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My boyfriend of ten months, likes to be with his friends more than me, when we get together he makes me cry or gets me mad, I am thinking of dumping him, would you?
Q. SO I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO IS INTO HIS HOMIES MORE THEN ME I MEAN LIKE WE HARLY TALK AND WHEN WE DO HE AKES ME CRY OR GETS E MAD WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 10 MONTHS and I DONT EVEN GET TO SEE HIM BUT LIKE I SAID HE ALWAYS ENDS UP GETTING ME MAD ...
A. 7 August 2008: Homies means the gang who hangs out with him. Yes I would dump him!!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stole money from my parents' house. I'm not sure what to do.
Q. I have found out my b/f has stole a lot of money from my parents house and lied to me about it. My parents know and wont let him in the house ever and are debating to call the police! I love him but I cant trust him....not sure what to do. Can ...
A. 7 August 2008: Dump this low life, how dare he steal from your parents. No way is he good boyfriend material,not only has he abused your trust he has abused your parent's trust and he should be reported to the police. Find a nice young man, who will repect your... (read in full...)
He wants to meet up for sex, and I do too, but how can I be sure he's not a psycho?
Q. I think I already know the answer to this one, because of what my friends have said - but I need a second opinion. I recently met a guy online through our blogs and we've been emailing quite frequently. He's suggesting that we meet up for sex,...
A. 6 August 2008: Why would you want to degrade yourself, just by meeting random men and having sex with them? He is either a psycho or a pervert who gets his kicks, through having casual sex with women he meets online. Obviously you are new to this sort of thi... (read in full...)
After a great night with him, he hasn't called me!
Q. This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end ...
A. 6 August 2008: Call me old fashioned, but when you date a new guy surely you get to know the guy before you get intimate with them.
Of course he acted like he was into you, he wanted to get what he wanted and then move on to his next conquest. If you want any... (read in full...)
I'm dating an unsuccessful older man, but I ask myself, what could I possibly be attracted to?
Q. I recently started dating an older, divorced man with two young children. I am a young career oriented sucessful women and he is a little less then ambitious older men. I ask myself what could i possibly be attracted to? Yes the sex is great but ...
A. 6 August 2008: Darling if you want a rich SUGAR DADDY. Join Sugar Daddy.com dating service. You seem a very materialistic young lady, who wants a man for his money and not what he can offer you emotionally. This dating service seems right up your street. (Sorry I ... (read in full...)
BF constantly asks 4 money. What should I do?
Q. Ive been dating my current boyfriend going on three years. He's 37 i'm 24. When i first met things were nice...he seemed to be all about me. I dont know how it started with him asking for money but its turned into an everyday thing. He has no shame ...
A. 6 August 2008: You have been with this loser for three years????? What I found more unbelievable is that you choose to have children with him too. Answer me this.... What things has he bought for you and the children? I would have showed this total w**ker (a... (read in full...)
We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...
A. 6 August 2008: Go and see a sex counsellor and see why she is holding back from penetration. Her problem could be more deep rooted than you think.... (read in full...)
This girl keeps undermineing everything I say even when I know I'm 100% right...what do I do??
Q. There is this girl on my course who always seems to undermine me, no matter what I do. At first I thought maybe she was just irreverent with everybody but now I feel convinced that everytime we have a friendly conversation she picks at what I say, ...
A. 5 August 2008: Just tell her to put a sock in it!!!... (read in full...)
Should I accept that he sleeps with other girls -What Does he Mean By I want "more"?
Q. Recently having met a new man he seems fairly interested BUT he says he doesnt want a relationship and he has also said he "fears" I want "more" because he mentioned someone he was flirting with and I said it wasnt nice when he had invited me out ...
A. 3 August 2008: Leave him to it to do whatever he wants! If I was you I would value myself better and not have anything to do with this stupid excuse of a human being.... (read in full...)
If a guy adds girls from myspace who look like they have nothing on....what does it say about him as a person?
Q. Has anyone ever seen those girls on myspace which get random adds from people all over the world? You know, with the really big boobs and barely any clothes on? Well they have g-string/thong but you cant even see the string bit, so it looks liek ...
