I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!
Q. I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...
A. 24 April 2009: You can't keep her locked up just because other guys are going to look at her.
Accept your girl is beautiful and SHE'S WITH YOU!!!
Enjoy the attention and put your arm around her, they are paying you a compliment after all.
Glad it went we... (read in full...)
I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!
Q. I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...
A. 15 April 2009: I'm really happy for you hun!
I thought it was a good sign that she kissed you but I didn't want to get your hopes up as I wasn't sure what kind of kiss it was.
And well done on making sure she knows that it's a no pressure date. I think yo... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid or have I got every right to be angry?
Q. okay here goes.... I was reading through my bf's phone earlier and found texts from 2 girls (they both work at the club he plays rugby for). He had deleted his sent items so I don't actually know what he said to them, but the texts from these g...
A. 10 April 2009: It sounds like crap to me.
I don't know him but my gut says that this excuse of his has more holes than a sieve.
Really really think about whether you want to be with a guy like this even if he's innocent and has friends who mess about with ... (read in full...)
Opinions on not marrying or having children
Q. I have been hesitating in asking, but ended up asking anyway since I want to know as much opinions as possible concerning this. I grew up in a loving family. I never had any abuse of any sort. Currently in a loving relationship with a man. I ...
A. 10 April 2009: Well I haven't tried it myself so I can't advise but it's used really widely and although there can be complications with it, you can always give it a try and if you don't like it you can always have it taken out.
Worth a try anyway.
Are the... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but is trying to break up with me...
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. We have talked about marriage and know that we want to be with each other forever but the past month there have been some fights and things haven't been picture perfect. I see this as growing but he ...
A. 10 April 2009: I think that by hanging around and endlessly talking and adding more emotional layers to the situation will only make him more confused and conflicted.
He obviously has problems and you need to make it simple for him.
Does he want you or not?... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid or have I got every right to be angry?
Q. okay here goes.... I was reading through my bf's phone earlier and found texts from 2 girls (they both work at the club he plays rugby for). He had deleted his sent items so I don't actually know what he said to them, but the texts from these g...
A. 10 April 2009: If they were texting him normal stuff and putting a X on the end then that would be nothing to worry about.
I put kisses on the ends of all my texts just through habit now. It means nothing really.
But his message to the girl with kisses and ... (read in full...)
Opinions on not marrying or having children
Q. I have been hesitating in asking, but ended up asking anyway since I want to know as much opinions as possible concerning this. I grew up in a loving family. I never had any abuse of any sort. Currently in a loving relationship with a man. I ...
A. 10 April 2009: I'm 25 and a bit like you.
I'm married and love having sex but have absolutely NO interest in having kids.
You can find a man who wants to be with you without the wedding and the kids. As long as you are honest with your boyfriend then i... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents? I think I'm pregnant
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and think I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. Should i tell my mom and dad? I need advice before i do anything. I've had sex 1 time but he pulled out and we used a condom. I told him we shouldn't do it anymore unless we're really ...
A. 10 April 2009: Don't do anything before getting a pregnancy test and seeing a doctor.
You could well be retaining water if being a bit round is your only symptom.
Go and get checked out and then if you ARE pregnant then tell your parents straight away.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but is trying to break up with me...
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. We have talked about marriage and know that we want to be with each other forever but the past month there have been some fights and things haven't been picture perfect. I see this as growing but he ...
A. 10 April 2009: Let me tell you that the absolute worst thing you could do right now is chase him, talk to him, be there for him or try and talk this out.
He's having doubts and you have to show him how he's risking losing you.
Tell him you are leaving him ... (read in full...)
Confuse on what to do, birth pills question
Q. I have a question on birth pills. I just started it a week ago. My period started on Tuesday, then I took the pills on the Sunday (end of the week) following the days on the strip. I had sex exactly a week after (the following Sunday) and no cond...
A. 10 April 2009: No problem!
Hope everything is ok in the end, I'm sure it will be.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's Muslim family wont accept me :-(
Q. i have been with this guy for 6 months and his family is Muslim, but he doesn't believe in that. i am white, and not Muslim, therefore they don't want me to go out with him. they found out about us, and forced him to break up with me. but we got ...
