company out of business because they will no longer be able to afford insurance.
Suing is a very American thing, although it's also out of control on the continent as well.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a very tight foreskin, how can I make oral sex better for him?
Q. My new boyfriend (36) suffers phimosis, he says he's been told that circumcision might help but that it also might cause more problems, like difficulty healing, a lot of pain and that it might not help the discomfort after it does heal. I gave him ...
A. 26 January 2009: My husband had this problem and had the surgery when he was 12. He's been fine since then and there were no complications for him.
I know there are risks to do with the surgery but there are success stories too.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Controlling g/f of my friend is threatening our friendship
Q. my friend is making a big mistake!!! he is 19, and in pre-med school. His stupid girlfriend is a controling phycopath (i dont care abour spelling) she thinks she can control where he works, who he talks to, who he hangs out with, when they can hang ...
A. 26 January 2009: Sometimes you can't do anything about this kind of thing. The more you try, the more reason she will have to claim that you are bad and should be cut out.
You just have to back off and let him stop being so stupid as to fall for her.
At some... (read in full...)
What colors/styles /perfumes do guys like?
Q. Are there any specific hairsyles, clothing colors, scents, etc. that guys (in general like). i've heard they like vanilla and pink (but i don't wear pink) because they make them think of love or some crapola like that... any idea?...
A. 26 January 2009: Seriously you are not a fish. Male fish are attracted to bright colours and big tails.
Boys cannot be attracted just be putting your hair up and wearing lime green.
Grow up a bit and realise that boys are not that simple and they actually ha... (read in full...)
Sexless in soldier heaven
Q. my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...
A. 26 January 2009: Day times are easy... you can fill them with doing things, routine, xbox, phone calls, and everything else.
Evenings are alone time and also when they fire mortars, so it's no wonder this is when he has the problem.
Has she tried talking to... (read in full...)
I only like men who are like 20 years older than me
Q. I have a problem! I'm 14 and have only had one real boyfriend, sure ive had ones for like 1 day but only 1 real one. Since i turned 11 i havent liked one single person!! Is this weird? Ive been trying to think why, and iv'e realised that i onl...
A. 25 January 2009: Look at the boys your age... to be honest it's not surprising you don't like them. They are little boys, and men are far better.
HOWEVER!
This does not mean you should talk to any older guys or consider an actual relationship with them.
As... (read in full...)
Is this an affair?
Q. Ladies:- If your man was meeting up with a woman behind your back, just to help him out financially because she likes him a lot - would you consider this as having an affair?...
A. 25 January 2009: It is an affair if there are feelings there OR there is physical contact.
The fact he's going behind your back is worrying but is this because
a) he knew you'd kick off if he had a female friend
b) he didn't want you to know he was taking m... (read in full...)
Emotional games with guys are making me very unhappy
Q. Im so unhappy..I think my friends playing mind games although he says he isnt and ''respects me'' he flirts one minute, (when we are drunk he tries to kiss me most nights. we came close to having sex one night but we stopped).he acts distant and...
A. 25 January 2009: You asked this before and got good advice.
I suggest you take it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My b/f is constantly attacking and has tried to kill himself
Q. I love my boyfriend very dearly but now I'm unsure how to act with him because of his constant attacks which are pretty much unprovoked and the time he tried to kill himself. For example, I might mis pronounce something and he will totally fli...
A. 25 January 2009: Your boyfriend is mentally ill and needs medical help.
This has gone beyond anything that you can do to help him.
He need professional help now and not just kind words and being listened to, he needs diagnosis and possible medication as th... (read in full...)
I can't remember what happened after drinking
Q. Hello i have been with my wife 15 years we have been married 8 years we have got two lovely kids i love them all very much but the thing is when i go out drinking i never know when to stop and i always end up out of it and my family just get ...
A. 25 January 2009: You need to talk to her about this and really beg for forgiveness if you want to stay with her.
You have promised to go T-total which is a great first step but it will take a lot of hard work to re-gain her trust.
Give her a bit of time to c... (read in full...)
When I see him now I run away
Q. When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...
A. 25 January 2009: You are a child going through her first crush.
It's scary and you will be silly. You'll look back at this in a few years and laugh.
Enjoy your crush, and keep working hard in school.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
If a woman never complains about him, will a man take advantage of her or be more responsive?
Q. If a woman never complains, and is always pleasant and supportive, will a man take advantage of her or will he become more responsive? My sister privately agonizes over a gentleman who has admitted he is only interested in dating. She, however, i...
A. 25 January 2009: If you lie down and write "WELCOME" across your chest then you can't complain when people use you as a door mat.
You can sympathise with her and listen to her moaning but after a while you've just got to tell her that it's getting boring. ... (read in full...)
What should I write in my letter to my Army guy?
Q. my boyfriend is in the army and i want to write him a letter but i just dont know what to say i want to say something cute, loving, caring knowing im here for him and that i miss him but i just dont know how to write it can anybody help me write ...
A. 25 January 2009: If he's away to the point that you are writing to him by bluey then you are going to be writing a lot of these letters.
All he wants to know is basically what you have just said.
The best thing about blueys is that they are all free. I used to ... (read in full...)
We'll probably never meet so what does he want?
Q. i've been talking to this guy i met on the internet for about two months now. he is really lovely, we seem to be very similat and have the same ambitions. he makes me feel so special calling me beautiful and darling. this sounds awful but what does ...
A. 25 January 2009: He's just enjoying what you have.
These things don't have to have a label or a long term plan. You like talking to him, he likes talking to you, it's a bit of an ego boost for both of you to have a flirt with each other.
So enjoy it! If you... (read in full...)
Sexless in soldier heaven
Q. my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...
A. 25 January 2009: I have just been through exactly the same thing.
My hubbie came home from Iraq in December and it took us about 6 weeks before he was in the mood properly.
It is not your sister's fault and she just has be there for him for a while. Give him ... (read in full...)
Calls me babe& hun whats it mean?
Q. if a guy calls you babe and hun does that mean that he likes you ...
A. 25 January 2009: Nope it means he just does that.
Cab drivers call me that.
With no other information I can't give any other advice.
Sorry hun!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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