A. 3 August 2008: Are you the girl that posted a thread about your boyfriend wanting to take your clothes off???... (read in full...)
This guy is pressuring me to take my clothes off....what do I do??
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and he keeps trying to pressure me into taking my clothes off. I keep saying no because Im not comfortable with that yet as its too soon. But I do like him. Anyway, today he said something to me ...
A. 3 August 2008: You should have turn round and said... "Yes but Jessica Alba is not dating an ASSHOLE like you"!!!!... (read in full...)
Suffering because of my virginity - but it is my choice to be a virgin, until I meet my ideal girl. Do you think she exists?
Q. My dear friends I need advice... Tell me if you this I'm crazy or not... I am a virgin, and the age of 21. Why am I a virgin? because it's my choice. I have had many, many chances to have sex, and yet...I want to waitti marriage. Not jsut for...
A. 2 August 2008: Darling I have just read your list and I must say that I am totally gobsmacked. Unless you have a magic wand and create this girl from thin air, then I think finding this girl will be like finding a needle in a haystack.
You have to be totally ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sms-ed a girl telling her that he loves her. What do I do now?
Q. ok so my boyfriend texts alot to his friends, at first it didnt bother me because hes intitled to text whoever he wants, well he rectently got back from a trip and after the trip hes been very protective of his phone, and i notice hes always texting ...
A. 2 August 2008: What a Dirty Rat!!! Hun, he is definately got someone else, otherwise why would he be so secretive. I agree with ilikesox, confront him and then dump this dumbass.... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: You can actually block this guy from your msn or whatever chat service you use. Just right click onto his name and press block and delete, hopefully that will be the last you here from this weirdo.... (read in full...)
Does anyone have a good story or had any luck with 'Online Dating Agencies?
Q. So I finally broke down and decided to test out the online dating scene, and to say the least, I'm not impressed. I wasted an hour or so of my time filling out the eharmony survey... just for them to tell me I'm not an acceptable match. Great. Now ...
A. 2 August 2008: Internet dating is like window shopping, you know you check each others profiles,pics etc, to see if you are compatible. I met my guy 10 months ago on Smooch.com dating service, which 100% free. Some online dating companies want you to pay fees for ... (read in full...)
My first love broke my heart but I continue to have sex with him! How do I let go?
Q. Back in December my first love broke my heart. I didn't want to date for a long time. But, I met this boy in school and automatically fell for him. We only dated for little over a month but were together every waking second. Once we broke up we ...
A. 2 August 2008: Honey you are far too young to be having sex in the first place. He is tugging on your heart strings, by playing with your emotions. He has made it clear, he does not want a relationshop with you and that he wants to have his cake and eat it with ... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: This man is a dirty little pervert!!! He must do this sort of thing to other girls too. Please do not agree to meet him, he is dangerous. He does not love you, because he has never met you and he would not force you to get naked on cam.
Some ... (read in full...)
Which method is best for removing hair on my upper lip?
Q. Hey, Im a girl and I have hair that grows above my top lip and its horrible. (I don't like referring to it as a "tash" because that just makes it sound worse, lol). I hate it so so much. It makes me feel ugly and manly. Im afraid to look at any l...
A. 1 August 2008: You probably had a slight reaction with the hair removal cream, always do a skin test before you use any cream.
Here is a little tip. Rub a very thin layer of vaseline before you put hair removal cream on your face. this will help prevent getting ... (read in full...)
Is it rude not to respond to a text right away?
Q. I have a question about texting. So I've been chatting/texting this guy i really like for a while now. The thing is...is it rude to not respond right away to a question? Sometimes he ignores it and sometimes he takes a day to response. I ...
A. 1 August 2008: If you appear too needy this can scare guys. What is wrong with phoning each other?... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: Tell her to join "SUGAR DADDY.COM" dating service. Where there are guys who are only to willing to spoil this nasty little brat.
You are far too good for her my dear, period!... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.
Q. In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...
A. 30 July 2008: BRAVO!!!! Troubledtomuch, I read your first answer and you put across the worst case scenario really well. It shows you have great respect for your wife and may you have more many happy years together. You have made my day :D... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.