A. 10 April 2009: Right, until he commits to you and this is all sorted: NO SEX!
You don't want him to break up with you again after you have had sex with him for family reasons and then it be permanent. You will feel SO used.
As for his family, unfortunately un... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant, or is it just stress?
Q. About three weeks ago me and my bf had sex and he wanted to see what it felt like without a condom. So we didn't go all the way but he did go in. Lately I've has extreme nausea, i'm always tired, my boobs are really sensitive, and i pee a lot more ...
A. 10 April 2009: I really hope you are not pregnant.
Get a test to be sure.
If you are not then go and look up what childbirth actually looks like and how many people watch you poo yourself as you scream in pain.
You'll never let him "just find out how it fe... (read in full...)
Is it alright to not like anyone?
Q. Hey y'all waz up? I jus need to know is it alright to not like anyone? And LOVE not been with anyone? Cause my parents and a lot of other people say that there is something REALLY wrong with me...ex.... So I just need to know is it weird or ...
A. 10 April 2009: Then your parents are weird.
You don't have to fancy someone every hour of your life.
Perhaps you just haven't met anyone decent enough to fancy yet.
Tell them that you have high standards.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it alright to not like anyone?
Q. Hey y'all waz up? I jus need to know is it alright to not like anyone? And LOVE not been with anyone? Cause my parents and a lot of other people say that there is something REALLY wrong with me...ex.... So I just need to know is it weird or ...
A. 10 April 2009: So you are saying you don't have a crush on anyone at the moment and your parents think that is strange?
I'm still confused.
Could you try and use some sentences for me? Sorry.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Love and Marriage
Q. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. I have had some jealousy issues with good reason because of infidelity. He plays an online game and chats with the other teammates not even knowing if their a female or male. A few weeks ago I woke u...
A. 10 April 2009: Oh dear, yes you can fall out of love with someone but the good news is that you can fall IN love with them again.
Let's say your name is Sarah.
He meets you and he falls for you. You are cool and have dreams and thoughts and you click and ch... (read in full...)
I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!
Q. I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...
A. 10 April 2009: Having someone poor their heart out to you is a bit scary to be honest.
I mean when someone says "I love you!" there is no way you can respond to that unless you are saying "I love you too!"
I know you wanted to sing it all to the skies about ... (read in full...)
Am I a needy girlfriend?
Q. I know most people define needy girlfriends as being too possessive; which I am not. However, I do try and get him to spend some time with me a lot. Thing is though, it never works. We're both in High School, so we dont have time consuming jobs yet...
A. 10 April 2009: It makes you a massive drama queen, but I'm not sure about needy.
He didn't lie to you, he was just a bit rubbish and his plans changed and he forgot about the buses.
You could always arrange to meet him somewhere outside your house. Other pla... (read in full...)
Will a girl stop taking care of her body when they get into a relationship?
Q. I know this sounds really shallow, but I'm scared that if I ever get in a serious relationship with a girl she'll stop taking care of her body. And then in a few years she won't look pretty any more she'll just look fat. Is there a way to make sure ...
A. 10 April 2009: Well you could try putting some effort in yourself and keeping YOUR figure in check.
If you are taking her out cycling up mountains and to theme parks and jogging to see the sunrise then she isn't going to get fit.
If you get together with he... (read in full...)
Is it alright to not like anyone?
Q. Hey y'all waz up? I jus need to know is it alright to not like anyone? And LOVE not been with anyone? Cause my parents and a lot of other people say that there is something REALLY wrong with me...ex.... So I just need to know is it weird or ...
A. 10 April 2009: Do you mean like as in you hate every single human being on the planet?
If so, then yes, that is a bit odd. I suggest you take up a job in the North Pole.
If you mean you don't have a crush at the moment then there is absolutely nothi... (read in full...)
Do tampons pop your cherry?
Q. Hey I started my period when I was 11 years old and I am now 15 and I have also started wearing tampons. My friend told me that it pops your cherry becuase it hurts. It did hurt me when I first started wearing them but they dont anymore. Is this ...