Q. In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...
A. 30 July 2008: How can you say you feel torn by your children and your lover?
You are talking utter rubbish, children are there for life, lovers just come and go! If you was any sort of father, you would do the right thing and do what is best for the chil... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.
Q. In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...
A. 30 July 2008: How utterly disheartening that you want to take one of your children away from their mother and sibling and set a up a cosy love nest with your 21 year old lover. Words fail me! Do you realise how heartless this is coming across to all the Aunts... (read in full...)
I love her and care for her, but I feel like I'm being suffocated; I tried telling her this before, but she burst into tears.
Q. I have always sucked at this part and am not sure what to do... I'm 31 and have been dating a girl for about 15 months now. She's also 31, very nice, and we share a great deal in common. There have been some issues since the beginning of our...
A. 29 July 2008: Oh my God you poor thing, she really is suffocating you. Is it because she is so co-dependant on you that your family and friends do not like her?
Seeing eachother 4/5 times a week is rather a lot, you should not have to fit your friends and fami... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?
Q. My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a ...
A. 29 July 2008: So young man did you get the answer you wanted???? No I thought not!!
I hope for your sake she does not find out about you finding her sexually unattractive and that you are sniffing out a new bit of skirt. Otherwise you would have to live with the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends birthday is coming and I have no idea what to get him-any suggestions?
Q. My boyfreinds birthday is coming out and i have no idea what to get him.He is a country boy ..I want to get him something special that he can keep and something that means something but i have no idea what that could be...If anyone has got some idea ...
A. 29 July 2008: Oh my God, its my fella's birthday today and getting him a present was soooo hard. I bought him a nice shirt, but unfortunately it is too small EEEK!!! So later on I am going to the mall to excahnge it for a bigger size and later on we are going for ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for the woman to pay for everything in a relationship?
Q. okay my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months and i just want to know if its normal for the woman to pay for almost everything. WAIT...i know what ur gonna say "hes a feeloader" "hes not worth it" But i love him with all of my ...
A. 29 July 2008: No it is not normal for a woman to pay everything on dates. This man is using you and should have the grace to offer to pay on dates, whether you split the bill 50/50 or he pays for everything.
How can you say he is the best boyfriend you ever had... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?
Q. My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a ...
A. 29 July 2008: Oh for for the love of God, please stop flirting with other women. Of course the shape of her body is going alter while she is pregnant. How do you think babies grow? Under the ground like a plant! Women are at their most vulnerable when ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for making my boyfriend stop talking to these girls?
Q. Alright my boyfrien and i have cellphones when i met him he had girls number and so did I have guys numbers.We didn't start caring untill we started to fall in love. I made him clear out his numbers and i cleared out mine but alot of his numbers ...
A. 29 July 2008: Hey hun, just because you are dating this guy it doesn't mean that you own him. If you are not careful you could drive your bf away, because of your lack of trust and insecurities.
He is entitled to have female friends, just as much as you have... (read in full...)
Can one ignore her first and only sexual experience, an unpleasant one, and consider herself a virgin?
Q. if losing your virginity is a state of mind is it acceptable for a girl to want to ignor her first intercourse (being unpleasent one) and concider her self still a vigin untill willingly giving her self, (it only being her second time?) [Added from...
A. 29 July 2008: I think the reason why she kept this awful secret from you for a year is because she did not lose her virginity in a very romantic way. The poor girl was raped and she wanted to see if she could trust you before admitting what had happened to her. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him?
Q. Hey guys im kinda freaking out cuz i want to have sex with this guy, im 13 and im still a virgin but really love him and he's so sexy lol, so GUYS should i give hima blowjob first? )give me advice to give a nice blowjob lol) and wat do guys like in ...
A. 28 July 2008: Honey it is illegal for this young man to have sex with you, he can get into serious trouble and will be put on a sex offenders register. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HAVE THAT ON YOUR CONSCIENCE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
You are physically and emotiona... (read in full...)
How will he react if I stop having sex with him?
Q. I really like this guy who basically just used me for sex. I wanted to date him but he saw our relationship as "friends with benefits" He said he cared about me and I think he kinda did, he just didnt want a relationship. He did boyfriend stuff with ...
A. 27 July 2008: He won't be mad or sad by not having sex with you. He will most probably move on and find another willing partner. I think you should move on and find a guy who wants you and not just your body. Jerks like him are a dime a dozen. Good luc... (read in full...)
I'm ready but a little scared that he might not be "the one", should I give him my virginity or not?
Q. i was wondering.me and my b/f has been datin 4 7 mths and he dosnt rlly pressure me he has told me he wants to do it..im ready and i want to have sex with my b/f but im a lil scared tht he might not be the one should i give him my virginlatity or ...
A. 27 July 2008: Although you have been with him for 7 months, and you are not sure he is the one. Are you scared to give your virginity to him because you guys may break up in the future? Have you discussed with him about the future and where this relationshi... (read in full...)
Are there any doctors out there?
Q. hey i know this isn't a usual question but if there are any doctors out there i could use some help??? thanks in advance (:...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi Honey I am not a doctor, what seems to be the problem ?and I can see if us Aunts can help.... (read in full...)
What is a Jack the Lad?
Q. I have recently star6ted seeing a young man and we seem to be getting on well. His sister I get on very well with and she4 confided in me and said I know he is my brother but watch out and dont egt huirt as he has always BEN A AJck Teh Lad. ...
A. 24 July 2008: It means that he is a player.... (read in full...)
Is meeting people from Internet dates a bad thing?
Q. Dating people off the internet and going to meet them is a bad thing? I dunno why but feel tense if I tell my parents where my new partner came from if i did find someone of internet......
A. 23 July 2008: Internet dating is only safe if you follow the correct guidelines.
1. Tell your parents or close friend about your intentions about dating a guy off the net.
2. Chat via email or msn a good few weeks or months, so you can build up a trust with ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to do an abortion myself.
Q. okay, so im 14 and about a week ago, i had sex. and we didnt use a condom. but heres the thing, it was in the pool. im affraid to tell my parents that i might be preggo. and i dont want to tell them at all. my bf bought a preggo test, but i have to ...
A. 23 July 2008: Under no circumstances perform an abortion yourself it is highly dangerous. If you are pregnant, then I would think clearly in your mind what to do about it. Please keep in touch and let us know if you are pregnant, then we can take it from there.... (read in full...)
He says he likes me and wants to date me, but keeps getting back together with his ex instead!
Q. i like this guy but there have been problems and things that have come in the way, he was datin this girl for months then they broke up and he said i liked him as number 2 , then i was number 1 but after this he got back with his ex then they broke ...
A. 22 July 2008: Don't put up with it, kick his sorry ass to the kerb.... (read in full...)
The thought of getting caught really turns me on!
Q. the thought of getting caught really turns me on when were having sex, i know it sounds really strange. when me and my boyfriend are having sex, i prefer to do it like, in his bedroom when his parents are in, or in his car, where its risky, i dont ...
A. 22 July 2008: I used to love outdoor sex when I was a teen, especially in a forest with my then boyfriend. Be careful doing it in the car, otherwise the boys in blue might catch you and arrest you for public indecency.... (read in full...)
If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?
Q. I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I wa...
A. 20 July 2008: Darling!!! Why on earth do you want to get engaged at your age? By all means have fun hanging out with your fella, but you are far too young for that sort of commitment.
You have got years ahead to get married, I am not lecturing you hun. I am jus... (read in full...)
He sleeps separately from his wife and I've waited 2 years! Why won't he give me a time frame?
Q. I've been in love with a man for 2 years who is married. He loves me very much, wants to marry me, and plans to move out of home. I believe him - don't think it's just another married man has an affair episode. He sleeps separately from his wife ...
A. 20 July 2008: He sounds like a good Catholic!!!! Not!!! Cathlics are suppost to be against adultery, or does his Catholicism only comes out on special occasions like Christmas and Easter? If he tells you that he is not sleeping with the missus, I bet your botto... (read in full...)
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