A. 10 April 2009: Well it depends how you define your virginity.
If you want to be like a Victorian lady and go by the fact that the tiny tiny bit of skin over your vagina is in tact then you best take up sowing and stay indoors because lots of things break th... (read in full...)
Want more than a casual relationship
Q. Morning, my question seems normal in todays times, yet i don't understand. See, i'm not in a relationship, relationship with this guy, some call it a casual relationship or friends with benefits,his reason for not wanting a serious relationship just ...
A. 10 April 2009: You can't show him that you are amazing in some way that he has magically overlooked till now. There is no spell you can say that will suddenly make him change his mind and tell you he wants a girlfriend and not a laid back companion.
If he doesn... (read in full...)
At the end of the day, does age really decide whether you will be "together forever"?
Q. I always see people making comments such as "you're too young, it will never last" and "it won't last forever because you're too young". But I was wondering, is that actually a general belief? Does everyone think that, just because you are in your ...
A. 10 April 2009: Yes you can feel real love at 16.
But since you have nothing to compare it to, then you may think that any little crush / infatuation / bit of lust / is in fact OMG UNDYING LOVE!!!!11
We all thought our first serious boyfriend was THE ONE and ... (read in full...)
2 years into the relationship, he still calls me by his ex's name!
Q. my boyfriend was with a girl for 7yrs,and they split up. a year after splitting up from his ex,he met me. we've been together for over a year now. in the early stages he called me by his ex's name,which i didn't like but i understood,maybe it was ...
A. 10 April 2009: Well you just need to stay strong and keep getting upset.
He needs to know that he NEEDS to be more careful what he says and he will only do that when he KNOWS that bad things will happen if he does it.
He can cry and buy you stuff every time... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to bring up the topic of using condom?
Q. I'm on birth control and he pulls out but am I still running a high risk for pregnancy??? And I was wondering if anybody had some good tips on bringing up the idea of a condom to him...especially because we have been involved sexually many ti...
A. 10 April 2009: Just say it.
"I had a pregnancy talk at college and it's made me paranoid. I want us to start using condoms."
If he bitches about it then he dosen't care about you.
You should ALWAYS be in control when it comes to this kind of thing. It's... (read in full...)
Fake or real friends or both on face book?
Q. i joined face book i think it was idea for me .because no write to you unless you have television or something. i joined face book a month and no body has added me as friend.there one guy who has been tv he has 191 friends.all because hes been tv t...
A. 10 April 2009: All the people on my facebook are people I have already met in real life.
Go out and join some clubs and groups and make some real friends.
Facebook is great but it is something to add to your social life, not to start one.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Pregnant while taking mini pill?
Q. Could i be pregnant while taking the mini pill? i take the mini pill, i'm on my 5th month now. i do always take the pill within the 3 hour window but have also taken it 5mins out of that window. For the last 2 weeks i have been feeling overly t...
A. 10 April 2009: I'm on Femulen and I hate it. I get odd bleeding and strange symptoms too.
I have odd periods all over the place as well for varying lengths of time.
I think if you tested negative you should be ok as you've been taking it properly and eve... (read in full...)
Her past FWB, it's killing me...
Q. Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One nigh...
A. 9 April 2009: When she says she didn't care about him, I don't think she meant she cold bloodedly seduced him and used him.
She probably cared about him as a friend and it was just something that happened but didn't lead to anything.
There are so many ques... (read in full...)
Should I trust my g/f? She got drunk and stayed in a hotel with another guy
Q. My girlfriend won't come anywhere near me.She treats me like some sort of idiot. We have been together for some 8 months now and haven't slept together. She has had quite a few previous sexual partners, myself having had only 1. Recently she got ...
A. 9 April 2009: This looks very very bad.
Are you sure you two are even boyfriend / girlfriend??
I go and get drunk with male friends but I wouldn't stay in a hotel room with them because it's just not done when you are with someone.
I really think you ne... (read in full...)
My bf is suddenly taking a disinterest in his appearance. Should I be concerned?
Q. B/f of 3 yrs suddenly taken a disinterest in his appearance. I don't want to hurt his feelings but it's getting frustrated. He doesn't seem to be depressed, is behaving normal in all other areas, but doesn't shower and wash his hair as often and ...
A. 9 April 2009: Ok, the gut thing is easy as you just get all "caring" and slightly irritating about how much it increases his risk of heart attack etc etc and then make him go swimming with you and romantic LONG walks by the river etc.
As for the rest, you just... (read in full...)
Can you take the morning pill 2X in one cycle?
Q. i was told that u can get pregnant by pre come so wen i had a 1 nite stand i thought i ought to take the morning after pill,evern though tthe bloke didnt come.two days after i took it i slept with some 1 else and he did come inside me,i didnt take ...
A. 9 April 2009: If the nurse said it was ok then you are probably ok.
However what you need to do it get the coil, or the implant or the pill.
Also, you need a full STI screen.
Use condoms!!!!!!!!!!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love after only 4 days?
Q. hey ok heres the situation...the 2 days ago me and my best frend went round to her cousins house.as soon as i saw her 19yr old cousin i was speechless!! ever sice that day me and her cousin have been in contact all the time and we have met up ...
A. 9 April 2009: You can definitely trip and fall... whether when you hit the bottom it is love, or if you'll get to know him a bit more and realise it's just a fantastic bit of lust towards someone you click with... well you'll just have to wait and see.
Good ... (read in full...)
How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?
Q. Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if...
A. 9 April 2009: Sweetheart the only girls he will have seen are in porn so don't ask him what he thinks is normal.
As long as there isn't any peeping out from the sides of your pants then just stay as you are.
You don't need to try and live up to some weird id... (read in full...)
Pregnant, unemployed, no government benefits. I'm worried about my baby's health. What can I do?
Q. I have recently discovered that I'm pregnant. I have been doing my research and i have a lot of course for concern. I don't have a job, I'm not entitled to receive job seekers allowance, I can't get a penny from anyone because i live with my b...
A. 9 April 2009: Head down to to the Citizens Advice Beaureau.
I am sure you must be entitled to something.
Either that or are there no shop jobs of waitress jobs or ANYTHING that will get you a bit of cash coming in.
All I can suggest is that you go s... (read in full...)
Vasectomy and ED .. are they related?
Q. my man had a vasectomy about a year ago here recently he has a problem of keeping it up we have tried a lot of different things like foreplay or him doing the deed before we have sex and a ot of other things nothing works and after he gets off it w...
A. 9 April 2009: I think Old Guy has it right.
Men may not want kids but their idea of their own Manliness depends a lot on the fact that they could go out and impregnate an army of super models should the opportunity arise.
I think as women we will never under... (read in full...)
I think my husband is in denial about his sexuality!
Q. i am having problems with my husband of 7 years. i believe that he is bisexual, but in denial what do i do?...
A. 9 April 2009: I agree with the anonymous person.
If he's your husband then his sexuality doesn't matter.
He's committed to you so if he also is a bit of a fan of Brad Pitt then it means nothing.
Leave him to it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
10 years of verbal abusive and now he wants a real relationship!
Q. What I do not understand is this guy and I had a relationship for over 10 year. I officially ended the relationship last year. We still try to communicate, with one another. But it only leaves me frustrated, because he couldn't communicate then and ...
A. 9 April 2009: He's getting old, he's found that other women don't stay around when he treats them badly... so he's come back to you, his faithful doormat to see if you fancy wasting another 10 years on him.
He knows you are weak because you put up with him for ... (read in full...)
He wants his space?!? But he is always coming over!
Q. Hello, Boys and girls, I need your help, I have been in long term relationships before, and they ended. I think I am partly responsible, because I lack confidence in myself sometimes. Here it is, my boyfriend and I have been together for abo...
A. 9 April 2009: Well if he wants to come over and sit about being boring, eating your food and having sex with you but not much else then I'm sorry to say it sounds like he may be using you.
As Zarathustra says, men are very capable of just taking what is on of... (read in full...)
Do we have to wait 2 more weeks before we find out if she is pregnant?
Q. My gf and I had sex a couple of times without protection in the last couple of days.. i didnt cum in her ...i withdrew and cummed outside...that im sure off... but i know i should have used a condom but now im kinda scared! she is gona take the ...
A. 9 April 2009: I got that statistic from Wiki - and I followed it up on the source with is a US government study so I am happy to take that as being pretty much a fact.
In answer to how soon can you have an abortion:
The sooner the better.
If it's just a ... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out! My best mate grabbed my penis at the urinals!
Q. okay this was a really awkward moment,and im totaly freaked out!! okay me and my best bud "M" went to the movies and it was kool... after the movie was done we both had to take a piss so we went to the mens room, and we were using the urinals-...
A. 6 April 2009: Yes he's a teenage boy, but seriously, if a guy tried to show me he liked me as more than a friend by grabbing any part of my anatomy then he would have got slapped - HARD.
I think you are right to be freaked out and I'm very glad you didn't p... (read in full...)
Do I hang in there, or move on?
Q. Do u think this is unreasonable. Me and my boyfriend haven't seen it other much recently due to the fact i always feel that he is too busy to see me. And i get so lonely and upset cos im in love with him so much and i don't think he feels the ...
A. 6 April 2009: After 3 years together in your mid 20's you really have to ask yourself where this is going.
In fact you have to ask him where this is going!
You are not 17.
If you want a relationship that is content to drift along forever and ever then th... (read in full...)
Is it a sign that our friendship isn't as strong as I feel?
Q. I have been friends with a girl from school for about a year now and things have been going pretty well. Right now, I am a student whilst she is in full time work. Our age gap is very close and we often meet for a catch up as we live close to each...
A. 6 April 2009: Yes you right in being annoyed.
But remember she could just be having a bad day or something.
Give her a chance to contact you again and see if she apologises. Or makes a bit more effort.
If she doesn't then you just have to write her off as... (read in full...)
Advice please. My daughter is living and in love with her pimp :-(
Q. I'm lost! Recently found out my daughter is dancing for money and is living with her pimp. She won't leave him because she feels she safe and that she is in love with him. Is there anything I can do to save my daughter from this? Is there anyone ...
A. 6 April 2009: I've not been in this situation... but I have done things my mother would not approve of.
Just remember that if you tell her that what she is doing is wrong, and you hate it, then she has two options:
Admit she is wrong and stupid and come ... (read in full...)
He wants his space?!? But he is always coming over!
Q. Hello, Boys and girls, I need your help, I have been in long term relationships before, and they ended. I think I am partly responsible, because I lack confidence in myself sometimes. Here it is, my boyfriend and I have been together for abo...
A. 6 April 2009: He maybe coming over but does he literally just turn up?
Do you ring and ask him to come over? Do you hint that you'd like him to come over?
I think you just need to leave him for a while and stop panicking. It doesn't help so just give yourse... (read in full...)
Would this be too clingy?
Q. This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I ...
A. 6 April 2009: Well if you are just "seeing each other" every now and then then not talking a lot is going to be part of that.
It sounds like you want more, but to be honest, I think if he wanted more then he would be making more effort because he would WANT to ... (read in full...)
Do we have to wait 2 more weeks before we find out if she is pregnant?
Q. My gf and I had sex a couple of times without protection in the last couple of days.. i didnt cum in her ...i withdrew and cummed outside...that im sure off... but i know i should have used a condom but now im kinda scared! she is gona take the ...
A. 5 April 2009: Well get the morning after pill and you should be ok.
After that then yes you may have to wait a couple of weeks to find out.
If she is more than a few days late then you can take a test.
The withdrawal method of contraception (what's wh... (read in full...)
Confuse on what to do, birth pills question
Q. I have a question on birth pills. I just started it a week ago. My period started on Tuesday, then I took the pills on the Sunday (end of the week) following the days on the strip. I had sex exactly a week after (the following Sunday) and no cond...
A. 31 March 2009: If you've taken the pill correctly as it told you to on the instructions then no you should be protected.
If you are worried then go to the family planning clinic and have a chat with them about how to take the pill right and everything else.
... (read in full...)
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